A lista definitiva de objectivos de casal para as relações mais felizes
Ultimamente, a frase alguns objectivos has taken a life of its own. You can’t scroll down your redes sociais perfis (Instagram, Tumblr, Facebook) sem isto casal giro hashtag.
Vê-se isso em artigos por todo o lado, e até no seu melhor amigo afirma ser um perito em objectivos de relacionamento e quer que tomem nota!
Ter alguns objectivos é de facto um sinal de um relação saudável (if you don’t take it too far, that is).
Isso mostra que se preocupam com a vossa relação o suficiente para estabelecerem determinados padrões para vocês próprios e cumpri-los para manterem a vossa outra pessoa significativa feliz e o seu vida amorosa próspero.
Cuidar do seu relação duradoura é um ato nobre que só os relações saudáveis compreender e aspirar.
Ter um relação séria is sometimes so much work, so it’s necessary to become that happy, casal de idiotas e celebrar a sua momentos especiais para fazer o trabalho de relacionamento.
Normalmente, quando vejo a frase alguns objectivos, especialmente escrito como uma hashtag, raramente significa a verdadeira objectivos de relacionamento um casal deve esforçar-se por manter.
It’s usually just cute selfies of couples de mãos dadas e capturas de ecrã de mensagens de texto entre os dois que um dos parceiros considere alguns objectivos, even though they aren’t objectivos reais da relação.
So recently I’ve decided to embark on a little alguns objectivos missão in which I’ll explore a multitude of relações saudáveis that I’m privy to while also branching out to different couples I don’t know in order to find out how they would define alguns objectivos e o que isso significa para eles!
I’ve discovered some truly eye-opening truths from the casais casados e relações sérias I’ve been researching and received some note-worthy conselhos sobre relações que vou guardar para sempre.
A Amar a vida can be such an unpredictable journey that’ll take you for a spin and leave you forever changed in all the most unexpected, yet, inspiring ways!
Apenas isso tipo de amor is worth fighting for because without ups and downs, how do you know you’ve got what it takes to survive?
O melhor relação is the one you don’t feel the need to brag about because it leaves you so happy and fulfilled that any irrelevant humble brags would spoil all the love you’ve been experiencing.
O melhor casal consists of two people who respect each other’s differences, appreciate each other’s similarities, and find a middle ground without sacrificing their happiness.
It’s not about looking a certain way and taking each other on expensive and luxurious noites de namoro.
It’s about those little things you don’t read about in magazines because they’re not as attractive on paper, even though they’re the basis of any relação saudável.
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Os melhores objectivos de casal para as melhores relações
What you’re about to read is a collection of one hundred percent real experiences from various couples that have been making their trabalho de relacionamento graças a estes pequenos conselhos de valor inestimável que podem ser verdadeiramente considerados alguns objectivos.
No fim do diaTodos nós procuramos a felicidade.
And if you’re able to make your life partner and melhor amigo happy while feeling the same way, I’d take that as a win and keep doing what clearly works!
Once you realize it’s not about fancy clothes, expensive restaurants, and parading your vida amorosa sobre redes sociais, you’ll see what I’m talking about here.
Estes objectivos de relacionamento são aquilo por que todos os casais se devem esforçar e viver.
Considerar isto como o melhores conselhos sobre relações you’ll receive because everyone can do it without breaking a sweat.
Leia para descobrir se tu e o teu namorado se enquadram na alguns objectivos e veja como pode trabalhar para atingir esse objetivo a partir de hoje.
1. You’re dedicated to spending time together while maintaining your independence
When two people get together, it’s inevitable that they’ll eventually start mimicking each other’s habits and behaviors without being fully aware of it. That’s what love does to people.
But when you’re able to maintain your independence while still fully enjoying your time with bae, that’s what I would consider as being alguns objectivos.
Reservar tempo para o seu parceiro é de importância crucial, e certificar-se de que noites de namoro acontecem regularmente, além de estarem presentes nos momentos mais difíceis.
Mas apenas o melhores casais estão conscientes e compreendem o facto de que o tempo a sós é necessário para crescerem sozinhos e passarem tempo a perseguir os seus objectivos e paixões individuais.
2. Driving around together, simply enjoying each other’s company
Like I’ve already said, it’s the little things that mean the most.
When you’re able to just sit in a car, without any particular destination in mind and drive around, knowing there’s nowhere else you’d rather be, that’s o sinal de um casal feliz com a mentalidade correcta.
