30 sinais infalíveis de linguagem corporal de que ela gosta de você
As mulheres são complicadas - nós sabemos. Muitas vezes, dizem uma coisa mas pensam outra completamente diferente.
Then they expect you to read their minds, and they get angry with you if you don’t guess what they want.
O mesmo acontece quando se sentem atraídos por si. Se eles gostam mesmo de siSe não o fizerem, nunca o admitirão e abordá-lo-ão do nada.
Sometimes, a girl will send you a bunch of subtle body language signs she likes you but probably won’t say a word about her feelings. Of course, you’re supposed to read each one of these clues and act accordingly.
Wouldn’t dating be much simpler if we all just caminhámos até à nossa paixãode forma direta, sem rodeios?
All you would need to do is to be brave enough to squeeze a couple of sentences through your teeth: “I like you. Do you like me? Should we give it a try?” It would be as simple as that.
No mind-reading, no wrapping your head around whether she’s interested or not.
But, unfortunately, or luckily, things don’t go that way—I said luckily because maybe dating and chasing girls would be kind of boring if it were so simple.
Living in suspense, waiting for that ‘yes or no’ text brings a certain thrill to the whole thing.
It leaves us with memories, bad and happy ones, funny or embarrassing situations—something that we can remember and think about in the future.
Don’t be down.
It’s not impossible to enter a woman’s mind—you’ll have to do your best, but it’s not impossible.
Tudo o que precisa de aprender são alguns truques de linguagem corporal para saber se uma rapariga gosta de si.
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Sinais de linguagem corporal de que ela gosta de si
I’ll be honest here: there is no universal pattern that applies to every single woman in the world. Keep in mind that some girls are shy, while others don’t have a problem openly a namoriscar consigo.
Also, some enjoy the chase more than others, so they’ll deliberately send you subtle body language cues and hints. That’s their way of keeping you on the hook but at the same time, not sending enough signals for you to be 100% sure they’re into you.
Mais uma vez, há raparigas que só querem que dar o primeiro passo. They’ll accept your convite de data but they certainly won’t approach you first.
What I’m trying to tell you is that your girl doesn’t have to necessarily display each one of the signs listed below for you to be sure she’s interested. Nevertheless, she’ll send some of these signals for sure- that is, if she’s into you.
So buckle up and take notes- even if there doesn’t exist a girl you want to figure out now, someday, these tricks will come in handy.
Contacto visual
Os olhos são os espelhos da alma. If you look into someone’s eyes, you can hack exactly how that person feels and what she thinks. Eyes will never deceive you.
When a girl hides her feelings, she might even be rude to you. She might not text or call you and she definitely won’t tell you she likes you.
Those are the reactions she can easily control. Maybe her brain is telling her that you’re not for her or she just wants you to work harder for her attention- the possibilities are endless.
But the thing she has no control over whatsoever is her eyes. Even if she does her best to hide it, you’ll see that little spark in her eyes every time she looks at you or even when you just enter the room.
Sometimes, she’ll be unaware that she is looking at you. Or maybe she’ll do her best to stare at you when she thinks nobody sees her.
Either way, the point is that her eyes will tell you a lot about this girl’s feelings. This is exactly why they’re the first thing you must pay attention to.
Contacto visual prolongado
The first subtle sign of a girl who is into you is the fact that she is desperate to make eye contact. Not only that- but even when you look back at her, she won’t look away.
A isto chama-se contacto visual prolongado. Para que o contacto visual seja prolongado, deve durar pelo menos 7 segundos.
Don’t worry, I’m not telling you to count the seconds- I’m sure you’ll understand when a girl is looking at you.
You know that feeling when someone stares at you and you just feel it? You’re not even looking in their direction at the moment but it’s like their eyes are calling your name.
Well, that’s exactly what’s going on here. This girl can’t keep her eyes off you, as much as she tries.
Se ela olhar para si várias vezes, está definitivamente interessada em si. Acredite, ela quer mesmo que você se aperceba de que alguém o está a observar.
Also, she is probably analyzing every little detail about you. No, she is not looking for your flaws so don’t feel too self-conscious.
Pelo contrário, é provável que ela esteja a admirar a sua aparência, o seu rosto, o seu corpo, as suas expressões faciais e algumas outras coisas, como a forma como segura o seu copo.
