Como fazer com que um homem te convide para sair usando estes 7 métodos sorrateiros

Como fazer com que um homem a convide para sair?

Well, if you’re willing to put some effort into getting your desired guy’s attention and flirt your ass off, then you’re ready for the rest of this article.

With a little bit of luck (and plenty of effort) it’ll be a piece of cake getting that cute guy to ask you out and possibly get your fairy-tale ending.

But let’s not rush it.

From what I can gather, you either have a guy friend you’ve got the hots for or there’s a new guy you like around your block and you want him to ask you on your first date and then fall in love with you like no other, right?

Primeiro as coisas mais importantes.

Seja quem for este tipo, primeiro precisa que ele se abra e partilhe alguns interesses comuns consigo.

Também é preciso tirá-lo da friend zone (o que pode ter acontecido acidentalmente) e estabelecer um forte contacto visual com ele. Quer que ele a veja realmente!

Subtle hints are the best way to go, along with some sexy body language! Even if this is your best friend, you need to fire on all cylinders! Clearly he’s got you hooked, so the ball is in your court now.

It’s always the little things.

Para além do óbvio contacto visual e das sugestões subtis, precisa que ele repare em si numa sala cheia de mulheres bonitas, certo?

At the end of the day, that’s what we all want and ultimately deserve.

I’m totally willing to play matchmaker today and help you get that one guy you’ve been eyeing for ages, as long as you’re willing to keep working on it the next day and every day after.

Se o seu objetivo final é uma relação duradoura, precisa da forma perfeita de se tornar desejável para ele através de todos os canais à sua disposição.

It isn’t that difficult to ask a guy out.

What’s a real challenge is getting him to stick around by blowing his mind with what you have to offer.

Your goal is to be that cute couple everyone is talking about, but you’re not going to get there by pining after him and crying when it doesn’t work.

You’re going to achieve it through a serious amount of effort with the help of some sneaky methods!

Here’s where you start.

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Como fazer com que um homem a convide para sair: 7 métodos comprovados

If you’ve made sure that he’s noticed you and is aware of your existence; that’s a good first step.

Agora vem a parte difícil. Queres que ele pense que a ideia foi toda dele.

Your goal is to make yourself so appealing to him that it makes him wonder why the hell he hasn’t asked you out already.

And I’m going to explain just how to get there.

He won’t even know what hit him and before you know it, you’ll be on your first date, talking, laughing, and connecting – and you’ll know that it was all you!

Há mulheres bonitas em qualquer esquina, mas como é que vai conseguir captar a atenção dele e mantê-la?

Seguindo estes métodos infalíveis de sedução secreta:

1. Utilize a sua linguagem corporal a seu favor

Há tantas formas sub-reptícias de usar o seu corpo para a ajudar a conquistar aquele homem de quem gosta!

Guys are drawn to our body movement, so when you keep that in mind at all times, it’ll make it easier to use it to your advantage.

É necessário manter um contacto visual forte (mas não todos the time, you don’t want to scare him off).

Por isso, quando o vir a seguir, certifique-se de que chama a atenção dele e envia uma mensagem forte, olhando-o diretamente nos olhos durante alguns segundos seguidos e, depois, desvie o olhar e sorria casualmente para alguém.

You can also lean in when you’re in close proximity so as to grab something behind him, but actually to let him smell your gorgeous new perfume.

Uma outra coisa gira que pode fazer é brincar com o seu cabelo, mas de uma forma sexy.

You don’t want him to think you’re fidgeting.

Let him see your body is open for any sort of communication, but don’t physically throw yourself at him. All in good measure.

The big thing here is to let him see you’re interested but in a non-threatening, mysterious kind of way.

2. Flertar à vontade

A melhor maneira de fazer com que um rapaz a convide para sair é colocar-se no radar dele.

Guys find it hard to read our mixed signals, so you need him to know that you’re totally into him.

Namorisque com ele para que ele veja a sua abertura e, possivelmente, se abra também.

But don’t flirt with every other guy as well, unless your aim is to confuse him.

