Os homens tendem a ser misteriosos: 16 sinais subtis de que ele gosta de si
Porque é que os homens escondem os seus sentimentos? Porque é que é preciso procurar subtilezas sinais de que ele gosta de si?
Bem, alguns homens tendem a ser reservados em relação às suas emoções. Simplesmente não se sentem confortáveis em expor tudo abertamente.
Nestas situações, O que deve fazer, exatamente, para além de aumentar as suas capacidades de detetive e tentar ler essas dicas e sinais subtis ele gosta de ti mais do que uma amiga?
Pode ser cansativo. Mas também a antecipação de não saber com certeza se um rapaz gosta de si pode ser intrigante e excitante.
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Not to mention all that the enigma of a guy who doesn’t put it all out in the open can be extremely attractive.
If we’re being completely honest with ourselves, we’d much rather search for those little telltale signs and little things than prove it right away. Straightforwardness kills the mystery in those early stages of a romance.
So if you can’t stop asking yourself ”Ele gosta de mim ou estou apenas a imaginar todos estes sinais?” look no further. Here, you’ll get confirmation that your o homem tem medo de gostar de si.
And after you do, the ball’s in your court and you finally get to make your move knowing you’ve got a real shot here!
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Como é que sabes se um homem gosta de ti mas está a esconder isso?
Quando um homem tenta esconder o seu sentimentos verdadeiros, you shouldn’t listen to what he’s saying. Instead, pay muita atenção to the things he’s not telling you– especially to his body language signs and his tone of voice.
If you just focus on his body language (or if he’s nervously fidgeting around you) you’ll see what I mean. His voice will start shaking every time you’re near, his hands will sweat and he’ll blush every time he looks at you.
Que mais provas são necessárias para ver que este o homem está apaixonado por ti?
Porque é que ele esconde os seus sentimentos?
As razões para o seu comportamento não tão transparente ou direto podem variar.
Ele pode ser um desses rapazes tímidos que têm relutância em aproximar-se de si e em estabelecer contacto físico imediatamente.
He might be putting you on a pedestal while feeling he’s way out of your league. Or his shyness might make him wait for you to make the first move.
Por outro lado, ele pode estar a testar o campo e a usar o seu precioso tempo para ver se vocês estão na mesma página.
He’s taking it slow and doesn’t want to rush into things yet he’s nevertheless giving you those subtle hints that he wants to be with you.
It can be through texting, where he’s very flirty and obviously interested, but when you’re with a group of friends on a Friday night, all you’ll get is friendly banter as he’s unsure of your possible reaction.
The most common scenario is that the two of you are already friends or even coworkers and he doesn’t want to mess that up.
Ele valoriza-te demasiado e tem medo que, se vires o subtil sinais de que ele gosta de ti mais do que uma amigaSe o fizer, as coisas ficarão estranhas entre vocês e ele pode até perder-te como amigo.
Por outro lado, no caso de ver subtil sinais ele gosta de si no trabalho, a política do escritório ou um ambiente de trabalho possivelmente desagradável podem estar a impedi-lo.
16 Sinais subtis de que um homem gosta de si
Existem muitos sinais de que um homem gosta de si but is hesitant to show it and that’s what we’ll cover here today. You’ll get your first date, but first, you have to confirm that all those subtle things mean exactly what you think they do.
Ele ilumina-se à tua volta
There is something about you that simply makes him radiant and happy every time you enter the room, when he sees you, or when he’s simply around. Ele tem um sorriso que diz mais do que quaisquer palavras jamais poderiam dizer.
As pessoas sorriem da sua alma quando estão apaixonados – regardless if they’re hiding their feelings or putting them out in the open. Aquele brilho que elas têm quando estão perto de si é um sinal seguro, mas subtil, de que gostam de si.
Luckily, you can’t hide that inner joy that overwhelms your entire body once you lock eyes with someone who lights up your world.
