8 Sinais de que não o amas tanto quanto pensavas que amavas

1. You don’t communicate like you used to

Do you have the feeling that you can’t bond with your partner anymore and that all the talk you two do is just talk?

Não se trata de comunicação ou compreensão, mas apenas de partilha de informação, para que se possa organizar as coisas.

You don’t feel any need to open up to him, and you’d rather tell all the important things to your friends.

You believe it won’t be so important to him, so you hold back from telling him.

You don’t think that he would even be interested in what you have to say, so you just prefer to keep your mouth shut and spend time on your phone even if he is around.

2. You don’t feel good when you sleep with him

You remember that sleeping with your partner and waking up in his arms was the best feeling for you, but now you don’t feel that way.

Prefere passar a noite com os seus amigos ou ver um bom filme do que brincar com ele debaixo dos lençóis.

Deixou simplesmente de sentir o que sentia antes e, por isso, está muitas vezes triste.

You would love it if you had a successful relationship with your man, but for some reason, you don’t feel so attracted to him anymore.

3. Ele irrita-te a maior parte do tempo

É normal que os casais se irritem um ao outro de vez em quando, mas se sentir que ficar irritado com o seu parceiro todos os dias, é definitivamente um mau sinal.

Isto significa que you don’t love him tanto quanto pensavas e que vocês os dois precisam de trabalhar na vossa relação se quiserem que ela resulte.

Porque se a negatividade é tudo o que sente com ele a toda a hora, então deve perguntar-se a si própria porque é que está com ele, para começar.

Um homem que a irrita diariamente nunca a fará sentir-se calma e feliz, e isso é o mais importante, certo?

4. You don’t have any need to tell him you love him

Do you feel that you don’t feel nice when you tell your man you love him? You somehow feel that by saying these words you are lying to him and that he feels it as well.

If this is what’s happening in your relationship, then you should try to work things out because this is not something that happens in happy relationships.

Lembre-se de quantas vezes disse ao seu homem que o amava quando começaram a namorar e agora sente que está a viver com um estranho.

É um sinal de que a vossa relação precisa de ser trabalhada se ambos estiverem dispostos a salvá-la.

5. Já não tens ciúmes

Lembra-se daqueles tempos em que se passava sempre que o seu homem saía com os amigos?

Ficou em casa, a pensar com quem é que ele está e se alguma rapariga gira se vai atirar a ele.

But now, you feel totally indifferent, and you don’t even care about where he goes and who he goes with.

You feel good in your own skin, and you feel that you wouldn’t even suffer so much if he leaves you.

Já não está tão loucamente apaixonada por ele e sente que pode viver sem ele.

If you feel all of these things, then you really don’t love your man like you used to, and maybe it is time to finally let him go.

6. You don’t try to look good for him

Quando começaram a vossa relação, passava duas horas na casa de banho a preparar-se para uma saída à noite com ele.

Mas agora, pega na primeira roupa que tem no seu guarda-roupa e sai com ele.

You don’t have any need to dress up for him because you feel good in what you already wear.

Maybe he has stopped complimenting you for some reason, and that’s why you don’t want to look nice for him.

But maybe you just don’t love him that much to always be tip-top for him. But no matter what it is, it is not good, so you should work on that.

7. You don’t think about him as much as before

When you just started your relationship, your partner was on your mind all day, but now you don’t remember him at all when you are at work.

You often catch yourself forgetting things that you should have done for him. And the worst part is that you don’t even feel remorse for that.

You are calm even if he is mad and even if he doesn’t want to talk to you.

These things would probably have hurt you before, but now you don’t mind if your partner doesn’t talk to you.

De facto, é como se fossem férias para si, porque vai poder fazer coisas de que gosta.

8. Detestas quando ele te liga a meio do dia

Quando o telefone toca a meio do dia e o vemos a ligar, sentimo-nos tristes.

You don’t want to talk to him, and you think that he can really be a pain in the butt when it comes to certain things.

You sometimes don’t answer his calls because you know that you would probably fight with him, and you don’t want to ruin your day.

E esperamos sempre algumas horas antes de responder às suas mensagens ou chamadas telefónicas.

Obviously, he is not the most important person in your life, and you don’t feel complete with him.