Como fazer com que ela te persiga: 18 truques que funcionam sempre

Está cansado de andar atrás das raparigas e de tentar provar-lhes que é capaz? Não seria bom fazer com que as raparigas o perseguissem para variar?

I bet I know your answers. That’s why we will show you some of the most efficient tactics on how to make her chase you.

They aren’t that difficult, and once you master the art of making women chase you, you’ll see your dating life change for the better.

You just have to play it cool and keep her curious all the time. It’s a game of jogar duro para conseguir. É uma das estratégias mais comuns que muitas pessoas utilizam quando se trata de encontros.

É preciso despertar o interesse dela, mantendo uma dose de mistério.

If you learn this fine art of seduction and these rules to make women chase you, it’ll be like your superpower.

However, you shouldn’t use these tips to make every girl you meet chase you. Use it only on the one you truly like or, even better, o único you’re in love with. 

Como fazer com que ela te persiga? 18 passos fáceis a seguir 

Aqui estão algumas formas simples que o ajudarão a aproximar-se de uma mulher bonita, fazê-la apaixonar-se e fazer com que ela o persiga. Os conselhos para encontros que se seguem ajudá-lo-ão a tornar-se o homem dos sonhos dela. 

A primeira impressão é sempre importante

Primeiras impressões are powerful and lasting, and that’s why you have to do everything you can to make it a great one. A woman will always remember the first time she met you.

If you want to get the girl to chase you and fall in love with you instantly, you have to nail the first impression and make her realize what a nice guy you indeed are. Believe me; it’ll be amor à primeira vista. 

Also, another thing you have to pay attention to is how you’ll approach her. You don’t have to be a pick-up artist, but you’ll have to find or come up with a nice and frase de engate romântica para ela. 

Oh yes, forget about making the first move with a dirty pick-up line because it’ll only be a major turn-off for her. 

However, sometimes things can go wrong and you can fail to leave a good first impression. Don’t worry if that happens; I have great news for you.

Women are reasonable and forgiving when it comes to that and they’ll give you a segunda oportunidade para dar a volta à situação.

Investir em si próprio

Existem muitas outras formas de atrair mulheres para além da sua aparência, mas todos gostamos quando alguém cuida do seu aspeto físico.

Exercise. Eat healthy food. Take care of personal hygiene. Don’t forget that women are crazy for men that smell good, so remember to wear deodorant or cologne. Wear clothes that fit your body. A good hairstyle will always significantly improve your looks. 

Além disso, o seu corte de cabelo diz muito sobre a sua personalidade. A aparência física também está relacionada com a sua autoestima. E um facto bem conhecido é que as mulheres se apaixonam sempre por homens confiantes.

Looking good and attractive will boost your confidence and you won’t feel insecure around girls. So, like the famous dating coach, Darcy Carter, says in her book, “Stop acting like an attractive man and become an homem atraente.” 

Use a sua linguagem corporal para a seduzir

Se queres fazer com que a rapariga te persiga, usa o linguagem corporal is probably the best way to do it. It’s effortless; you just have to know some tricks.

Em primeiro lugar, o contacto visual. Faça contacto visual every time you talk to her. That’s how you’ll show her that you are interested in her.

Se ela também o estiver a olhar diretamente nos olhos, isso significa que também gosta de si. 

Smile while you’re talking to her. A smile can sell basically anything you say. Also, it’ll help you look more relaxed, fun, and friendly.

A sua postura tem muitos benefícios para a sua aparência e também para a sua saúde física.

Diz muito sobre a sua confiança. Se tiver uma má postura, pode sempre melhorá-la.

Procure alguns exercícios, coloque-se em frente a um espelho e adquira a postura que fará com que as mulheres o persigam.

Manter-se ocupado

Don’t hang with her all the time. Let her breathe. Also, she needs to know that you have other things in life besides her.

Se começar a tratá-la como se ela fosse a única pessoa no mundo, ela pode começar a pensar que está desesperado.

Tens de lhe provar que és um homem de alto valor que pensa no seu futuro e em como criar um futuro melhor para ele e para a sua futura família. Mostre-lhe que quer tirar o máximo partido da vida. 

Focus on your work and goals. Hang out with friends more. Go on some trips with your friends. Find a good book to read… Write, clean, cook…

Tens de lhe mostrar que tens a tua própria vida, o teu próprio círculo social e que ela terá de fazer um esforço para fazer parte dele. 

Friendzone ela

Maybe you are doubting the efficiency of this dating advice because you think that you might lose the girl you like, instead of making her chase you. But you’ll have to trust me on this one. 

Ser friendzoned pela pessoa de quem gostamos é difícil para toda a gente. Mas, de uma forma estranha, a rejeição é o que mais nos atrai. We all want what we can’t easily get.