Perder-se neste mundo rápido e imprevisível é fácil, mas desfrutar de um simples passeio com o seu outra pessoa significativa enquanto se aprecia esse momento no tempo é o que objectivos de relacionamento são tudo isso.
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3. You’re willing to learn as you go
Real alguns objectivos are when both partners are always willing to learn and embrace new things about one another without stifling each other’s growth.
It’s important to always have room to grow and mature as an individual as well as part of a couple.
E o verdadeiro amor significa deixar o seu outra pessoa significativa florescer na pessoa que aspiram ser, sem os impedir de o fazer.
Aprendam um com o outro e aceitem-se mutuamente ao longo da vida e vejam como é gratificante uma verdadeira relação saudável pode ser.
4. Cumprir as suas rotinas românticas
As a couple, it’s crucial to have a little noite de encontro ritual that you stay true to because sometimes, it’s really hard to find the time for each other. This is why noites de namoro são cruciais e inestimáveis.
It shows your partner you’re willing to do whatever it takes to see them, no matter where you are right now. Prioritizing each other is the number one rule of relationships.
5. Sermos ratos de ginásio juntos
Sabe o que se diz: os casais que suam juntos, ficam juntos!
Brincadeiras à parte, ir ao ginásio e cuidar dos vossos corpos como casal (fora do quarto) é uma grande vantagem para a vossa relação.
Demonstra dedicação à saúde e à boa forma, ao mesmo tempo que encoraja o seu parceiro a fazer o mesmo!
6. Making each other’s day with little tokens of appreciation
Quer falar sobre alguns objectivos? E que tal levar flores à sua namorada depois do trabalho, sem qualquer outra razão que não seja a de lhe dar um sorriso no rosto?
How about picking up your partner’s dry-cleaning while he’s at work and giving him a reason to be happy and thankful for you as soon as he enters the door?
It’s those everyday things that make all the difference!
Helping each other out in small yet significant ways and therefore showing how committed you are and how much you love stepping up for them whenever they need you to (especially when they don’t even expect it).
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7. Os abraços estão na moda
Sabes do que gosto ainda mais do que de beijar? Abraços!
When I’m brushing my teeth (looking like an alien) and my man comes from behind and gives me a hug just because he can’t help it!
Há alguma coisa que grite alguns objectivos mais do que esses sinais inesperados de afeto? Abrace a sua pessoa sempre que puder e mostre-lhe como é feliz por estar a viver com ela.
8. Dar as mãos
Obvious much? I know, I know. But it can’t go unmentioned; it’s just too darn important. Hold your partner’s hand every chance you get.
When you’re walking down the street, going shopping, crossing the road or simply craving their touch.
I can’t stress how important it is to dar as mãos para manter a faísca viva. Não há nada que supere o toque físico.
9. Expressar o amor das formas mais parvas
Every couple has their own silly things that only they get and weird ways to show their love to each other that may seem peculiar to outside people but to them, they’re the sweetest things ever. Let me give you an example!
When I was with my ex-boyfriend, he’d always get me a huge teddy bear (the kind you win at fairs) whenever I was feeling sad or low.
Para outros, pode parecer exagerado ou estranho, mas para mim, significou o mundo!
He knew why I loved those big, fluffy stuffed toys (a personal reason only he was familiar with), and he’d always make my day with that simple yet thoughtful gesture.
10. Ir juntos às compras de mercearia
This one may seem a bit out there, but I’ve discovered that every single couple I talked to during my little research expedition had one thing in common; they would all go grocery shopping together as much as possible.
They told me that since they live life together, eat together, and clean together, it only made sense to go shopping for things they’d be making and later on consuming juntos.
I was surprised how much that actually made sense. You’re doing life together, so why not go do those everyday life things together as well?
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11. Tirar selfies disparatadas juntos
You’re just lounging around on your sofa, looking not so glamorous while bae is holding you in their arms and watching Netflix, and what’s the most natural thing to do at that moment (other than the thing you just thought of)? Take a casal de idiotas selfie!
And the best thing? You don’t give a shit what you look like! You don’t even feel the need to splash it all over redes sociais.
It’s just a beautiful, calm moment between two lovers, and you wanted to commemorate it. It’s just for the two of you to remember this momento especial.
12. Saber o que o bae quer sem que ele diga uma palavra
When you’re in a relação duradoura, reading your partner’s mind kind of becomes second nature, don’t you think?
When you’re truly in love and dedicated to your relationship, you’re able to read their mind without them having to utter a word.
