6 sinais alarmantes de que o teu namorado precisa de estar sozinho

Ultimamente, tem notado algo diferente no seu namorado? De repente, ele tem-se mostrado distante e sempre que tenta falar com ele, parece ausente?

Ele irrita-se facilmente com as coisas de que antes se ria e sente-se impotente por não saber o que fazer e como chegar até ele.

The biggest problem with guys is that they won’t tell you when something bothers them because they are taught to find solutions on their own and to keep things to themselves.

Têm dificuldade em abrir-se consigo porque têm medo de serem julgadas ou de parecerem vulneráveis à sua frente.

And that is why he’ll choose to stay silent instead of telling you that he just needs some time for himself.

Mas ele esquece-se que as suas acções dizem muito sobre o que ele sente e pode estar sempre um passo à frente dele se prestar atenção a estes 6 sinais alarmantes que indicam que ele só precisa de algum tempo sozinho.

He’s feeling down all the time

It is completely normal to feel down sometimes but if he’s constantly in a bad mood and when you ask him for a reason, he tells you that he doesn’t know, this might mean that he needs some alone time in order to recharge.

Another indicator is if he’s no longer enjoying the activities the two of you used to enjoy before. This means he has some barriers that are preventing him from relaxing and enjoying spending time with you.

He’s making excuses

Se te aperceberes que o teu namorado é arranjar desculpas every time you ask him to go for a drink or something else, it is the ultimate sign that he needs alone time. Don’t confuse this with his affection toward you.

This has nothing to do with you and you shouldn’t be offended if he starts making excuses all of a sudden. Just be patient and leave him be for some time and he’ll come back to you rejuvenated.

Passa muito tempo com os seus amigos

When a guy feels like he’s suffocating in a relationship, he’ll start spending a lot of time with his friends. His friends will become his shelter from the things that might bother him and that is why he’ll spend more time with them than he’s spending with you.

Perhaps you’re ser demasiado carente or you’re not giving him some space for himself? Think about the possible reason that might have caused this sudden change of behavior.

Also, don’t forget to give him some time with his friends because it is his way of dealing with things. And don’t forget that this is just temporary.

He’s not that interested in sex

If a guy is not interested in sex, you can be sure that something’s going on with him.

He’s probably lost his will for sex due to being overly annoyed or irritated by some trivial things. He simply cannot be relaxed because his subconscious is telling him that he needs some alone time to come to his senses.

He’s delaying his replies

If you’ve noticed that it takes him more time than usual to text you back, it means he needs some space.

Ele vai deixá-la à espera da sua resposta, não porque a queira castigar, mas porque não consegue lutar contra a vontade de lhe dizer subtilmente que quer estar sozinho.

I know it’s hard not to get mad when something like this happens but try to respect his decision and he’ll appreciate you even more. Next time you find yourself waiting for him to reply, simply ignore it and give him some space.

Ele fere involuntariamente os seus sentimentos

If he’s constantly looking for arguments (for no apparent reason) and only to get rid of his rage, you’ll know it’s time to intervene and pull away.

He might even say something insulting to you just because he’s desperate to have his alone time.

I know it would be much simpler if he decided to say this to you (instead of making a scene) but that’s just how guys work. You can never know what’s on their mind until their actions show it.