10 sinais reveladores de que ele ainda ama a sua mamã

Quando duas pessoas têm um filho e decidem divorciar-se, isso não significa que possam simplesmente deixar de o criar.

Têm de trabalhar em equipa para criar o seu filho em condições saudáveis.

A situação torna-se um pouco mais complicada quando um dos pais encontra outro parceiro.

Haverá alguma hipótese de todos eles viverem felizes para sempre? Que tipo de coisas é que eles precisam de resolver para que tudo funcione bem?

Há casais que conseguem criar uma boa vida para os seus novos parceiros e para os antigos.

But on the other hand, there are those who still feel something for their baby’s mama.

If you are in a situation like this and you somehow feel that something is not right, check these signs and find out once and for all if he still loves his baby’s mama. No problem, you will thank me later!

Ele está sempre a falar dela

O facto é que as pessoas falam sobre o que lhes vai na alma. Se o seu namorado está sempre a falar da ex e dos seus problemas, isso é um bandeira vermelha que algo não está bem.

Quero dizer, vocês são um casal e ele devia falar da vossa vida e dos vossos planos.

His ex doesn’t have anything to do with you. If he still can’t understand that, it is time to sit and talk to him openly.

Acredita em mim, é melhor descobrir mais cedo que acontece alguma merda, do que esperar que te cases e depois estragues tudo o que tens.

Ele é o seu melhor amigo

I know they have a child together, and I know that he will be there for her because of the child, but that doesn’t mean he has to go to her house every day and comfort her because she has problems.

That is just a sign of disrespecting you. And a woman shouldn’t let a man treat her like this. If he loves you, he should be there for you.

Tens de lhe perguntar se és a sua prioridade ou apenas uma opção. Ele precisa de estabelecer algumas regras para que tudo funcione.

Se ele quiser, pode ser um bom pai e um marido perfeito para si. A questão é se ele está pronto para o fazer.

Ele ainda faz parte da família dela

The fact is that he can’t be a part of your family and a part of his ex’s family. That simply doesn’t go together.

Can he just put himself in your shoes and try to understand what you feel like about that? Spending weekends at his ex’s house is not an option.

But if he doesn’t feel comfortable doing that, it is a sign that he still loves his baby’s mama.

And no, you don’t have anything to do in that relationship anymore. At least, you will know that you are saved from a potential disaster.

Quando ela chama, ele sai do quarto

This is a huge red flag—you can be positive that your man is doing something behind your back.

Why would he leave the room when he talks with her anyway? It is because he wants to talk to her in a way that she likes, and he doesn’t want you to know that.

There is something that he doesn’t want you to hear. And that something is definitely not good for your relationship.

Se alguma vez apanhar o seu homem a fazer isto, diga-lhe que o que ele faz não é correto.

Tell him that it is not fair to you for him to act that way. If he can’t understand this, then the two of you weren’t meant to be.

E graças a Deus que descobriste isso a tempo. Mais vale tarde do que nunca!

Your opinion doesn’t matter

If he fights with you every time you mention his relationship with his baby’s mama, there is a problem.

You don’t feel good because you can’t talk to him openly, and he doesn’t feel good because you feel that something is wrong.

He is currently between two women, and he doesn’t know which one to choose. Trust me, his indecision is a decision.

Se ele a amasse, nunca pensaria na ex. Este é mais um sinal de que tem de o deixar o mais rapidamente possível.

A mamã é rude para ti

She wouldn’t feel this way if she still didn’t have feelings for him. On the other hand, he is the one who needs to take your side if she is badmouthing you. You are his girlfriend, and there is a reason why she is an ex.

A man who is not capable of doing this still hasn’t gotten over his baby’s mama, and darling, you don’t deserve that kind of a relationship.

Maybe your Mr. Right is waiting just around the corner, but you are preoccupied with your problems, and you can’t see him.

Life is long and you will meet your soulmate—and your current date is definitely not that man!

He doesn’t want you near her

Have you ever had a situation when he would go to her house to drop off their child, and you weren’t allowed to go with him?

If he does this, it means that he is hiding something. He can probably feel that his ex is still hot for him, and he doesn’t want you to know that.

Please, don’t buy his shit that he wants you to stay home, so you could relax after exhausting day.

Ele tem as suas tácticas e esta é uma delas. O que ele precisa de fazer é dizer-lhe que está a mulher que ele ama e que o que eles tinham é passado. Espero que ela consiga finalmente perceber isso!

Ele preocupa-se com o seu encontro

When a new man comes into her life, he gets a panic attack! Is this normal? I don’t think so.

This is an obvious sign that he still loves his baby mama and that he can’t imagine his life without her.

You shouldn’t accept this kind of thing because you deserve the best.

You don’t deserve an almost relationship, and he can’t provide you anything more than that! I guess you know what your next step should be, right?

Ele guarda as coisas dela

When two people break up, the first thing they do is clean their home from their ex’s things.

If you catch your guy staring at a photo of his ex, this is an undeniable sign that he isn’t over her yet. And he needs to get his shit together if he wants to stay with you.

This kind of behavior is unacceptable, and you don’t deserve for him to do things like this, especially if he says that he loves you.

Deves queimar as pontes entre vocês os dois e encontrar um homem que seja verdadeiramente feliz por te ter como parte da sua vida!

Sente que algo está errado

Quando uma mulher sente que algo está errado, na maioria dos casos é verdade.

Our sixth sense has never let us down, so if you don’t feel comfortable when being with him or he is just distracted when spending time with you, it is a sign that he still loves his baby mama.

And, darling you can’t do anything about it. So, leave him and find your happiness in a different place. That is the best decision you can ever make!

In the end, I just want to say that a divorce can happen to any of us—but we are the ones that will decide how our lives will look like after.

Deve respeitar o seu parceiro, não envolvendo o seu ex na sua relação de uma forma negativa.

Respeite a mãe do seu filho, mas respeite também o seu novo parceiro que o aceitou com todos os seus defeitos.

Bear in mind that lasting relationships are based on love and respect just like on understanding and connection—you already have all the ingredients for a happy life—so it’s up to you if you will make a masterpiece!