So when you’re outra pessoa significativa está a ter dificuldades com alguma coisa, já sabe o que é, não são necessárias palavras.
And that makes it easier on both of you as sometimes, it’s hard to express what you want, but when you have a partner who reads you like an open book, it feels like true alguns objectivos aqui mesmo. Por vezes, as palavras são muito desnecessárias.
13. Tomar banho juntos
This doesn’t require much explaining, right? After a long-ass day at work, and God knows how many issues later, taking a bath with your bae is the truest form of total relaxation.
Your naked, relaxed bodies enjoying each other with bubbles all around and a glass of wine sitting right next to the tub while slow jams are playing on the stereo… What more can a person wish for?
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14. Usar roupas a condizer e exibi-las com orgulho
You know those awesome jackets that say ”My King” and ”My Queen” on the back? How cool would it be to get those for each other for Christmas and then rocking them when you’re feeling badass-y?
Now that’s something worthy of redes sociais atenção com a maior alguns objectivos hashtag de sempre. Só uma ideia.
15. Perceber o quanto se está apaixonado nos momentos mais aleatórios
Sometimes, I’ll be sitting on the bed, doing my crossword and when I look up, I’ll see my man dancing like a lunatic in his pajamas to his favorite jam and singing at the top of his lungs while going from our bedroom to the bathroom to brush his teeth.
It’s those moments when I realize how darn lucky I got and how in love I am with this man.
There’s nothing I’d rather be doing in those moments than watch him during his one-man show, happy as a clam.
That’s my happy place, and nothing will ever be able to trump those silly, momentos especiais.
16. Falar sobre as coisas difíceis
You know… it’s easy being in love when the road is smooth and there’s nothing disturbing your romantic flow.
Mas a vida raramente nos oferece uma navegação tranquila do princípio ao fim.
There will come a time when shit will hit the fan, and you won’t be able to find a solution.
O melhores relações são aqueles que atravessam as maiores tempestades e conseguem sair pelo outro lado.
Yes, it’s going to get difficult, and you won’t always have an easy time loving them the way you do now.
Mas os casais que se aguentam são aqueles que enfrentam os seus problemas de frente e falam sobre tudo. Nada de agressividade passiva, de bater com a porta ou de se esconderem.
Talking about it until you find a middle ground. That’s objectivos de relacionamento.
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17. Ir buscar-se uns aos outros depois de viagens longas
Is there anything more exciting than bae returning from a long-ass work trip and you counting the days until they’re back in your arms?
What makes it even better is when you’re the one picking them up from the airport and that long hug after locking eyes and running to each other as if you’re in a movie. Priceless!
18. Loving each other’s families
If you want your relationship to work, one of the biggest contributors to that is being appreciative of your partner’s family.
Se é com essa pessoa que tencionas passar a tua vida, então a sua família vai tornar-se também a tua família. E fazer um esforço para os conhecer e amar é o que objectivos de relacionamento significa.
It’s really important to your partner that you get along with their family and that means truly doing your best to embrace them.
Objectivos do casal don’t just mean being cute and silly together. It’s about family, loyalty, and upheld promises.
19. Fins-de-semana em casa (passados abraçados em frente à televisão)
Yes, it’s important to have noites de namoro e divertem-se à noite uns com os outros.
But the thing that’s just as important are quiet weekends in, when it’s just the two of you, snuggled up under your blanket, talking, laughing and having movie marathons.
À medida que envelhecemos, começamos a ver a importância desses momentos simples e confortáveis passados sem fazer nada, mas preferindo-os a tudo o resto.
That’s when you know you’ve achieved true alguns objectivos. Quando podem passar os fins-de-semana apenas a desfrutar da vossa companhia e não precisam de sair e divertir-se à grande.
20. Estar ligado emocionalmente, intelectualmente e sexualmente
The basis of any long-lasting relationship is being on the same wavelength. It doesn’t just happen, and you certainly don’t vibe with everyone which is totally fine.
Mas os casais mais felizes são aqueles que se sentem ligados a um nível emocional, intelectual e sexual. Os casais mais felizes sabem a importância destas partes essenciais da conselhos matrimoniais:
There’s no need to hide any parts of yourself. There’s no sugarcoating anything. It’s always complete honesty,and you know that you’ll always be heard.
You’re in sync on all levels, and you’re one hundred percent in the same place.
Emotionally, you fulfill each other. Intellectually, you’ve always just been able to get each other, and sexually, you’re compatible, open, and totally free.
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