Most women (especially attractive women) aren’t used to ser colocado numa friend zone e odeiam-no porque os torna necessitados.

Their neediness is good for you because it’ll make them think that they can’t live without you and then the chasing will start.

Conquistar os seus amigos

Her friends play a huge part in her life – they’re the people she loves and trusts the most. That’s why you need to get to know them and get them to like you.

Trata os amigos dela como se fossem teus. Deves respeitá-la sempre e elogiá-la na empresa deles. Tem de os convencer de que está interessado nela.

Her besties have a big influence on her and she’ll ask them for their opinion about you the first time they meet you. 

Basicamente, para fazer com que ela te persiga, primeiro tens de conquistar os amigos dela.

Ser misterioso

Esta é a coisa mais importante que deve saber se quiser fazer com que uma mulher o persiga. Ser misterioso com uma rapariga de quem se gosta pode fazer com que se pareça um verdadeiro irresistível macho alfa.

Don’t reveal much about yourself no primeiro encontro. Also, don’t share too much information about yourself on your social media.

Let her investigate things she would like to know about you. This isn’t playing hard to get, it’s how you are going to find out if she likes you enough to find out some things about you by herself.

She’ll watch your every move. If she likes you, she’ll want to know more about you. That’s why your enigma will create an tensão sexual intensa entre vós e fazê-la perseguir-vos mais do que nunca. 

Aprender a dizer NÃO

If you start saying yes to everything she says and suggests, it’ll mean that you don’t have character. She’ll take it that é uma pessoa que gosta de agradar às pessoas and that’s a huge turn-off for every single girl. 

And women don’t like pushovers – men who can’t express their own opinions and don’t have their own views about certain things.

If you don’t like something or you’re not okay with something she suggests, just say that you disagree with her.

Even if she gets mad, you shouldn’t change your opinion. If you want to see a woman chase you, don’t be afraid to disagree with her.

Encante-a com humor

Women think that humor is one of the most attractive social skills and traits a man can have. That’s why humor is always a great way to get women to chase you. 

Portanto, o facto é que as raparigas gostam de homens que conseguem fazê-los rir. Mas deve saber que existem alguns limites que deve respeitar.

Don’t use jokes that will make you creepy. Also, don’t use dirty jokes if you’ve just met a girl.

Mas atenção: Ter sentido de humor isn’t just about telling jokes all the time, it’s also in the ability to find humor in things around you and being able to make her smile in every situation.

Pay her compliments, but don’t overdo it

Compliments can have a magical effect on women. However, you should be careful. Don’t start bombarding her with tons of compliments.

Dê-lhe apenas elogios sinceros. She has to be sure that you really mean it, that you aren’t praising her only to seduce her.

Your compliments have the power to make her day better. If you know when and how to use them, you’ll have the girl you’re into chasing you sooner than you think.

Quando conhecer uma mulher de quem gosta pela primeira vez, nunca deve fazer-lhe elogios com base na sua aparência física. Esses elogios nunca são eficazes porque as mulheres recebem-nos muitas vezes.

Fazer-lhe ciúmes

To get girls to chase you, you have to make them jealous sometimes. Don’t get me wrong, this doesn’t mean that you’re allowed to date other girls.

Existem muitas outras formas de fazer-lhe ciúmes. Por exemplo, pode gostar e comentar fotografias de outras raparigas no Facebook ou no Instagram ou falar com outras raparigas quando ela estiver por perto.

Once again, you have to be careful and don’t overdo it in making her jealous. She might strike back and start making you jealous.

Worst-case scenario, she might think that you are not interested in her or that you’re not material de namorado porque namoriscou com outras raparigas, fazendo com que ela terminasse o jogo e seguisse em frente.

Don’t text back right away

If you reply to her messages immediately, it’ll make you desperate, and it’ll seem like you’ve been waiting for her text all day.

Pode fazer o primeiro passo aqui, pedir-lhe o número de telefone e começar a enviar-lhe mensagens de texto primeiro.

Tem de saber que esperar para responder a uma mensagem de texto é um jogo tático e, para fazer com que as raparigas o persigam, tem de o ganhar.

She has to know that you are a busy man and don’t have time to chat with her all day long. It’ll also mean that you are um homem sério e maduro e que prefere conversas e encontros em pessoa.

Os cientistas concordam que fazer alguém esperar pela sua resposta aumenta a sua atratividade.

So, make her wait a bit and wonder where you are and what’s keeping you so busy that you can’t even reply to her text.

Puxar para trás de vez em quando

It’s okay to be there for a girl you like, but being always with her might give her the impression that you are needy, and that’s the last thing you want. So you have to give her space from time to time.