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Os seus olhos reflectem as suas emoções
Há duas maneiras de saber se um rapaz gosta de si, dependendo do contacto visual.
No primeiro caso, ele olha para si a toda a hora, fazendo-a saber que he’s totally into you. Contacto visual prolongado nunca é sem razão.
Este tipo de contacto visual é reservado para machos alfa – confident and outgoing types who are subtly letting you know that they like you.
In the second scenario, he has problems locking eyes with you. His look drifts away because he’s too shy to admit it.
There are no right or wrong signs here. Guys’ behaviors and differences depend on their personalities. That doesn’t mean they like you any less.
Some guys will avoid eye contact because they’re scared of how much they like you, while others will look at you with utmost certainty and you’ll see it all right there and then. It’s all in his eyes!
Ele provoca-a de forma divertida
If he’s the type of man who is outgoing, confident, and sure of himself, he’ll have no problems playfully teasing you.
But he’ll do it in such a way that you’ll have no idea if he’s a flirt por natureza ou que gostam mesmo de si.
Pode ser bastante confuso. Mas preste atenção ao comportamento dele em relação a outras mulheres à sua volta.
If he’s the same with every other woman, he’s definitely not into you. But if he’s playfully teasing only you, that’s what happens when a guy likes you.
Ele pode ser apenas um namoriscador (provavelmente do tipo que não é de confiança). Mas, se ele a escolher and makes it clear that you’re his número um prioritário (especially in front of all of his guy friends) and his behavior towards you stands out from his usual demeanor, it’s um sinal óbvio de que ele gosta de si.
Ele gosta de passar tempo consigo
If he goes out of his way to spend as much time with you as possible, he’s clearly atraído por ti como algo mais do que um simples amigo.
He might be eager to join some activity you’re into. He might start to visit places you usually hang out at, like your favorite park, coffee shop, or library.
He’ll make as much effort as he possibly can, without overdoing it, to be around you.
He likes your company and it’s evident in his behavior and by always wanting to be somewhere near –if not right beside you.
This is a dead giveaway of a man trying to tell you something. If this guy isn’t as outgoing and confident as you may be, do him a favor and make the first move.
Esses sinais subtis ele gosta que vocês estejam todos lá, só têm de lhe atirar um osso.
Once he sees that you feel the same way, he’ll pluck up the courage he needs to win you over!
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Ele esquece-se do tempo
When he’s with you, time simply flies. So more often than not, he forgets some other things he had to do because he’s too busy talking to you.
When you’re in good company and enjoying yourself, time is a relative thing. Hours go by and when you’re with the right person, it feels like it’s been only minutes.
If you understand him and he can talk with you for hours and lose track of time, it’s definitely a good sign. In this day and age, it’s difficult to just let loose and forget about time and obligations.
There’s always somewhere you need to be and something you need to do. But when you’re with someone who makes your heart skip a beat, time becomes nonexistent.
This is why you can count on him really liking you. This doesn’t happen with just anyone.
He forgets about his surroundings and what he’s supposed to be doing
Let’s say he’s giving you a ride home. He knows where you live, so you don’t give him instructions.
But he just keeps riding past your home because he’s engaged in the conversation you’re having.
Or he’s simply distracted by the fact that you’re sitting right next to him.
Whatever it might be, if your presence makes him forgetful, he’s probably head over heels for you.
Lembras-te de como é estar com alguém que te faz esquecer o que estavas prestes a dizer?
Alguém que tem o poder de alterar completamente o teu processo de pensamento apenas pela sua mera existência?
And that’s a good thing. It takes a special person to be able to completely make you forget what you’re supposed to be doing.
It means that you’re so engaged in the conversation and simply being with him that everything else becomes less important.
If you’re at the center of his universe when he’s with you, you’re one lucky lady. It’s a clear sign of his deep and poderosa atração para si!
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Ele demora-se
Ele fica por cá mais tempo do que normalmente ficaria. He’s reluctant to leave and probably doing it subconsciously.
