Os verdadeiros homens escolhem sempre o amor a longo prazo em vez da luxúria a curto prazo

Quando olhamos à nossa volta e vemos todas as consequências de encontros modernosParece que o amor está morto há muito tempo.

Ninguém procura uma ligação verdadeira ou um vínculo profundo e toda a gente só está interessada em relações de uma noite e sem compromissos.

Tudo gira em torno de sexo sem sentido e parece que todos os homens que conhecemos têm fobia ao compromisso. Ninguém está interessado em encontrar um amor eterno, alguém com quem envelhecer ou alguém com quem passar o resto da vida.

And consequently, you’ve lost your faith in love. You think of yourself as a hopeless romantic who believes in fairy tales that can never be real.

You think of yourself as an old-fashioned fool who keeps waiting for a romance that doesn’t exist.

But that is far from the truth. The reason why you think this way is because you keep running into immature boys who don’t have a clue about life. They don’t know what they want and never think about the future.

Contrary to them, real men are quite different. Don’t get me wrong—I am not saying that sex isn’t important to a mature man because it definitely is.

But a mature man will not put all of his focus into getting laid and he’ll never pursue sex just to satisfy his physical needs. Instead, he always puts sex into the context of love.

This guy won’t waste his energy on a meaningless physical connection, when he knows that real intimacy is much more. And that is exactly what he’ll look for.

Recordar—a real man will always choose long-term love over short-term lust. He doesn’t have time to play games and he doesn’t enjoys the chase.

Em vez disso, ele quer algo com significado e algo que perdure.

Ele procura uma mulher que o satisfaça em mais do que um sentido, uma mulher que seja a sua cara-metade a todos os níveis e uma mulher que seja a sua companheira em todos os aspectos da vida.

Ele procura uma mulher forte porque é um homem forte também. E quando a encontra, nunca tenta diminuir o seu valor, porque não se sente ameaçado ou intimidado pela sua independência ou poder.

Em vez disso, orgulha-se do facto de esta senhora especial o ter escolhido em vez de todos os outros homens deste mundo.

He is happy because he doesn’t only have a lover—ele também tem um melhor amigo e um companheiro de vida.

Once he finds this woman, he’ll never throw away everything he’s built with her because of something temporary. He won’t allow himself to only be led by his instincts and he will never gamble with his relationship.

Instead, he will fight for it with everything he has. He won’t expect for his woman to be perfect nor will he be tempted by replacing her as soon as he finds another woman a bit more attractive.

This man will think of his woman as unique and he’ll always see her inner beauty before anything else. He’ll appreciate everything she does for him and he’ll be grateful for each and every one of her sacrifices.

He’ll be thankful for having such a guardian angel and he wouldn’t trade her for anything in this world.

This man will never think of taking his better half for granted and he’ll never assume that he can replace her in the blink of an eye because he is perfectly well aware of how lucky he is for having her.

A real man knows that love isn’t a fairy tale and he doesn’t expect for his relationship or marriage to remain in the honeymoon stage forever. He knows what life is and is aware that a healthy relationship needs to constantly be worked on.

E é exatamente isso que ele continua a fazer—ele esforça-se e tenta dar a volta à sua mulher porque perdê-la é a última coisa que ele quer.

So please, don’t lose your faith because a man like this will come into your life.

And when he does, you’ll see that all of this waiting wasn’t for nothing and you will be more than happy that you permaneceu solteira até ele aparecer.