Para além de tudo isto, todos os treinadores de encontros lhe dirão o mesmo: as raparigas usam os olhos como uma arma para dar o primeiro passo.
Por exemplo, quando um um rapaz gosta de uma rapariga, he’ll probably approach her, get her a drink or just directly ask for her number. But let’s be honest: despite all the regras modernas de namoroA maioria das mulheres não é assim tão direta.
Basically, they will just sit there, stare at you until you realize that they’re attracted to you. Yeah, it would be a lot easier if you didn’t have to decode their looks but these are the female body language signs of attraction and you’ll just have to deal with it.
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Desviar o olhar
So, check this out. Sometimes, when a girl doesn’t look at you- she might still be into you.
Of course, I’m not talking about that girl who didn’t give you one single look during the entire evening- I hate to break it to you but that one probably isn’t interested.
I’m talking about those girls who give you a quick glance and then look away. I bet you know exactly the look I’m talking about.
Parece ciência de foguetões - eu sei. De facto, a maioria dos homens que não têm experiência em encontros entenderá isto como um sinal para se afastar.
No entanto, quando uma rapariga quer enviar-lhe um sinal subtil de linguagem corporal de que gosta de si - ela desviará o olhar depois de olhar brevemente para si.
Women wouldn’t be women if they didn’t complicate things, I know.
Uma espreitadela ao seu cérebro
Vou tentar simplificar as coisas para si: há dois tipos de looks.
One is straightforward—and you’ve hit a home run—while the other is subtle. She looks at you, but she hides the fact that she looks at you.
These girls that are hiding will never ever approach you—either they are shy or they simply don’t have enough confidence to start up a conversation.
Another reason why this happens is that they don’t want to be caught. Sometimes, women think that you’ll think of them as more valuable if they jogar mais para conseguir.
It doesn’t make much sense- I know. But if a woman is about to fall in love with you and she is aware of that- the last thing she would want is for you to notice it.
She doesn’t want you to “win” this game of cat and mice. If she exposes her feelings, she’s scared that you’ll instantly cool off or that you’ll stop lutando pela sua atenção.
On the other hand, if you don’t like her back, she’ll come out as desperate. At the same time, she knows that her eyes don’t lie.
Of course, you’ll realize a girl is into you if she keeps on checking you out. What else could you possibly think?
Well, to avoid that- she’ll just look away. But sometimes, she has to treat herself with a sneak peek- because the truth is that she can’t take her eyes off you.
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Brincar com o cabelo dela
Nice, long, shiny hair is a powerful sign of sexuality and femininity—and women are aware of that. Come on, what woman do you know that’s not obsessed with her hair?
Every time something big happens in their life, the first thing they change is their hairstyle, haircut, or hair color. That’s how important hair is in every girl’s life.
It’s what makes girls girls, am I right? Don’t get me wrong- this is not me saying that a woman can’t have short hair.
I’m just referring to the fact that long hair, braids, ponytails, or pigtails make women feel more feminine from a very young age.
Their self-esteem usually depends on the type of hair day they’re having and they invest a lot of time and effort in making it perfect.
O que é que isto lhe diz? Diz-nos que as raparigas são super conscientes do seu cabelo.
Trust me: when her hair is on point, she doesn’t have to be wearing any makeup and can be walking around in old sweatpants- every woman will feel like she’s on fire.
So, it shouldn’t come to you as a surprise that every girl’s hair has to be absolutely perfect when she is talking to a guy she’s into. This is especially true if we’re talking about long hair- she’ll be touching it every few seconds.
So, if a girl who has an eye on you is playing with her hair while you are around, if she’s tossing it, it’s a sinal de linguagem corporal de que ela likes you. It’s like this girl is telling you: “Look how amazing my hair is.”
Outros sinais de linguagem corporal que ela gosta de si
Also, there are a few more telltale signs she is interested in. She’ll probably tilt her head or stretch out and touch her neck like it’s sore and she is hurting—in translation, “I need a neck massage badly”.
Make sure you are the one who’s going to make the pain go away.
Toque físico
It’s a common fact that women avoid touching people they don’t like. They keep people they don’t like and are not close to away from their personal space.
