15 razões brutalmente honestas pelas quais ela está a desistir de ti

Ela tentou dizer-lhe. O seu corpo e a sua mente gritavam em agonia. Ela estava a sofrer e tu não viste. Não quiseste ver.

Ela tentava chamar a tua atenção com as suas palavras e linguagem corporal, mas, de alguma forma, tu viravas-te sempre para o outro lado.

Ela chorava e gritava a plenos pulmões, mas ninguém a ouvia.

You were so occupied with yourself that you ignored her completely. And she wasn’t even that demanding.

A única coisa que ela queria era que tu parar de partir o coração dela. You didn’t hear or see her, and yet you were surprised she decided to give up on you. Why did she do it?

1. Because she’s done being treated like shit.

She’s done being underestimated and used. It’s over.

2. Ela queria estar consigo.

She wanted to spend time with you, but you didn’t feel the same as she did.

You went on doing your own business. You kept on thinking only about yourself. And she couldn’t take that anymore, so she left.

3. Porque ela deu-te um milhão de oportunidades antes desta última.

She warned you. She tried to talk to you and you always promised you wouldn’t do anything like that again.

Escusado será dizer que quebrou sempre a sua promessa e continuou a fazer o que queria.

4. She left because she fought for your attention and when you are in a relationship, you aren’t supposed to do that.

You aren’t supposed to beg for your partner’s love. That should come naturally and with ease, but in your relationship, it never did.

5. Ela desistiu de ti porque tudo era mais importante para ti do que ela.

Ela era a última da tua lista. Nunca tiveste tempo para ela. Dava prioridade a todas as coisas erradas e nunca se arrependeu.

6. Ela foi-se embora porque já não estava segura consigo.

Actually, she didn’t even have the feeling that you were there for her and she was right. You weren’t. She was all alone.

7. Because you took her for granted and you didn’t have any respect for her whatsoever.

You ignored her feelings and you didn’t want to see how she was, on purpose. Maybe you were afraid to see the truth.

8. She gave up on you because she couldn’t trust you.

Disseste uma coisa e fizeste outra. As suas palavras foram vazias e as suas promessas foram feitas apenas para a calar e para a acalmar durante algum tempo.

E isso aconteceu vezes sem conta. Bem, agora, ela está farta.

9. Ela foi-se embora porque estava sozinha na relação.

Ela viveu num cenário que nunca pensou viver.

10. Porque se tornaram estranhos.

You weren’t the person she met a long time ago. You weren’t the man she fell in love with. She couldn’t recognize you anymore.

11. She left because she couldn’t hide her tears anymore.

She couldn’t stand that corner of her bed where she would crawl and hide from the rest of the world.

Her life wasn’t supposed to be marked by that lonely corner soaked with her tears. No!

12. She couldn’t take it anymore because of your guilt-tripping.

She couldn’t endure you blaming her for every single thing that happened, even when she was totally innocent and you knew it.

13. Ela foi-se embora porque já não era feliz.

O sorriso no seu rosto era falso. O seu entusiasmo e a sua vontade de viver foram desaparecendo lentamente.

14. Porque se fartou de lutar.

Porque não é assim que uma relação deve ser.

15. Foi-se embora porque percebeu que o seu amor estava a conduzir numa rua de sentido único.

Não é isso que ela quer para si. Não agora. Nem nunca.