4. Não é coerente
Quando um tipo joga contra nós, nunca sabemos qual é a nossa posição em relação a ele e o que podemos esperar no dia seguinte.
Ele continua a jogar jogos quentes e friosE, quando damos por isso, damos por nós a tentar descodificar as suas intenções e a tentar descobrir a sua personalidade.
À primeira vista, tudo isto parece divertido e até pode parecer interessante e excitante.
Nevertheless, as time goes by, you realize that it’s actually a big deal and that he doesn’t plan on changing his ways. You become aware that his inconsistency is actually a telltale sign that he isn’t serious about you.
This is exactly what’s happening with you and this guy we’re talking about: you feel like you’re dating two different people.
One day, he treats you like you’re the love of his life, and you have no doubts that he wants to have uma relação de compromisso convosco.
He spoils you, calls and texts you all the time, wants to know about your day and makes sure you know he can’t wait to see you.
Of course, this makes you feel like you’re on top of the world. What girl wouldn’t like having such a thoughtful, loving, and caring boyfriend?
No entanto, tudo isto muda de um dia para o outro e, logo no dia seguinte, começa a comportar-se como um homem completamente diferente.
De repente, ele ignora as suas mensagensignora os seus telefonemas e está demasiado ocupado para o ver.
Naturally, you wonder what’s going on with him, and you can’t help but ask yourself: “Is he genuine or a player?”
Did I do something wrong and what made him change his behavior so drastically?”. Well, let me tell you that this man’s inconsistency is all a part of his game.
This way, he always leaves you wanting more, and even when he treats you like shit, you’re in the struggle to recuperar o homem que a amava.
Besides, he is also giving you hope that a day will come when he won’t go back to his awful ways; a day when he’ll decide to forever remain the romantic guy who treats you the way every woman in this world wants to be treated.