Mas se ela gosta de ti, ela vai aproveitar qualquer oportunidade para te tocar. Confia em mim - este é um ótimo sinal de que ela sente forte atração sexual de si.
She might lightly hit you on the hand if you told a good joke or she might place her hand on our shoulder when she sees you and asks how you’re doing.
Any contact is a good sign, even those ‘accidental’ ones like brushing against you in the hallway just to feel your abs.
Here is another positive sign you shouldn’t ignore: a girl fixing your clothes or removing lints from your clothing. It’s just an excuse to make some physical contact, to feel you up, and to examine your body temperature: does it get up when she comes near you?
As mulheres são provocadoras quando namoriscam, e adoram o jogo da perseguição mais do que pensa.
The point is that this girl just can’t help herself. She feels this uncontrollable urge to touch you and that’s exactly what she does.
Uma espreitadela à sua mente
She would be the happiest if she could hug or kiss you right on the spot. So, why doesn’t she just do it, you must wonder.
Well, she doesn’t have the courage. Or she thinks it would be inappropriate. Or she waits for you to make the first step.
Or she thinks that you would push her away since you don’t see her like that. Or she is just testing the waters.
The possibilities are endless here. And at the end of the day, you don’t really care why she is doing something- you’re only interested in WHAT she’s doing.
O que interessa é que ela está a tocar-te de uma forma ou de outra.
Lábios
Every woman’s lips are her strongest weapon. Of course, her smile is a trigger and her kisses are the bullets.
But before you get to some real actions, she’ll use her lips to send you some serious sinais físicos de atração.
A woman can use her lips so your jaw drops and you want to take her into your arms as soon as possible—in these situations you are helpless.
Muitas mulheres utilizam esta situação quando sabem que um homem as está a observar e fazem movimentos com os lábios que fazem tremer os joelhos.
It’s like she’s giving you a little introduction to the things that await you if you two hook up. I know you’ve wanted to kiss her up to now but from the moment she starts teasing you with her lips- you can’t wait to seal this little game with a passionate French kiss.
Morder ou lamber os lábios
Ou mordem o lábio inferior em câmara lenta, fingindo que não se apercebem de que estão a ser observados e babam-se como uma personagem de desenhos animados, ou lambem-no lentamente para o humedecer.
Além disso, pôr batom de uma forma sensual é uma das suas armas mais fortes. Ninguém consegue ficar indiferente ao ver estes movimentos profissionais.
Before you know it, you’ll catch yourself staring at her lips that move in slow motion. Actually, you’ll probably be one step away from drooling.
A olhar para os teus lábios
What does it mean when a girl looks at your lips? But let’s get one thing straight: she doesn’t just give them a glance- she literally stares.
Well, isn’t it obvious, you fool? She wants you to kiss her so badly. You probably didn’t take all of her other hints so she was forced to proceed with open body language.
Arqueamento das costas
Back arching is that movement when women push their boobs in front and their bottom back. Basically, they want their main attributes to stand out even more so they often exaggerate their body’s natural curvature.
Uma mulher arqueia as costas para tornar os seus seios mais proeminentes e o seu físico elegante, logo sedutor.
Porque é que a sua rapariga faz isto? Bem, se ela começa a fazê-lo no momento em que você entra na sala - ela está, sem dúvida, a tentar chamar a sua atenção.
I know what you’re about to say: you don’t like her just for her rabo grande e mamas grandes– you want to get to know her personality.
I’m sure you’re being honest but come on, we all know physical appearance is the thing that will atrair qualquer homemincluindo tu, no início.
Mas atenção, porque o arqueamento das costas pode ser um truque. É uma ferramenta de sedução à distância.
Why can it be a tricky one? Don’t mistake stretching for seduction. Maybe she was just tired—always double-check the signs on your list.
Corar
Blushing is the first sign of nervousness. It’s like that in little children and it remains that way throughout our adulthood.
Let’s face it- we all blush from time to time. But some of us are lousier in this than the others.
This girl is one of those people. She is not immature and it doesn’t have to do a lot with her dating experience- ela é apenas tímida.
It means that she needs more time to open up about her feelings and to let you in. It’s not that you need to necessarily make a dirty joke for her to blush- it will be enough to engage in a conversation or start asking her some more questões pessoais.
Don’t worry- you’re not crossing the line here. It’s just a part of her personality and I hope you find it kind of cute.