Ele inventa tópicos sobre isto e aquilo só para poder passar mais tempo consigo.
Se participar e facilitar a sua aproximação e falar consigo, talvez ele ganhe coragem para convidá-lo para sair no primeiro encontro! Show him you’re into his behavior and he’ll take it the right way.
Guys sometimes need just a little push in the right direction. He probably doesn’t want to make a fool of himself, so he’s lingering to see if you’ll catch his drift (which I’m sure you will).
Once you do, wait for him to make the next move. Give him a subtle sign that you’re feeling it, and he’ll take care of the rest.
If a guy likes you, it won’t take more than that for him to make his move.
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O seu comportamento muda quando há outros homens em cena
To put it simply – ele é ciumento. He can’t stand when you start talking about some other guy. He tries to change the topic.
Ele também pode ter uma abordagem diferente. Pode começar a fazer perguntas sobre o rapaz para ver se ele é uma ameaça e o que sente em relação a esse outro rapaz.
The same happens if you ask him for some dating tips. This usually happens if you two are good friends and you have no idea that he has feelings for you. In that case, you’ll probably ask him for advice on your love life.
Naturalmente, isso incomoda-o. If you’re in a relationship, it breaks his heart to listen to your planos futuros com o teu novo namorado.
Se outro rapaz está a namoriscar consigo, dando-lhe toda a sua atenção, o comportamento de um guy that’s into you também se alterará.
He will become distant. His facial expression will change and he won’t have that radiant happy smile on his face anymore.
He is probably retreating because he still hasn’t got the nerve to ask you out and just now realized he might risk losing you because he waited for so long to tell you how he feels.
And this is where you come in! Knowing that this is a clear sign that he likes you, show him you’re not interested in all those other guys.
Single him out and give him most of your attention. Once he sees that he’s the one you want as well, it’ll make it so much easier for him to do what he truly wants to do.
Ele quer impressionar-vos
When he’s retelling a story or something personal, he wants you to see his full potential. So, he always exaggerates and adds some things you presume are not true.
His stories make him into some kind of superhero who has a balanced, well-rounded life. He might even brag about the things he’s done that made him extremely proud.
Ele quer que saibas que ele é digno de ti. Ele quer impressionar-vos.
So, don’t hold his exaggerations against him. Take them as a bom sinal porque quer que gostes dele.
As pessoas à tua volta dizem-te que ele gosta de ti
Sometimes we’re clueless about somebody’s feelings towards us until someone in the role of accidental bystander points it out.
Depois, começamos a reparar que ele nos trata de forma diferente dos outros e que pode estar a acontecer alguma coisa.
Agradeça a Deus pelos amigos que estão dispostos a orientá-la na direção certa. Talvez até o chamem à atenção para a sua paixão por si.
Nessas situações, verá como ele fica desconfortável e como a cor das suas bochechas passa de pálida a corada num instante.
Sometimes when two people clearly like each other but neither is making the first move, it’s easy to get the wrong impression and think the other person doesn’t really like you.
But that’s what your friends are here for. They’ll help you realize because they are objective in this situation and know when something’s up. And with them, you always know you can trust them completely.
Ele faz-lhe elogios subtis
He’ll never exaggerate, but from time to time, he’ll notice you changed your style or cut your hair shorter.
He’ll tell you some outfit looks amazing on you or compliment you on being smart and good at what you do.
He’ll do his best to make you feel better about yourself. He probably won’t compliment you often because he doesn’t want his feelings revealed quite yet, but he’ll get to a situation where he won’t be able to help himself and will speak what’s truly on his mind.
It’s all in those subtle, yet surefire signs. Guys don’t normally notice your new haircut or a new sweatshirt.
But if he does, you know it means he’s been paying extra attention to you.
He remembers things about you that you don’t even remember
Se um rapaz está interessado, tudo o que disseres e fizeres será de grande importância para ele.
