15 sinais claros de que ele está a esconder o que sente por ti

Quais são os sinais de que ele está a esconder os seus sentimentos por si? Como fazer saber se um homem se sente atraído por si mas escondê-lo?

Ahh… The never-ending series of questions we all know way too well. Is he interested in me? Is he just being polite, but I’m too blind to see it?

Ou é apenas mais um jogador que veio mexer com o meu coração e com os meus nervos? Ele está a esconder os seus sentimentos? ou ele simplesmente não está interessado?

A luta é real (mas não se preocupe)!

Today you’ll finally find answers to these questions and you’ll know for sure whether he’s fighting his feelings for you or he’s just not that interested.

Como é que se sabe se um homem sente algo por nós?

Uma das formas mais fáceis de saber se um homem sente algo por si é observar a sua linguagem corporal e o seu comportamento geral.

While men are not that good at expressing their feelings, especially when fear of being rejected creeps in, they’re not good at hiding them either. Lucky for us!

Motive-o a exprimir as suas emoções e a começar a persegui-lo com este incrível guia: CLIQUE AQUI.

There are clear signs that he’s more than just being polite to you, and all you have to do is to pay close attention to his behavior.

Um pedaço de bolo? Nem por isso.

A questão é que, até vermos todos os sinais de uma atração tácita and on top of that he says clearly that he is into us, we don’t believe it. And even when he does, we still doubt it.

Pelo menos eu sei que o faço. Começo imediatamente a pensar demais: He’s just saying that to get into my pants. He’s just sorry for me, so he admitted his feelings.

Can you feel my pain? But that’s a whole different topic to write about.

Scripts de paixão will make it possible for you to deepen his affection and make him pursue every chance he has to have you in his life. You won’t regret using it, I promise.

Hoje, estamos a escrever sobre como saber se um homem é atraído por si mas escondendo-o.

We are going to mention all the ways you can tell the difference between him being polite or utterly afraid of his feelings for you. While it sounds poetic, it’s not really.

Os homens têm medo de três coisas:

• Ser rejeitado
• Ser uma desilusão para as suas senhoras
• Ser considerado um dado adquirido.

And the worst part? Those fears combine into one grand fear once they develop feelings for someone. Let’s dig in!

Quais são os sinais de que um homem está a esconder os seus verdadeiros sentimentos de si?

Alguns dos maiores sinais de que ele está a esconder os seus sentimentos por si são o facto de estar genuinamente interessado na sua vida, de ser protetor em relação a si, de mostrar sinais (subtis) de ciúmes e de exibir sinais positivos de linguagem corporal.

Não se esqueça de que cada rapaz é diferente, o que significa que alguns deles mostrarão TODOS ou apenas ALGUNS dos sinais de que estão a esconder os seus sentimentos por si.

Most of them will “shower you” with sinais contraditórios (especialmente os tímidos), mas sorte a vossa, porque há algumas sinais de que um homem está a lutar contra os seus sentimentos por si. You’ll find them all below described in detail.

Sinais óbvios de que ele está a esconder o que sente por ti

He’s interested in your life

The thing is, when a man is into you, he will show a great interest in your life. He will keep on asking a lot of questions, from those ‘conversation-keepers’ to those really intimate ones.

E lembrar-se-á até dos mais pequenos pormenores da sua vida, das coisas que disse ou das coisas de que gosta. Ele vai dar-te toda a sua atenção.

You’ll be surprised with the number of things he remembered, but trust me, he wouldn’t do so if he’s not really interested in you.

What’s a good sign that tells he really has romantic feelings for you??

Convidou-a para um evento, sozinha ou com um grupo de amigos, e deu-lhe um tratamento especial, como sugerir uma determinada refeição de que uma vez disse gostar ou oferecer-se para ver um filme que disse querer ver. Ele nunca manda mensagem antes mas responde sempre que lhe enviamos uma mensagem. 

On the other hand, if he’s just being polite or ele quer fazer de ti uma friend zone, you’ll see that he’s asking questions just to keep the conversation going.

He will never dig deeper into the subject or your personal life because he’s just not that interested in it. He’s doing it only so he doesn’t look like an asshole or something.