Raparigas tímidas really don’t know how to hide the fact that they like someone.
Mesmo que estejam do outro lado da sala, se apenas olhares para ela, ela vai corar.
É claro que há outras razões para corar, mas se isso acontecer mais do que uma vez, então a razão é você.
On a side note, let’s go back a little to the part about eye contact. Remember how I told you about girls who look away after your eyes lock theirs?
Well, I was talking mainly about this type of shy girl. She is terrified that you’ll make fun of her or that she is looking ridiculous looking at you, so she’ll turn her head in the other direction.
Andar sedutor
Nenhuma mulher gosta quando um cretino, a quem não deu sinais, a observa, especialmente se apimentar a situação com comentários inapropriados ou piadas ofensivas.
But what about a guy they’re into? Well, in that case, checking her out from head to toe is very much welcomed.
So, how can you know if you’re allowed to stare or not? Again rocket science, I know.
Let me reveal to you a little secret: when a girl is sitting down (even if it’s on a barstool), you can’t see her entire body or her outfit, right? Well, she knows that as well.
That’s why she will make excuses just to pass by you. And guess what? It will not be an ordinary walk.
Ela passa lentamente por si, acenando com a ancas bonitas back and forth to make them more prominent. It’s her weapon for capturing your attention.
It’s also likely that she’ll bring a friend with her. Well, first of all, not to be that obvious. Secondly, she wants moral support.
Last but not least- her friend is checking whether you’re looking while the object of your affection can focus on looking her best (and completely uninterested, of course.)
Olhar por cima do ombro
According to all relationship experts, women have a very specific look they will give someone when they’re interested in them.
Ela levantará ligeiramente o ombro e olhará para trás, de modo a obter um perfil lateral. Este é um dos sinais de linguagem corporal de que ela gosta de si.
This is a pose you’re most likely to see in magazines. If she looks over her shoulder at you with a smile on her face, that’s a surefire sign that she’s into you.
Let me tell you another secret- all women have the “good side” of their face. This might sound ridiculous to you but I swear, it’s the truth.
Alguns acreditam que o seu perfil esquerdo é mais bonito, enquanto outros pensam o mesmo sobre o contorno do seu rosto direito.
Porque é que isto é importante para ti? Bem, esta rapariga gosta de si e quer que goste dela também.
That is exactly why you’ll almost always get the famous look over the shoulder from her better side. Pay closer attention and you’ll see how right I am.
Se a apanhares a olhar para ti mais do que uma vez, de que estás à espera?
She can’t keep her eyes off of you and obviously, she can’t take the smile off of her face while she’s doing it.
Cruzes de pernas
Quando uma rapariga cruza as pernas perto de si, não há dúvida de que ela sente-se atraída por si.
This is something she can’t control because she is either nervous or she wants you to know that you have her undivided attention.
Next time, pay attention to where her knee is pointing. If it’s pointing at you, then go for it because it’s a clear sign she likes you.
Antes de mais, é assim que as pernas dela ficam mais bonitas. Uma perna pressiona a outra e o seu tónus muscular parece imediatamente mais elevado.
Em segundo lugar, esta posição ajuda-a com a sua postura. Ela parece muito mais feminina e lembra-a de fazer o arco para trás.
Finally, it can also be a sign that she’s thinking about your potential sexual encounter. She is turned on but she can’t help herself at the moment so she just crosses her legs to at least feel something.
But please, be aware that not every woman’s body language is identical. The leg crossing isn’t enough for you to think that a girl wants to sleep with you.
It’s one thing if it’s followed by some other signals. Nevertheless, you still must respect her espaço pessoal e limites.
Mexer nas jóias
Every girl feels better when she looks better. She doesn’t have to follow all the trends- what matters is that she is satisfied with her appearance.
E os acessórios são uma das coisas que as mulheres simplesmente adoram. Quando falo em acessórios, penso sobretudo em jóias.
Psychologically, a woman’s jewelry makes her feel attractive and more confident.
If a girl is playing with her jewelry while she’s talking to you, that’s a sign that she’s into you.
She’s not aware of it—it’s the same as playing with her hair or crossing her legs.
It’s not that she wants you to pay attention to her jewelry. She is just nervous to the point that she finds comfort in playing with it.