Se é este o tipo de que gosta, então concentre a sua atenção de namorico apenas nele.

When you’re with him, use your soft, sexy voice (but don’t go out of your way to sound like a totally different person).

Subtly compliment him. Guys won’t admit it, but they love getting complimented.

Be just a little enticing, but don’t be too obvious. Show a little skin, just to make him crave you, but without seeing much at all.

Um pouco de perna ou um pouco de decote (mas não ambos).

Openly share some common interests in a way where you’re like ”Get out of here, you’re a gym rat as well??” and then punch him in the shoulder in a cute way that will definitely make him think.

Já percebeste a ideia. Use as suas formas de sedução o melhor que puder e espere por aquele primeiro encontro iminente!

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3. Manifestar interesse por ele

If you want to know how to get a guy to ask you out, first you need to let him know you’re interested in him as a human being.

That’s honestly the easiest part! Most guys love talking about themselves, so you won’t have a problem getting him to open up. Here’s how you can make that work:

• Use music as your number one option. Who doesn’t like music? Ask him about his favorite type of music and let him tell you some of his favorite artists. Perhaps you’ll find some similarities and it’ll lead to a great convo!
• Pergunte-lhe quais são os seus interesses. Ele é um rato de ginásio? Gosta de futebol ou basquetebol? Ele é voluntário no seu abrigo para cães local?Este dá-me todos os sentimentos!) Falar sobre o que ele gosta de fazer ao fim do dia e como se descontrai.

• Show him you really want to know what he thinks about the latest controversy regarding any topic that’s been going around the news lately. The trick is not to pick something too out there so as not to cause unnecessary and premature conflict. You don’t want to end up arguing before you even get to your first date.

4. Dar dicas subtis

Use o que já sabe sobre ele para dar algumas dicas subtis de que quer mesmo que ele a convide para sair.

For example, you could mention a cool new restaurant you read about (nothing overly pricey) that you’ve been moribundo para experimentar!

If you’re both mad basketball fans, you can casually say how much fun it would be to go see the Lakers (or whichever team you love) at their next home game!

You want him to know that you’d most definitely say simE isso fará com que seja muito mais fácil para ele ganhar coragem para a convidar para sair.

If you’re into Mexican food, ask him if he’s heard about the new Mexican place that just opened up a few blocks away, and trust me, that’ll lead him right where you want the conversation to go.

He needs to know that he’s not going to get rejected, and using your common interests is the perfect way to get him to ask you out somewhere you’d both absolutely love.

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5. Usa os teus amigos de forma sorrateira

Your friends can come in really handy in this situation. You can use them (with their permission) to get things going and here’s how:

• If you have some mutual friends and you all gather regularly for game night or something similar, get them all on board by telling them to group you and your crush together for any team-based games (even better if it’s in twos!)
• Your friends can tease the guy you like about when on earth he’s going to get the courage to ask you out (it might be a bit awkward, but at least he’ll know that people see that there’s something between you two.)
• Make your friend mention you in a conversation a few times in order to see his reaction! They can also drop subtle hints as well about what a cute couple you two would make. By observing his reaction, they’ll be able to see how he feels.

6. Informe-o dos seus planos

I’m talking about your imminent plans, such as seeing a band this weekend or getting coffee in-between classes where he can join you.

The trick is to make it into a low-pressure casual hangout where he won’t feel any jitters but rather enjoy comfortable conversation with a cool chick he’s getting to know.

Vão tomar um café depois das aulas ou vão mesmo ver uma banda de que ambos gostem e criem laços com base nos vossos planos.

Bonus points if you’re into the same things!

Make sure he always knows where you’ll be (thanks to your mutual friends) and that he gets a chance to join you! If you’ve got some big plans for the following week or so, casually slip it in the convo.

Quem sabe o que pode acabar por acontecer.

If the guy’s into you at all, he’ll catch your drift and finally ask you out.

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7. Certifique-se de que ele conhece os seus dias de folga

You want this guy to know when you’re free so that you avoid him finally asking you out on your one busy night of the week!