Maybe he’s your coworker or someone who joined your friend’s group recently, but he has no love interest at the moment. He’s just interested in sair consigo e ser o seu amigo.

E no que diz respeito ao tratamento especial, começa e acaba com as suas capacidades de conversação.

He will suggest some meals if you ask him for advice or offer you a night out with the rest of the squad, but he’ll never really get into a conversation with you while you’re out.

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He accentuates his ‘single’ love status

Quando um homem tem uma paixoneta por si e quer algo mais consigo, certifica-se de que você sabe que ele é solteiro.

Ele repete-o muitas vezes e faz piadas sobre o facto de ele e você serem solteiros. Bem, este é um dos maiores sinais de que ele está a esconder os seus sentimentos por si.

And if it ever happens that he’s about to tell a story concerning another woman, he will refer to her as one of as suas amigas and repeat it after every couple of sentences. Why? Just so you don’t get the wrong idea about o seu estado de relacionamento—which is ‘single and eagerly waiting for you’.

Ele não tem qualquer problema em partilhar histórias pessoais e informações sobre a sua vida privada consigo.

That’s something only men who are interested in you will do—men who are your cousins or very good friends. If he’s not your cousin or friend, you know in which group he belongs then.

Um homem que não está interessado falará da sua vida sem pensar muito em como isso a afecta.

He will simply follow the conversation, and even if he mentions a certain woman, he will never offer you a clarification for her. He thinks that you don’t need one because he believes so.

If you’re just acquaintances, there’s no need for you to know anything about his estado de relacionamento or the importance of the women in his life. And well, he’s right about that.

Olhares, olhares e outros contos de fadas

The truth lies in the eyes, or something like that. And for once, this is true. If you’re looking for signs he is hiding his feelings for you, pay attention to the way he looks at you, for how long, and how often.

É ele manter o contacto visual? É a isso que tem de prestar atenção, porque é provável que he’s dying to kiss you.

If he’s always looking at you and when you’re talking you have the feeling like you’re the only one in the world because he has that look on his face—he’s into you!

And another great sign is him looking away when you catch him glancing at you. Actually, that’s one of the biggest sinais de que um rapaz tímido gosta de si.

He could be afraid of your rejection or he is just confused by the fact that you caught him, so he looked away. Whatever the reason is, it’s a giveaway sinal de que gosta de si, and it’s all super adorable to watch.

Because, you see, when a man is falling for someone, he loves spending time with that person, he loves talking to that person, and more than anything—he loves looking at that person.

And because he’s afraid of you finding out the truth before it’s time, he looks away.

No entanto, uma pessoa que não gosta assim tanto de si, vai muitas vezes vaguear pela sala enquanto fala consigo, o que é uma grande bandeira vermelha to consider (if you’re into him, of course).

Since you’re not the one who is holding his attention, he is looking for something or someone who will do it. And all those stolen glances and long stares? Not going to happen in this case!

And even if it happens and you catch him looking at you, he will not look away because he’s not doing anything wrong.

Os seus olhos concentraram-se em si for no particular reason, and he’s not embarrassed or confused by being caught because he’s not thinking about it that way.

O seu ciúme é evidente

This is a whole new level from what you’ve read so far. The good ol’ jealousy test!

You don’t even have to do it on purpose to find out the results. Just simply mentioning a random man in your life will do the trick.

Se lhe começarmos a contar uma história de fim de semana que envolva alguém com cromossomas XY, ele fica frio ou muda de assunto.

The point is, he will have a very hard time listening to your little adventure with another man. He can even go as far as trash talking or making fun of men in your life—unless you specifically tell him they’re just friends.

In that case, he’ll be cool with them, even though he worries and wonders how anyone could spend time with you without apaixonar-se.

Na sua mente, ele é um tipo super calmo que é tão bom em escondendo os seus verdadeiros sentimentos towards you that you’ll be knocked off of your feet once he confesses.

Mas os homens são ciumento (I mean, who isn’t!), and he’s worried he will lose you even before he got the chance to win you over.

That’s why his jealousy is so obvious—even though he believes it’s not.

And the other type of men we’re talking about in this article—the not interested, polite ones.