She’s so lost in you, in your words, and in nervousness that she can’t control the little movements she does with her legs or hands.
If she’s playing with her necklace, ring, or twisting her earrings, the only thing that’s left for you to see is on which level she’s interested in you.
A voz dela soa à tua volta
This is another thing women can’t control when they’re with someone they like.
Her pitch will get a bit higher once she’s around you, and you can see that she’s interested in you by watching how excited she acts.
On the other hand, if a woman doesn’t like a man, her voice will get deeper.
I know you must think this is a bunch of nonsense but it’s actually been scientifically proven.
If you want to know something interesting: a woman’s voice is one of the things that makes her more attractive to women. This is especially true during a woman’s fertile period of the cycle.
How nature regulates itself perfectly, doesn’t it?
Pés apontados para si
Here is another trick nobody probably told you about. In fact, I bet this is something you pay no attention to whatsoever. Well, it’s time you start.
When a girl is into you, she’ll stand as close as possible to you- we already know that. But what matters, even more, is the position of her feet.
This girl’s feet will be pointed at you at all times.
Basically, we all point our feet towards the direction in which we want to go. So, if you’re standing alone or in a group and this girl’s feet are pointed away from you or from the rest of the group, she wants to go away desperately.
But even that doesn’t have to be a sign that she doesn’t like you. Don’t forget that not every woman’s body language is the same.
Sim, isto mostra que ela quer sair. No entanto, já lhe ocorreu que ela não se sente à vontade para falar consigo?
Não porque não esteja interessada, mas porque é apenas tímida e está muito nervosa na sua presença.
Espelhar a sua linguagem corporal
Mirroring is one of the strongest subconscious languages of affection and empathy. When we mirror someone’s behavior, we usually have a deep connection with that person- or at least, we want to have one.
There is an entire psychology behind mirroring one’s non-verbal language. It happens without either of the people being aware but it actually sends a strong message.
Esta rapariga ri-se quando você se ri? Ela imita o tom da tua voz?
Ela copia os seus gestos com as mãos? Faz expressões faciais semelhantes às suas?
Ela imita a sua postura? Andam os dois em sincronia e a par e passo?
Quantas vezes já vos aconteceu começarem ou pararem de falar exatamente no mesmo momento? Alguma vez olharam um para o outro (ou desviaram o olhar) ao mesmo tempo?
Bem, aí tem: estes são todos os sinais de linguagem corporal que ela gosta de si. Mas não é só isso: este é também um sinal de que vocês os dois estão mais ligados do que possa pensar.
Estar perto de si
Other body language signs that she likes you include this girl’s being constantly near you. It’s not that she’s invading your space- she’s letting you inside of hers.
And that’s a big deal for most girls, especially the shy ones. It’s proof that this woman feels safe around you.
Subconscientemente, ela sabe que tu nunca fazer nada para a magoar. Por isso, baixa a guarda, pois não corre perigo.
You might find this funny but most women have some kind of radar. They’re constantly in fear (which they’re usually unaware of) of a man who is physically stronger than them (and let’s face it, that’s how things are in most cases) hurting them this way or another.
That’s why they keep their fence up when they’re around men they don’t trust. No entanto, esta rapariga sente-se diferente ao seu lado.
Ela confia em si o suficiente para se abrir consigo e para o deixar aproximar-se dela.
Besides, she really enjoys your presence. She feels nice whenever she’s around you, especially when you’re close enough so she can feel your skin on hers.
Outra razão pela qual ela faz isso é para seduzir-vos. If you two are with a larger group of friends or in a crowded place, she’ll always lean toward you.
She wants you to feel her breasts and to smell the scent of her perfume. She is doing this on purpose since she knows this will turn you on. And I’m sure you don’t mind at all.
Palmas das mãos suadas
Já escrevi sobre alguns sinais de nervosismo vindos de uma rapariga que gosta de si. Bem, as palmas das mãos suadas também se enquadram neste critério.
This is another female body language sign of attraction she has no control over, similar to blushing. And trust me, she’d be the happiest if she could.
This girl’s heart rate skyrockets every time she’s with you. So, if you try to hold her hand or if you guys still shake hands, you’ll notice that her palms are completely wet.
There is nothing disgusting about this- have in mind that it’s just a body’s perfectly normal reaction. If her hormones go wild, she could even get sweat stains under her armpits.