If you’re on a texting chain, you can use it to pretend-complain about your schedule, but what you’re really doing is letting him know about your days off!

You want this cute guy to know when you’ll be most likely to say yes because even if you said no purely due to scheduling issues, it would still hurt his ego.

Por isso, fale-lhe de um fim de semana livre que possa estar no horizonte ou do seu bar favorito que adora visitar todas as sextas-feiras à noite.

You get what I’m hinting at here, right? Knowing your schedule and your habits will ease him into asking you out.

Coisas que deve EVITAR fazer

Okay, so now that we’ve covered what you deve do, it’s time to cover some ground on the things you should avoid doing if you want this guy to ask you out and possibly fall in love with you!

Se quiser que isto funcione, existem algumas regras básicas sobre o que NÃO fazer.

É importante evitar parecer desesperado, pegajoso e prepotente.

You don’t want to push yourself on him because nobody likes that.

Especially if he’s been through a recent break-up. Give him time to breathe.

Taking it slow is what it’s all about and if you make sure to avoid these 4 things, your chances of him asking you out will increase.

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1. NÃO o coloques na zona de amigos

And vice versa. It’s vital that you’re both very clear about what your roles are.

Make sure he hasn’t put you in the friend zone by firmly letting him know that you’re not here to be his buddy.

Quer-se mais, mas sem pressão sobre a rapidez com que se desenvolve. Pode levar o seu tempo, desde que acabe por lá chegar.

At the same time, make sure you haven’t friend-zoned him!

Guys who sense that they’re in your friend zone will get the hint and skedaddle.

So be clear about your intentions and make him see that you’re most definitely girlfriend material.

Ele precisa de a ver como uma mulher sexy e de espírito livre. Não uma da sua equipa.

2. Evitar ser demasiado insistente e óbvio

There’s something really hot about being mysterious but not to the point of completely closing yourself off!

There’s a huge difference between throwing yourself on him and casually dropping hints about wanting him to ask you out.

Saiba onde está o limite e ande-o com cuidado.

Do NOT keep mentioning how free your weekends are and how lonely you’ve been lately.

Don’t keep pressuring him with constant eye contact (subtlety is key) and reluctance to leave his side without showering him with an abundance of compliments and sexy winks.

Be mysterious. Don’t let him know that you’re desperately just waiting for him to ask you out as if you’ve got no other plans in life.

That’s a bit off-putting.

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3. Don’t talk about superficial things

Encontrem algo significativo de que possam falar.

Steer clear of all topics where you’re talking about looks, money, going out, and time spent getting yourself ready.

É claro que pode mencionar alguns deles casualmente, mas nunca deixe que sejam o tema principal da discussão.

Guys don’t like superficial girls who are all about looks and wild nights out.

Estabeleça uma ligação a um nível mais profundo. Falem dos vossos interesses, dos vossos planos para o futuro e de como tencionam lá chegar.

A música também é um tema importante, pelo que também se pode estabelecer uma ligação a esse nível.

Seja versátil. Fale sobre tudo e mais alguma coisa.

Os rapazes gostam de raparigas com quem se sintam à vontade para discutir coisas mais profundas. Isso é como se consegue que um tipo nos convide para sair.

4. Don’t just wait around for him to make up his mind

Don’t be that girl. You are better than just sitting around as if this guy is the only thing that exists in the world.

Há duas maneiras possíveis de isto acabar.

Either he’ll finally ask you out or you’ll be the one to ask ele fora.

Either way, it’s a perfectly good way to finally see where you stand.

If you’ve been dropping hints left and right and you still see him hesitating when it comes to asking you out, you can either decide to take initiative or move on from him.

You can be the judge of that. But whatever you do, don’t let him see how desperate you are for him to ask you out.

Either do it yourself or let him see what he’s missing.

Maybe he’s just slow on the uptake and you need to take the wheel or perhaps he’s just not that into you.

There’s only one way to find out. You can be direct and honest or you can decide to let him go.

You’re the only one who knows the right thing to do here.

What’s it going to be?

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