When you mention a man in your life, there won’t be any reaction. He could be surprised or ask you about it jokingly, but that’s about it.

He doesn’t see you that way, so he’s not worried nor jealous. Just like there are no explanations for the women in his life, he doesn’t expect ones from you about the men in yours.

That ‘other guy’ could be o teu melhor amigo, your cousin, or your lover and he couldn’t care less about it.

Esforça-se muito pela sua aparência

Como é que se sabe quando um rapaz está a esconder os seus sentimentos por nós? Claro que ele vai tentar parecer o melhor possível, mas ainda há uma diferença.

Um homem que está a tentar conquistar alguém fará tudo o que puder para a arrebatar só com a sua aparência divina. Ele arranja a camisa, passa os dedos pelo cabelo e está sempre a mexer no resto da roupa.

That’s something he does unconsciously, but all those little things are obvious signs that he likes you.

Oh and if you, by any chance, ask him why he’s paying attention to his looks all of a sudden, he will drop some kind of an excuse similar to: “I’m going girl hunting!”

Todo esse esforço só para esconder os seus sentimentos de ti.

And who doesn’t enjoy looking at a good-looking man who cares about his appearance, especially if that man is all nervous and blushing because of you?

Esta é uma combinação de arrasar!

E bem, um homem que não esteja assim tão interessado em si não terá qualquer problema em usar uma camisa que manchou com ketchup nessa manhã. Ei, merda/ketchup acontece! Eu saberia.

The point is, we all care about the way we look and the way people perceive us. If we’re at work, we will try to look responsible. If we’re at a club, we will try to look damn fine and on fire.

Mas quando sabemos que existe a possibilidade de encontrar alguém de quem gostamos, é claro que tomamos medidas adicionais para nos certificarmos de que tudo está no seu lugar e que tudo tem bom aspeto.

If you can’t notice that extra kick in him, that adorable nervous inquietação com o cabelo e a roupa, e outros semelhantes mudanças na linguagem corporal, he’s not into you.

He’s always there for you

When we’re talking about telltale signs he is hiding his feelings for you, this one is the most selfless one.

Se ele tiver sentimentos fortes por si, fará tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para a ajudar em tudo e certificar-se-á de que sabe que está sempre ao seu lado.

And I mean always. No matter if you need a ride at 3 A.M. or you need someone’s help with picking out designs for the next campaign, he is always there for you.

And even if it means that he will fall behind his schedule or that he will have to work longer hours, for you it’s all worth it.

Just the fact that he gets to spend more time with you means it’s worth it. Obviously, you’ve desencadeou o seu instinto de heróirapariga!

But make sure to know the difference between someone being into you and someone just being polite. If he’s just polite, he will help you only if you ask him to.

He may offer help, but he will give you the exact amount of help you agreed to receive. And there’s always a high possibility of him hoping you will refuse help.

Or that’s just me. Either way, pay attention to how much eagerness there is when he’s helping you.

If he offers you more than what you asked for and continuously repeats that it’s no big deal—he’s into you. If he’s just polite and there’s no passion in helping you—he’s polite.

If he starts following you around just to assist you—he’s a creepster.

He’s trying to make you a part of his life

Está a dar-vos uma visão dos seus dias ou da sua vida? Está a convidá-lo para a sua hangouts e ir para casa dele?

Do you really feel like he’s trying to make you part of his life, more than just the passenger you are now?

If the answers to these questions are ‘yes’, then these are all signs a guy is hiding his feelings for you. There’s no doubt that he is serious about having you around for a longer run but it’s just that right now he chooses to love you from afar.

Maybe he’s just not ready about dar o primeiro passo or he wants to be sure that you’re into him before he does so, but have no doubt—sooner or later, he will make a move.

And this time, it’s up to you when it’s going to be or whether it’s going to be at all.

Por outro lado, se ele é super secreto, misterioso sobre a sua vida privada, ele tem outra pessoa to share his life with and that someone is not you, I’m afraid.

E mesmo que saiam com o resto do vosso grupo, normalmente não foi ele que iniciou o hangout. Mesmo que ele a tenha convidado, nunca mencionou ou ofereceu que saíssem os dois sozinhos.