But we all sweat, don’t we? So please, just don’t make a big deal about it.
Actually, don’t comment on it at all. If you do, you’ll make her self-conscious about something she is not in charge of.
As a result, she’ll start sweating even more and she’ll probably avoid any contact with you in the future, regardless of her feelings.
What you can do is try and make her feel as relaxed as possible. This kind of reaction will probably go away any time soon and she’ll be able to enjoy every moment spent with you without wondering if you noticed her sweat.
Os limites pessoais estão abertos
Durante algum tempo, observe a sua namorada. Como é que ela se comporta com outros homens? E como é que ela se comporta consigo?
There is a difference, right? It’s like some of her personal boundaries are open exclusively to you.
But theoretically, you’re nothing mais do que sua amiga. You don’t have the title of her boyfriend- at least, not yet.
Well, isn’t it clear that she wants you to become one?
Por exemplo, veja o contacto físico que ela tem com os outros e compare-o com o contacto que vocês têm.
Look at the way she hugs her other male friends and then look at the way she hugs you. I’m sure she lets you keep her in your arms a bit longer.
How would she react if her friend picked her up out of nowhere while you’re all walking? I bet she’d be furious.
And what about you? I’m sure she’d laugh and tease you even more.
This also goes for physical distance between her and other people. You’re the one she sits the closest to, aren’t you?
Aqui vai um conselho de relacionamento pro-bono: esta rapariga provavelmente está a vê-lo como potencial material para namorado and it’s your job not to ruin the image she has.
Pupilas dilatadas
Aqui está um pouco mais de ciência. Isto será especialmente útil para aqueles que não são muito bons em interacções sociais e têm dificuldade em ler os sinais.
This is something you can’t possibly go wrong with so let’s check it out.
Remember how we talked about oxytocin? Well, guess what: it’s not the only love hormone in the book. What also counts is dopamine.
Basicamente, estes dois elementos estão presentes no seu sistema sempre que you’re infatuated with someone. Even though these hormones affect male and female systems slightly differently, we all get dosed up the moment when we’re attracted to someone.
Bem, o que precisa de saber aqui é que a combinação destas hormonas faz com que as suas pupilas fiquem dilatadas.
Therefore, if your girl’s pupils suddenly get bigger than usual the moment she starts talking to you- it’s one of the body language signs she likes you. I’m not the one saying it- science does.
Rir de todas as vossas piadas
Making people funny is not an easy task. But it’s an important one and sure is a huge part of dating and cortejar e também da relação que tem com esta rapariga.
I hate to break your bubble but dude, you’re not that funny. You can be a professional stand-up comedian but it’s literally impossible for one person to laugh at every single joke you make.
But wait, what’s that? You tell me that all of your ex-girlfriends laughed at your jokes as well?
Exactly my point! What did all of these girls have in common? That’s right: they were all in love with you.
Whenever you tell something remotely funny, this girl bursts into laughter. She doesn’t care if the rest of your friend group doesn’t find you amusing- her eyes literally shine when you turn into a comedian.
Deixa-me que te diga, meu, esta rapariga é a tua fã número um. Sabes qual é a melhor parte?
She’s not even pretending to like your sense of humor. She’s not doing it to get under your skin.
No, she’s not one of those pick me, choose me girls. She’s not doing it to be the center of attention either.
Esta mulher acha-o mesmo hilariante. Cada uma das suas falas deixa-a de rastos e não há muita lógica por detrás disso.
De que outras provas precisa realmente?
Well, if you insist…
Preensão
When you’re in a relação duradoura, it becomes impossible to look your best in front of your partner at all times- especially if you’re living together.
No entanto, no início, quando começamos a namorar ou, mais ainda, quando começamos a namoriscar, todos queremos que o conto de fadas ganhe vida.
Women are always perfectly waxed and brushed, have full make-up on, and wear the most seducing perfume you’ve ever smelled.
This is not false pretenses. It’s just girls’ way of arousing interest in boys.
Well, that’s exactly what the object of your infatuation is doing. She is making sure you always catch her at her best and that’s why she’s adjusting herself and preening all the time.
Of course, let’s not forget that she’s also doing it because she is nervous as hell. It’s an efficient way to keep her hands busy (so you don’t see them shaking and her palms sweating).
