7 sinais de que há um desgosto à sua frente
Cada um de nós já chegou a uma fase da vida em que desejava ter a capacidade de prever as coisas, ou a capacidade de voltar atrás no tempo para nos impedir de fazer algo estúpido.
More often than not it’s after we go through some bad periods in our relationships or even a heartbreak. You spent weeks or even months dating a guy who seemed so perfect at first, but then slowly his facade came down and you finally saw his real face.
Ele partiu o teu coração and then you didn’t know whether to hate him or yourself more. You know, there are signs that can help you figure out if he’s the ‘mister wrong’ right at the beginning.
Esteja atento a estes 7 sinais, que o podem ajudar a parar o acidente de comboio antes mesmo de acontecer:
1. Ele traiu a sua última namorada
If he cheated on his last girlfriend, or even worse, if he cheated on her with you, he will cheat again! Be sure of that. Of course, people change, but as the saying goes, ‘once a cheater, always a cheater’, so it is likely to happen again.
The same goes for liars. If you caught him in lies before, who knows what lies you haven’t caught him in.
2. Your friends and family don’t like him
Where literally not one of your friends or family like him, and you’re the only one still believing in the opposite. You try to convince everyone that they’re wrong, but the truth is that you’re the one who is blind.
3. Your plans for the future don’t overlap a tiny bit
You two don’t need to have the exact same plans for the future, and most of the time you both create new plans as the relationship grows, but if he plans to move to Europe to continue his studies and you want to pursue an acting career in Hollywood, then it’s very likely that os vossos caminhos vão separar-se completamente após algum tempo.
Pode impedi-lo mesmo antes de acontecer e poupar-se a todo esse drama desnecessário.
4. Os seus argumentos são frequentes e inúteis
Fights are natural and there is nothing to worry about if you two have arguments occasionally. It’s just part of human nature and they will happen no matter how hard you try to avoid them. But there is a difference between fighting over something and fighting over nothing.
You get tired of the constant fights, and the same scenario repeats over and over again. One screws up, the other gets angry, you don’t talk to each other until the one who can’t take it anymore crawls back and apologizes.
It seems like it’s never going to end and you keep yourself asking how long you will be able to survive all of that. Save yourself the trouble; don’t wait till you can’t hold it in anymore, end it while you still have your sanity.
5. Há demasiados segredos
If he won’t let you near his phone or if he minimizes his browser when you pass by, then you should know he is hiding something. Confront him and ask him what’s going on.
That way, you’ll either find out the truth or he will continue keeping all those secrets from you. Either way, you’ll know exactly what to do based on his reaction.
6. You don’t like sex life
O sexo é uma parte essencial de uma relação, and if you’re not enjoying it, if you’re imagining someone else during sex or you just lost that chemistry that you two had, then it’s time to move on. There is no need in pretending that everything is okay and letting your body suffer because you don’t want to let go of him.
When the sex is bad, it will affect other spheres of your life and it will soon all go downhill fast. Why not stop it before it’s too late?
7. Está sempre a pensar se deve ou não acabar com ele
Não há nada de errado em ter estes pensamentos de vez em quando. Perguntamo-nos para onde vai tudo isto e se tem algum significado? Faz algum sentido continuar a relação?
Sometimes you find the answers to those questions, but if those thoughts are plaguing your mind about what’s wrong with him and the relationship in general, chances are that something is seriously wrong.
