4. Tem dificuldade em tomar decisões (mesmo as mais simples)
If you grew up with a controlling parent, chances are you’ll have difficulty making decisions both as a child and as an adult-child. Even the simplest tasks, such as choosing between two T-shirts, will overwhelm you. Why?
Because you’re scared of making a mistake. That is why you often resort to serious pensar demais antes de tomar uma decisão final. However, I’m not talking about a healthy amount of overthinking, but the kind that ruins your saúde mental e provoca insónias.
Quanto mais séria for a decisão que tem de tomar, mais frustrado se sente. The pressure is high. If your mother never allowed you to make mistakes, you’ll feel enormous pressure to avoid failing at anything, which is connected with making a wrong decision.