Inclinando a cabeça
If we listen to science, we’ll say that a head tilt is a submissive body language signal. It’s what animals do when they expose their neck and throat and surrender to the enemy, which is another animal
But when we humans are concerned, it’s one of the female body language signs of attraction.
It’s the movement a woman performs when she is listening to you carefully, when she is sympathetic to your problems and issues, and when she’s interested in what you have to say.
Este sinal, por si só, não é suficiente para concluir que uma rapariga está interessada em si. Talvez ela esteja apenas a ser simpática e educada e queira realmente ouvir o que tem para dizer.
No entanto, se ela o mostrar juntamente com algumas (ou a maioria) das outras pistas desta lista, o caso está encerrado.
Postura corporal aberta
Open body posture means that the vulnerable part of your body- the trunk is exposed to another person. In flirting, this usually refers to the woman’s torso because it’s nothing unusual for her to have her legs crossed.
Braços cruzados no peito é uma pose de luta e significa que a pessoa não está pronta para se abrir.
On the other hand, if your girl has an open body posture, you’re one step closer to ending up in her arms.
Mudança de personalidade
Not every girl will admit this but in most cases, their personality drastically changes the moment their crush enters the room. Of course, I’m not saying that she’ll suddenly change her attitudes and moral values just to become more likable to you.
I’m just talking about the way her posture, tone of voice, and non-verbal language changes whenever you’re around. Suddenly, she becomes more girly in order to reveal her feminine side.
Algumas mulheres tornam-se mais ruidosas (por vezes, mesmo sem se aperceberem) para chamar a vossa atenção. Por outro lado, algumas tornam-se mais caladas porque querem deixar uma impressão de raparigas com boas maneiras.
At the end of the day, the point is the same: whenever you’re around, she becomes a whole different person.
But you can’t know this for sure, can you? You have no way of knowing how she acted while you weren’t around.
Well, in that case, follow her friends’ reactions. If they ask her what happened out of the blue or start accusing her of not being herself- that’s your proof.
Sinais não verbais de ciúme
So this girl isn’t your actual girlfriend. Therefore, theoretically, she has no right to be jealous. You’re a single man and can do whatever the hell you want.
But in practice, things don’t work that simple. It’s not like she can order herself not to be jealous just because she doesn’t have a label.
When you like someone, you want them for yourself only. And you’re jealous of everyone near them, whether you have the right to feel that way or not.
Nevertheless, you can’t hide body language cues of jealousy.
Whenever you mention another woman in this girl’s presence, she makes that face. Yes, the one with the sad eyes, looking at you like a little puppy whose ships have sailed.
If you happen to dare to introduce her to a girl you’re dating or she knows you are in some kind of a relationship with, you’ll understand the real meaning of the phrase “If looks could kill”.
She probably won’t have a real explosão de ciúmes mas podia sair da sala ou fazer comentários desagradáveis sobre a terceira rapariga.
Seguir a sua reação
She won’t be only laughing at your jokes (even when they’re awful), she’ll also do her best to show you that she also has an outstanding sense of humor (she probably doesn’t but don’t tell her that).
Let’s picture it: you two are with a bunch of friends. She tells a joke. It doesn’t matter what kind of a joke it is or whether it’s really funny or not.
Everybody can die laughing but she doesn’t care. She is not interested in making a good impression on them.
She is only observing your reaction. She is not being too obvious about it but if you pay attention, you’ll see that what I’m telling is true.
If you don’t laugh as much as she hoped you would, you can literally see the sadness in her eyes. On the other hand, if you burst out of laughter, suddenly, she’s the happiest girl in the world (even if everyone else gave her a cold shoulder.)
Not only that: she also memorized the type of humor you prefer so that’s the only kind she is into as well now.
This girl wants to make you happy- at least, for a while. She loves it when you’re laughing, especially when she knows she’s the one who caused it.
Ela quer que ligue esse sentimento de alegria com ela. Ela quer ser a fonte da sua energia positiva e da sua alegria.
Flash para sobrancelhas
Este pode ser um dos sinais não-verbais mais fortes de uma rapariga que está interessada em si.
Um movimento caraterístico de todas as mulheres apaixonadas é um olhar sedutor por cima do ombro, expondo o outro lado do pescoço.
