7 maneiras de se vingar do seu ex

Quando nos magoamos, a primeira coisa que acontece é ficarmos zangados. Partia-lo como um galho se pudesse.

You can’t comprehend why things had to happen the way they did.

Porque é que ele teve de partir o teu coração e pisá-lo, para depois o deixar na berma da estrada?

Não faz ideia do que o atingiu e porque é que se sente assim. Com toda essa raiva, é incapaz de ver que levar com os pés é uma coisa boa.

You don’t understand that he gave you another oportunidade de encontrar o verdadeiro amorque livrar-se dele foi a melhor coisa que te podia ter acontecido.

So you ache for revenge—oh that sweet, sweet revenge.

I’m not talking about keying his car or stalking him because that is disturbing really.

Revenge is good, but only when that revenge doesn’t take you down to his level or mess with your head.

Let’s say that I’m talking about healthy revenge, the kind that makes you feel better by doing nothing harmful to him directly.

Veja algumas das formas de se vingar dele, mas tomando a estrada mais alta, deixando o seu orgulho e ego intactos:

Seguir em frente com a sua vida

Tem de o esquecer e seguir em frente com a sua vida. Dê passos corajosos em direção ao seu futuro e certifique-se de que ele o sabe.

Don’t give him the satisfaction to see that you’re hurting because he left you. Don’t give him a reason to think that he was the most important thing in your life, even if he was.

He doesn’t deserve that because he left you, with sem fecho. Ele agia como um rapaz e não como um homem.

A melhor vingança que podes ter é garantir que segues em frente e que estás a ir bem e que ele sabe disso!

O karma faz milagres

You practically don’t have to do anything. Let go of the mind games and cunning plans because they won’t do you any good.

They will only make you feel satisfied for a moment, but when you cool off, you’ll become bitter and sad once again.

Let karma do her thing. If he deserves to be punished, he will be and you don’t have to do anything about it.

You know what they say: ‘What goes around, comes back around’. He will get his, just wait and see.

It’s time for a rockin’ figure

Treine! Faça exercício sempre que tiver tempo.

Not only is it good for your health, but it’s the best way to blow off steam and induce that feeling of relaxation like nothing can touch you.

On the plus side, you’ll get your body into perfect shape and you won’t have to do anything from then on.

At the slightest glimpse of you and your stunning figure, he’ll be sorry he ever left you, but by then, it’ll be too late.

Don’t say anything at all

I know that you want to scream at him and that you’re frustrated, but believe me, sometimes it’s just best to say nothing and take the high road.

Simplesmente, ignore-o. Se ele a traiu, provavelmente é um narcisista e não há nada que os narcisistas odeiem mais do que serem ignorados.

You’ll hit the bullseye if you give him the silent treatment.

Em vez de se vingar, traga o seu antigo eu de volta

Em vez de se vingar, concentre a sua energia em curar-se e melhorar.

Because if you focus on him and ways to get revenge, you won’t have enough energy left to get yourself back on your own two feet.

Esqueça-o e concentre-se em si, em melhorar, em curar o seu coração partido e em recuperar a sua autoestima.

It is in our nature to want to get even and not everyone can resist it, but believe me, it’s so much more satisfying and better for you to put yourself before him and move on.

Fazer o que queriam fazer juntos

Your life doesn’t have to stop once you are not together. Do the things that you were planning on doing with him, but do them all alone.

Se queriam fazer uma viagem mas acabaram, façam-na sozinhos.

Acredite em mim, um pouco de solidão e um lugar longe das pessoas que o conhecem é algo que lhe trará benefícios.

You need to clear your mind and accept what has happened. You’re not going to manage that by sobbing at home and planning vengeance on him.

Escreva o que lhe aconteceu

You don’t have to be a writer to be able to write. Just take a piece of paper and get your emotions, your anger, frustration, and sadness out… write it all down.

Let those emotions out and write them down. They don’t have to be connected and your story doesn’t have to make any sense. The only purpose of this is to let it all out.

You’ll feel better, you’ll see and who knows, maybe you will discover a long-hidden writing talent and you’ll thank the idiot who hurt you, manipulado e deixou-o sozinho.