Ele lembra-se de algo que disseste há algum tempo. Ou de um sítio que visitaram juntos ou com alguns amigos comuns e que simplesmente vos escapou.
Pode nem sequer se lembrar de o ter visto, mas ele lembra-se certamente de si.
As coisas que lhe disse estão na sua memória a longo prazo. Lembrar-se de pormenores sobre si é uma sinal claro do seu afeto.
And the weird thing is, he won’t even do this on purpose. He’ll surprise himself by how much he remembers about you.
But that’s what happens when you’re infatuated by someone to that extent.
Tens toda a atenção dele
Even when his mind seems to be elsewhere or he’s not facing you, he holds onto every word you say. Ele pode pretend he doesn’t care about you but the attention he’s giving you tells you otherwise.
Maybe you’ve been in situations in which you felt like nobody else in your crowd was listening but he always paid attention. A bunch of people could be talking to him but he is just looking at you because you’re his number one priority, no matter what.
Ele participará na conversa ou poderá até estar a conduzir um diálogo separado na companhia de outras pessoas.
Os seus olhos estarão fixos em ti e he’ll be deeply interested in what you have to say.
Intriga-o e dá-lhe mais vontade de falar do que nunca. Não é muito mau, pois não?
Ele pergunta sobre o vosso estado de relacionamento
When a guy is into you, he’ll be interested in your love life. Actually, that will be one of his primary concerns.
He wants to know if you’re single. Ele pode fazer rodeios ao investigar a sua estado de relacionamento ou pode perguntar-lhe abertamente. De uma forma ou de outra, ele dir-lhe-á que é solteiro.
Just in case you were wondering. This also might be one of the reasons he still hasn’t made his move and he wants to make sure your relationship status says single before proceeding.
Por outro lado, if you’re not single, he’ll do everything in his power to “open your eyes” and to show you that your relação romântica isn’t amor verdadeiro.
No, I’m not claiming that he’ll intrigue you into breaking up with your current boyfriend. But he’ll definitely point out all the red flags and flaws of your relationship.
He wants you to see that the guy you’re dating isn’t cut out for you. His attempts will actually be kind of cute because he’ll talk to you about silly things such as your boyfriend’s height or the fact that your horoscope signs don’t match.
De qualquer forma, o seu objetivo é bastante claro: quer que o vejam como uma opção melhor. Ele quer convencê-la de que o seu atual romance a relação está condenada ao fracasso e indiretamente dizer-te que deves estar com ele.
Ele controla as suas contas nas redes sociais
Facebook, Instagram, Twitter… Give him full access to parts of you that you want to share with other people.
As redes sociais são uma óptima forma de descobrir os seus interesses, gostos e aversões. Dá-lhe mais ideias sobre coisas que partilham, sobre as quais podem falar ou que podem fazer juntos.
He’ll “like” your posts frequently. So, don’t be surprised if he likes some photo you posted a while back.
He is probably browsing every picture you ever posted and at some point, he is bound to press unintentionally ‘like’ which will be a perfect telltale sign he likes you.
What he can’t say in words, he says with body language signs
Fica perto de si quando fala. Inconscientemente, inclina-se para si a meio da conversa.
He won’t hesitate to put his hands on your shoulder or subtly touch your arm.
Já mencionei o contacto visual inevitável, mas esqueci-me de referir que ele pode estar a sondá-la e a observá-la.
His eyes might be concentrated on the area around your lips because he’s wondering what it’d be like to kiss you. His linguagem corporal os sinais dir-vos-ão tudo o que querem saber.
Como é que sabes quando um homem gosta de ti indiretamente?
Observação seu linguagem corporal e contacto visual dir-lhe-á se um o homem gosta de si antes de ele próprio o fazer, acredita. Wouldn’t you rather turn into a detective and search for those subtle ways that are a dead giveaway of his affection toward you?
Or talk him up and see if he keeps the conversation going even when you’ve exhausted all topics? That’s a great sign of a guy who yearns for your company. It’s always the subtle ways that give it away.