Bare skin shows vulnerability—she is showing she is a delicate flower that needs to be nurtured.
If she wears glasses, she’ll just give you the look over them- you know what kind of a look I’m talking about. Or if she has a drink in front of her, she’ll look at you while taking a sip or while putting a straw in her mouth.
Ela está a seduzi-lo com o seu olhar. Acredita em mim, ninguém o faz melhor. Elas simplesmente têm essas coisas nelas.
Sorrir muito
We’re all happy when in the presence of the people we’re attracted to, especially if we’re falling in love. I’m sure you’ve heard of oxytocin, frequently called the love hormone.
Well, simply said, it’s the neurotransmitter that makes us happy. The point is that it is, among other times, released when we fall in love.
Aí está: a resposta para o porquê deste a rapariga tem um sorriso enorme na cara dela sempre que o vê - o mais provável é que sinta algo por si.
Um sorriso verdadeiro e honesto é a melhor coisa que se pode ver. Ver alguém genuinamente feliz por estar na sua companhia.
Este é certamente um dos sinais mais fortes da linguagem corporal de que ela gosta de si.
But be careful, don’t misinterpret her smiling at you—maybe she is a person who smiles a lot.
Check if she’s smiling to others as often as she is to you. If she’s not, you got it in the bag!
Respiração profunda
Here is another good sign this girl is nervous as hell whenever you’re around: taking deep breaths. You know how they say: “You tirar-me o fôlego“.
Well, with you and her, this is much more than a phrase- it’s what you literally do. She gets so excited when she sees you or talks to you that she forgets how to breathe.
That’s why she has to take so many deep breaths- to restore the level of oxygen in her system.
It’s a well-known fact that deep breaths have a good impact on you. They lower your blood pressure, slow down your racing heartbeat and consequently, remove the stress out of the equation.
So, if you notice your girl doing this, don’t comment on anything because you’ll only make her even more anxious. Ignore it and let her go back on the track.
Agitação
What bigger sign of nervousness do you need besides fidgeting? Isn’t it obvious that this girl’s entire body is trembling in your presence?
Her hands shake, her feet shake- a common coping mechanism for stress. But don’t worry- you’re not a bad kind of stress for her.
De frente para si
The same way this girl’s feet are pointed towards you, so is her face. Well, that is, if she is not too shy to keep looking.
When you have yourself a more confident girl, she’ll be looking you directly in the eyes (or occasionally glance over your mouth) and she’ll always face you.
Even if you two are not sitting next to one another, she’ll face you across the room. It’s just that she wants to see what you’re doing and who you’re looking at.
Gestos com as mãos
Os gestos com as mãos são uma parte importante da nossa sinais não verbais de atração and communication in general. One of the body language signs she likes you is her hands on her hips. It’s a flirtatious move most girls use to emphasize their curves.
Also, let’s not forget that her hands will be all over you most of the time- we already talked about pricking pieces of lint and physical contact.
The bottom line is that you’ll almost always see her hands- that’s the hint you should pay attention to. She won’t hide them under the table or under her armpits.
Como é que sabes se uma rapariga gosta de ti em segredo?
If a girl is into you but is hiding her true feelings, she’ll display most of the body signs she likes you, such as being close to you, looking you directly in the eyes and lips, smiling at you all the time, laughing at your jokes… She’ll also be your number one social media fan but the moment you see her in person, she’ll get all nervous around you.
This is a tricky situation, I must confess. On one side, you have all the signs right in front of you but on the other, you can’t be sure about her reasons to keep her feelings a secret and you certainly can’t force her into tearing down her walls.
In that case, I’ll give you some conselhos sobre relações. Make a move on her but don’t be too pushy- just so she knows you like her as well.
If she turns you down, wait until she’s ready (if that’s something you’re willing to do). If she goes for it, live happily ever after and thank me later!
Para terminar:
Here you are guys—thirty proven body language signs she likes you. Check how many you have gotten from the list and make a move—it will be worth it!
Mas antes de prosseguir, aqui vai um pequeno aviso: preste atenção ao comportamento dela e verifique sempre todos os sinais.
Algumas mulheres são simplesmente flirts naturais e o seu comportamento não tem nada a ver com o facto de ela gostar de si.
