10 sinais de que ele não vai voltar a ligar-te

O namoro é, sem dúvida, uma grande selva incerta que o obrigará sempre a pensar demasiado e a passar horas intermináveis à espera das esperadas chamadas e mensagens de texto.

So, you’ve been on a date with a guy you’re crazy about, you’re one hundred percent sure that the date was successful, and it turns out you’re right about it.

Or you’ve been on a date with a guy you’re crazy about and even though you think the date was successful, you’ve never received a call from him.

Depois, começa a pensar no que poderia ter corrido mal ou no que poderia ter feito para arruinar as hipóteses de ele a convidar um segundo encontro.

But, the worst part of all is stubbornly waiting next to your phone and still hoping that the guy will call you, when deep down in your soul, you know that you’re just postponing disappointment.

Para evitar esta antecipação inebriante da próxima vez que estiver à espera de uma chamada, eis 10 sinais de que ele não vai estar a chamar-te de volta, so you definitely shouldn’t bother wasting your time on waiting for him!

1. Não há química de conversação

Agora, o que é que significa ter química de conversação? Significa, de facto, ter algo para falar.

When your conversation flows and there’s simply no space for awkward moments of silence, then you know you have conversation chemistry.

But, if the majority of your time spent together was filled with awkward silence and forcing of the next topics, then he’ll probably not be calling you back.

2. Argumentos constantes

É perfeitamente compreensível que as pessoas tenham as suas próprias opiniões sobre determinados assuntos e, nesse caso, a contradição torna-se inevitável.

But, if there are constant arguments between the two of you on even the most trivial topics, then it is evident that you lack connection. In that case, you shouldn’t be expecting his call.

3. Disseste algo de errado (ou ele disse)

The date was pretty satisfying until one crucial point where you said something wrong (or he did), there was this awkward silence for a minute or more, and you didn’t know how to escape the embarrassing situation.

The moment you said it, you knew that your date would end badly and you saw it in his eyes as well, but still there was hope that he will call you, even though deep down in your soul you knew he wouldn’t.

4. Mantém uma conversa amigável mas não sedutora

Se um rapaz está cem por cento determinado a manter a conversa amigável e a evitar quaisquer sinais de sedução, as suas intenções são provavelmente diferentes do que poderia ter pensado.

By doing this, he’s subtly letting you know that he likes you on a friendship level, but he’s not really attracted to you on a deeper level, and that is why he won’t want to call you back.

5. Começa a dizer que está muito ocupado

If you’ve let him know that you would like to see him again and the moment you said it, he immediately started mentioning how busy he is, then you know he’s just arranjar desculpas so that he doesn’t feel obliged to call you.

Arranjar desculpas está intimamente ligado ao facto de não estar interessado num segundo encontro. Esta é a forma de ele lhe dizer isto educadamente.

6. He isn’t really interested in your life and doesn’t tell you much about his

If a guy is not interested in your life, preferences, hobbies, job, friends and family, and anything else, then he’s not really interested in getting to know you better.

Also, if he refuses to tell you about his life, it also means he’s trying hard to maintain the distance between you because he’s probably only interested in a one night stand.

7. He’s late and he doesn’t give you a warning

If he knew that he was going to be late and he didn’t tell you a shit about it, it means he deliberately decided not to give a fuck about how you will feel about it.

His intentions are definitely not to be trusted and you surely shouldn’t be wasting your time waiting next to your cell phone for his call.

8. Passa mais tempo a olhar em volta da sala do que tu

If you’re wondering how to decipher a fuckboy, just look at his behavior when you’re in a public place. Do his eyes often wander and does he find it hard to concentrate on you?

If yes, it means he’s not really interested in passar tempo consigo, his only intention is to get into your pants. And if he doesn’t call you, you should consider yourself lucky.

9. Caminha à tua frente no teu encontro

If a guy evidently avoids walking next to you or avoids holding hands on a date, he’s trying to be “invisible.” He walks in front of you because, obviously, he doesn’t want to be seen on a date with you.

And he won’t be calling you so that he doesn’t ruin his future potential dates with other women. Lame, I know.

10. Sem beijo de boa noite

É muito difícil para qualquer homem que tenha gostado de passar tempo consigo não lhe dar um beijo de boa noite no final de um encontro.

Summarized, if a man is genuinely interested in seeing you again and again, and if he intends to call you, he will give you a goodnight kiss without you even reminding him of it. But, if he’s not, he will just awkwardly leave the premises.