5. Optar sempre por ser honesto e transparente
Pessoalmente, nunca compreendi a necessidade de esconder a verdade e de nos fazermos passar por alguém que não somos. Qual é o objetivo disso?
O rapaz vai descobrir isso mais cedo ou mais tarde, especialmente se continuarem a ver-se depois do primeiro encontro.
Why would you make him see you as somebody you’re not and risk him falling for a person who is clearly not you?
Don’t do that. Keep true to quem és e ser honesto sobre o que gosta ou não gosta.
Men like women who keep to their word and who they can trust. Don’t give him a reason to doubt you.
Whichever lie you decide to serve him, no matter how small it may seem, it’s going to bite you in the ass at some point down the road.
É assim que se pode implementar a honestidade, mesmo quando pode ser complicado:
• Know that if he’s the right man for you, he can handle your truth without making you feel bad.
• If he asks about something you’re too uncomfortable discussing right now, ask him to circle back to it at a later time.
• Tell him how much you appreciate honesty and let him know that’s what you expect from him.
