10. Risvegliare l'istinto dell'eroe
Okay, this one will probably trigger many feminists out there, but here is the harsh truth: you have to make a guy feel in charge if you want him to chase you. No, I’m not telling you to become a submissive woman who listens to his orders – that would turn him off as well.
I’m just advising you to let him be the man. The best way to do this is to risvegliare il suo istinto di eroe.
Vedete, tutti gli uomini hanno il bisogno innato di proteggere le donne a cui tengono. Il vostro uomo non è diverso.
Vuole che lo vediate come il cavaliere dall'armatura scintillante. Vuole essere il vostro salvatore, anche se in realtà non c'è nulla da cui dobbiate essere salvati.
But, hey, let’s keep the magic alive. Imagine that you’re in a fairytale, and from time to time, you act like a damsel in distress.
Ask for his advice, let him help you with little things, and show him that he’s the first person you call whenever you’re in trouble. He’ll appreciate the feeling he gets when he’s with you, and he’ll chase you even more.