6 maneiras de o excitar sem sequer tentar

Conhecer o maior ponto de excitação do seu homem é o maior desejo de todas as raparigas. Ser capaz de o fazer passar de despreocupado a totalmente atento é o sonho, e um sonho que procura alcançar a todo o custo.

The thing is, the biggest turn-on is not always wearing those sexy fishnet stockings or lace underwear that he absolutely loves. Sometimes it’s other things that mean just as much – if not more.

Don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing sexier than a confident woman in a pair of sexy as hell underwear making a move on her man, making him want her more and more with each passing second.

I love power females – those who know how to assert themselves and rightfully get theirs.

Há uma certa força nisso, e parabéns a todas as mulheres que sabem como usar o que Deus lhes deu em seu benefício.

Mas, para além desse sex appeal e das travessuras sensuais no quarto, há formas de o tornar escaldante para si sem saber, sem sequer tentar.

When you’ve been with o seu homem for a while, other things take precedent over those more on the “superficial” side.

E, nestes tempos, o seu homem procura algo mais profundo do que apenas o seu corpo atraente e um sorriso sedutor.

But don’t worry, you most certainly provide him with all of that without even knowing it has that huge of an impact on him!

Here’s all the ways you turn him on, without trying!

Descansar a cabeça no seu peito

As hot as sex and under-the-sheet action is, there is nothing quite like that soothing, comfortable feeling of having your head rest on your beloved partner’s chest after a long, hard day, knowing there’s no place either of you would rather be.

Deitar-se no sofá, conversar, acariciar-se e sentir-se segura e protegida é toda a intimidade de que se precisa às vezes. Ele adora isso mais do que você imagina, porque adora ser o seu porto seguro.

Ele adora ser a pessoa com quem se pode descansar em silêncio, sem esperar nada além de um abraço e um beijo na testa.

Está segura com ele, e isso é toda a intimidade de que ele realmente precisa.

Enviar-lhe aleatoriamente mensagens a dizer que o ama

Imagine this. You’re at work, busy as hell. Everyone around you is in a fuss, running around, asking things of you, and you don’t know what to do first.

And then you look down as your phone screen lights up, and it’s your love reminding you of how much he loves you and that he’s thinking of you.

Nesse momento, haverá algo melhor que possa acontecer? É isso mesmo que lhe dá alguma perspetiva e tranquilidade.

É isso que nos empurra para a frente e nos faz ver que somos capazes de fazer tudo.

Everything suddenly becomes doable and there’s an almost palpable sense of serenity consuming you.

You have somebody waiting for you, who can’t wait to see you, and that’s all it takes for your man to feel like the luckiest guy on earth.

Apreciar um pequeno gesto, mas extremamente gentil, que ele fez por si

You know those days when you don’t know where your head is? You have zero time for housework and picking up the dry-cleaning?

Já para não falar de passear o cão. A tua agenda é uma loucura! Mas nessas alturas, tem o seu homem em quem se apoiar.

He gladly takes out the trash, does the house chores, and even walks your dog. He doesn’t even mention it; he does it because ele ama-te e quer estar presente para si.

E quando lhe mostramos gratidão por nos ter ajudado dessa forma, ele sente-se amado e valorizado.

When you tell him how much you appreciate having him around and helping you like that, it’s priceless to him, and all that he needs to hear, because he’s always got your back and he’s happy you know that!

Playing with his hair as he’s driving

You’re on a road trip, there’s music blasting, and you’re laughing at his silly jokes, while running your fingers through his hair.

That might seem like nothing, but to him – it’s everything!

I never really realized how much that means to a dude until my boyfriend told me how much he loves it when I’m playing with his hair, especially while we’re in a car and he’s driving.

So ladies, don’t underestimate the subtle power of touch! Your man loves it more than he’s letting on. TRUST me.

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Marcá-lo numa fotografia gira no Facebook (juntamente com a legenda mais adorável)

Come on… who doesn’t love being bragged about on redes sociais pela sua cara-metade?

When you show your love for your man to your entire friend list on Facebook, you’re showing him how much you love him and are proud of having him.

Some people tend to go a bit overboard with their exclamations of love and affection on social media, but as long as you don’t post about him 5 times a week, it’s all good (it’s awesome actually!)

You’re kind of telling the world: “This one’s all mine, I love him to death, and I’m happy to have you all know that!”

Listening when he’s talking about his fantasy football team

I know you may not be the biggest football fan or know anything about fantasy football… but listening to your man for 5 minutes isn’t really that hard, is it? And it means the world to him!

So when you actually pay attention when he’s going off about it, you’re making him a very happy man.

Ter uma rapariga com quem ele pode falar sobre uma das suas coisas favoritas no mundo (depois de si, claro!) é uma grande excitação!

You don’t even have to know much about his interests in general, as long as you listen and react appropriately (actually caring), he knows he’s hit the jackpot.