It’s a great way to find out if ela está interessada em si that much that she’ll notice your absence.

Also, it’s how you’ll show her that you are a cool guy of high value and that she has to work hard for your attention.

Remember, you want her to chase you, not the other way around. That’s why it’s okay to sometimes ignore her and pull back a bit. Now, I know this put the following thought in your mind; como fazer com que uma rapariga o persiga ignorando-a? 

Simply go out with your friends and don’t answer her calls, but post a photo from the club on your Instagram. Trust me, it’ll drive your girl crazy and faz com que ela te deseje ainda mais.

Desafiá-la

Always remember, the harder a woman has to work for your affection, the more valuable you’ll become to her. That’s why you’re allowed jogar duro para conseguir.

Desafiar uma mulher de quem se gosta é sempre uma óptima ideia para manter as coisas interessantes na vossa relação.

Tem de a deixar curiosa sobre si e sobre a sua vida. Faça com que ela procure os pormenores da sua vida.

Tem de a convencer de que está a desfrutar plenamente da sua vida e que é difícil acompanhá-la.

The goal is to challenge her without being obvious about it. Not replying to her text instantly, canceling plans you’ve made with her, being mysterious, and being different from other men.

Estas são algumas formas simples de desafio uma rapariga e fazê-la perseguir-te.

Preparar perguntas para ela

Make some kind of a quiz for her. Ask her questions about her family, her past. Ask her everything you want to know about her. It’ll be great for you to find out what her strengths and weaknesses are.

Don’t fazer perguntas sobre os seus ex-namorados ou sobre o seu tipo de homem.

She will realize that you are interested in her because you want to know more about her, but at the same time, it’ll be confusing for her why you don’t want to talk about her love life.

You always have to listen carefully while she’s talking. Don’t interrupt her.

Women appreciate men who are good listeners. If you show her that you understand her and sympathize with her, you’ll be all she needs.

Don’t admit you like her too soon

Este é o passo que deve deixar que ela faça primeiro. Quando ela lhe disser o que sente por si, pode dizer que também gosta dela.

You’ll ruin everything if you reveal your feelings too soon. You might even scare her away. And even when she admits that ela gosta de si first, you shouldn’t pour out your entire heart to her completely.

Just say that you’re having a really good time when you’re around her and you would like to hang out with her more often.

Apresenta-a aos teus amigos

It’s okay to let her in your social circle and to introduce her to your friends, but they should pretend like you never talked about her. Like they didn’t know that you were seeing her.

She’ll think that you aren’t interested enough in her and that would make her work harder for your attention. Also, she will do anything to get your friends to like her.

Don’t start chasing her

If you see that you’ve succeeded in making her chase you, don’t start para a perseguir. No matter how much you like her, don’t do that, ever.

Nessa altura, ela pode ficar aborrecida e o jogo acaba para ela. Não te esqueças, she’s into you because you’re hard to get.

You’ll see that the moment you decide to stop chasing women, things will come around for you and they’ll start chasing you.

Como fazer com que uma rapariga te persiga depois de te ter ignorado?

Compreensão o que as mulheres querem pode, por vezes, ser uma tarefa bastante difícil, certo? Num momento, tudo parece estar bem, mas depois, tudo muda num segundo e ela começa a ignorá-lo sem lhe dizer o que está por detrás desse tipo de comportamento. 

You try so hard to get her attention but it doesn’t work. Unfortunately, that’s the part where most guys make a mistake without being even aware of it. 

The rule is, if your girl starts ignoring you, you should do the same. In layman’s terms, ignore her to get her attention. 

When she sees that you’re becoming distant, she’ll start worrying that she might lose you. And after you don’t reach out for a few days, it’ll make her miss you like crazy and she’ll be the one who will initiate contact first. 

Eu sei que ignorar a sua rapariga pode ser uma montanha difícil de escalar, especialmente se tiver sentimentos fortes por ela, mas deve ser paciente e acreditar no poder deste método. 

Palavras finais

Se quer realmente fazer com que as mulheres o persigam (ou a mulher de quem gosta), precisa de se animar e seguir estas dicas para elaborar um plano sobre como fazer com que ela o persiga. 

It’s not difficult to make a girl crazy about you. You just need to be confident and patient, and you’ll see how it’s going to pay off.

A chave está em ser misterioso. That’s how you’ll challenge her to find out more things about you.

That’s how you’ll keep things interesting. If you are mysterious, you’ll get her attention before she’s even had a chance to get to know you.

Tens de saber que, aconteça o que acontecer, tens sempre para ser você mesmo. Ela precisa de conhecer o seu verdadeiro eu e de se apaixonar por ele.