7 segredos incríveis para atrair relacionamentos positivos para a sua vida

1. Afastar-se de pessoas, pensamentos e lugares negativos aumenta a sua capacidade de atrair alguém com a mesma mentalidade

Seja afastando-se fisicamente de um lugar que o deixa desconfortável ou de uma pessoa que o deixa infeliz, encontrar a força para se afastar faz com que se sinta melhor e atrai apenas positividade para a sua vida.

Once you realize that you don’t have to suportar anything that doesn’t contribute any positivity into your life, you will easily step away and move towards something more meaningful.

Também o fará sentir-se melhor por dentro quando transformar os seus pensamentos negativos em pensamentos positivos, pois verá que o que põe para fora é o que atrai.

2. Set boundaries on how much you complain and don’t let others complain to you beyond acceptable measure

O desabafo é aceitável, desde que, no final, se consiga encontrar a paz e aceitar a situação como ela é.

But remaining dead set on an issue that you don’t see a way out of and complaining about it for days on end without a solution in sight is something you should put a limit to.

Aprender a deixar ir as coisas que estão fora do seu controlo é um passo mais perto de encontrar a sua felicidade interior.

And when you do that, you’re going to feel healthier and better about yourself.

Don’t let people complain to you much either.

Ser um bom amigo e arranje sempre tempo para aqueles de quem gosta, mas estabeleça limites para a quantidade de negatividade que aceita ter à sua volta.

3. Seja o seu próprio número um e partilhe esse amor com aqueles que estima na sua vida

Ame-se e cuide de si. Ponha sempre a sua sanidade mental em primeiro lugar e nunca a comprometa por nada nem por ninguém.

Spread love wherever you go and don’t allow negativity affect you. Love those around you and it can only spread further.

You won’t be able to attract positive relationships for as long as you radiate negativity.

Por isso, ponha um sorriso no rosto e encontre a felicidade nas pequenas coisas.

That way, you’ll end up a much more fulfilled person and enhance your chances of finding someone good for you.

4. Deixar os erros do passado para trás e viver no presente

Whatever happened, happened. It’s in the past and therefore has no business messing with your present.

Leave things that you’ve resolved where they belong and focus on not making the same mistakes today.

Let everything you’ve done wrong in the past be your guide to a better future.

Make good choices and live in the now. The past is behind you, so there’s no point in living there.

5. Learn to say “no” and firmly stand your ground

It’s time to stop saying “yes” to things you don’t really like. It’s time to stop being accommodating to people who don’t have your best interests at heart.

Whenever your gut is telling you to say “no” to something, listen to it.

When you know that something isn’t going to bring positivity into your life, don’t be afraid to stand your ground.

Fight for what you believe in and don’t put up with things you don’t have to.

Those who appreciate you won’t have a problem with this, and those who don’t are not your friends in the first place.

6. Encarar todas as experiências incómodas como uma oportunidade para aprender algo novo e crescer com isso

Whenever you’re going through something that’s not particularly comfortable, remind yourself that one day you’re going to see this as a learning curve.

Not everything in life will be pleasant and nice, but it will be something that will surely teach you things you didn’t know about yourself.

You will learn that you are stronger than you thought and much more resilient than you ever could’ve imagined.

You will find patience you didn’t know you had, and step away from that negative experience having learned your inner power.

Aprenderá que é realmente uma mulher durona e será capaz de levar esse poder recém-descoberto para onde quer que a vida a leve.

7. Stop worrying about things that haven’t even happened yet and be grateful for every new day you get to live

Eliminate worry from your mind. Realize that it’s a profound waste of time that brings you zero positivity and only makes you anxious and uneasy.

Agradece o facto de poderes respirar todos os dias. Vive a tua vida sabendo o privilégio que é experimentar tudo e estar perto daqueles que amas.

Preocupar-se nunca vai mudar nenhuma situação, por isso, porquê desperdiçar a sua mente e envenenar o seu cérebro?

Deal with things as they come, but not a minute sooner. Everything will happen the way it’s supposed to, so live freely and take it one day at a time.