If he notices your new haircut and gives you undivided attention while still allowing you your personal space, those are all obvious signs of a guy’s clear affection, and you can ask any relationship expert about that being the case.
Que os homens e as mulheres vêm de planetas diferentes é um facto bem conhecido.
Men, in general, don’t like talking about their feelings or making them obvious.
As mulheres, por outro lado, não têm qualquer problema em falar sobre os seus sentimentos, mas não são muito abertas e directas sobre o facto de gostarem de alguém se não tiverem a certeza se alguém gosta delas ou não).
Porque é que ele está a levar as coisas com calma?
Se um homem lhe está a enviar alguns dos sinais claros ele tem uma paixão por si listadas acima, é provável que ele esteja à espera do momento perfeito para fazer a sua jogada ou a testar o campo para ver se são compatíveis.
Confia em mim: he doesn’t want anything temporary with you- that’s why he’s taking things slowly. Instead, he sees you as girlfriend material. He is actually building a firm and stable foundation for a relação duradoura aqui.
It’s better to get to know each other than rush into things – especially if your lives are intertwined with work, friendship, or any other relationship.
In that case, it’s better to play it safe and give the guy a chance to meet you on a deeper level first. It’ll save you a lot of awkwardness later.
E por muito bem que leiamos os sinais dos nossos gostos e desgostos mútuos, podemos enganar-nos.
Os homens dão dicas subtis?
A lot of men have a habit of giving subtle hints at first, before talking about their emotions. When a guy is not sure whether you like him back or not, he won’t be so direct about his feelings.
I know that testing the field might have some negative connotations, but in my opinion, that’s a good thing.
Por vezes, a química inicial pode ser enganadora e um rapaz que lhe agrada tanto pode não ser o par perfeito para si.
Não existe uma forma segura de fazer uma distinção clara entre um rapaz que gosta de si como amiga e um que quer algo mais. A melhor maneira de distinguir os dois é através destas dicas subtis.
Por muito que os seus amigos gostem de passar tempo consigo e gostem das coisas de que gosta, só um rapaz que sinta algo mais fará um esforço maior para a conhecer. Ele vai lembrar-se de pequenos pormenores ou ficar verde de ciúmes porque há outros rapazes por perto.
Provavelmente está no caminho certo se reconhecer um tipo de que gosta nestas dicas.
Como deve reagir?
What’s necessary for things to move on to the next level (in this case a first date) is your behavior. If you are unapproachable, he’ll hesitate to ask you out.
Estes são alguns formas de lhe dizer que gosta dele.
If you’re keeping him at arm’s length and ignorar quando ele repara em si, he’ll start to pull away.
If you’re constantly busy, if you can’t put your phone down to talk to him, he’ll feel like he’s not welcome in your company.
Mas se começar a dar-lhe pistas por si próprio, é muito provável que ele as perceba.
Se gosta de um rapaz, esteja aberta à conversa. Faça perguntas e fique a conhecê-lo melhor.
Show that you pay attention, that you’re interested in what he has to say and his interests as much as he is in yours.
Don’t overdo it. Follow his lead. If he gives you hints of his interest, return him hint –don’t make moves because you might be going ahead of yourself.
Se o vir distante e a afastar-se, deve manter a distância. Mantenha o mesmo ritmo.
If he gives you subtle hints that he likes you, he’ll surely make a move as soon as he feels comfortable doing so.
If not, don’t be too sad because you haven’t lost anything. Your relationship stayed exactly the same as before you started reading the subtle signs he likes you, so all in all, you haven’t lost anything.
If he acts on his feelings, you get a potentially good relationship. So it’s a win-win situation.
Remember: The most important thing is that you’re on the same page when it comes to your feelings. So, take your time in finding that out.
Por vezes, a magia é não saber exatamente onde se está, antecipando o possível romance que nos espera num futuro próximo.