Há sempre outra pessoa e só te convida quando toda a equipa vai a algum lado.

O jogo da provocação

Os homens gostam de provocar—regardless of whether they’re into you, they’re with you or they’re just there next to you for any random reason you can think of.

Adoram provocar. Adoram fazer piadas e adoram estar no centro das atenções.

Mas veja a forma como ele a provoca e a forma como provoca os outros na vida real ou nas redes sociais.

If he’s always leaning towards you while doing so and making jokes about your and his relationship status, or the way you two would make one hell of a couple, you know what it means.

And especially if he gets all touchy while teasing you—we have a winner! It’s one of the biggest signs that a guy is hiding his feelings.

Outra adição ao seu jogo de provocação é o engraçado e alcunhas giras que só vocês os dois partilham.

It’s also a way of him letting everyone else know that you two have something special going on, a different kind of connection than the one you share with others.

E existe uma forma melhor e mais segura de estabelecer contacto com alguém do que partilhar piadas internas que mais ninguém entende?

Mas homens distantes e provocam-no com coisas aleatórias, sem piadas internas ou alcunhassão simplesmente homens que adoram divertir-se e gostam de fazer rir as pessoas.

A man who is into you will use teasing to create a special bond between the two of you. If there’s no such thing, it means that he’s not interested.

His jokes are set by default, and there’s not much personal stuff in there because he wasn’t interested in getting to know you that much.

He could basically be making the same jokes with every other woman out there. That’s obviously the última coisa he’ll want to do if he has feelings for you.

Apresenta sinais positivos de linguagem corporal

Here’s one piece of the greatest relationship advice from a relationship expert I talked to a few days ago: The safest method to find out the truth, besides the jealousy game, is reading a sua linguagem corporal.

It’s not as stupid as it sounds, trust me.

For example, when a man is attracted to you, he will mirror your movements and always lean towards you when you’re talking. Yes, there are all legit signs he’s hiding his feelings for you.

If you cross your arms, he will do the same. Another sign of him being into you is nervousness and blushing because even the most confident men tend to blush when they’re with someone they genuinely care about.

If you notice certain signs that he’s into you, but there is no intimacy or química entre vocês os doispode ser que ele esteja a ser simpático.

Or if there’s chemistry, but he doesn’t seem really interested, he could just be playing games to get what he wants.

Olhando apenas para o linguagem corporal podem dizer-lhe muito, mas a verdade real sobre as suas intenções e a sua personalidade só pode ser aprendida observando o seu comportamento em relação a si e às outras pessoas que o rodeiam.

It’s really important to see if he’s just another player or he’s truly serious about you.

Ficar sensível

And the most obvious and simplest of them all—touch. If he is looking for any excuse to touch you or make any kind of physical contact while talking to you (alongside with other signs from the list), the truth is revealed.

O homem apaixonou-se por ti! He will touch your back while you’re standing next to each other.

Acariciará suavemente o seu braço enquanto lhe diz algo e afastará uma madeixa de cabelo do seu rosto com tanta ternura que o deixará sem palavras por um segundo.

It’s his way of letting you know that he will be gentle with you and a great way for him to test how you will react to his touches.

If you flinch or move away, he will go slowly or stop touching you for a couple of days. It’s all about gaining your trust.

E se não houver toques, não há interesse. Mas não se esqueça de que há muitos homens por aí que abrem os seus tentáculos a todas as pessoas que lhes aparecem à frente, incluindo você.

Don’t get your hopes up just because he’s touching you. If he’s touching everyone else, that’s just who he is. An octopus-man. Ugh!

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He’s acting weird (sometimes)

Here’s the truth. If a guy really likes you, chances are he will be extra nervous around you. Also, he’ll act weird from time to time, and stumble over his words.

If this resonates with him, then you know he’s definitely hiding his feelings for you. If he sweats and takes deep breaths, girl, you know that he can’t control himself in your presence.

But here’s the (potential) problem. Lots of girls misinterpret these signs of weirdness and they start thinking the guy is a legit creep. My humble advice to you is the following: Don’t jump to conclusions.

In other words, don’t let his weirdness distract you but see it as a positive sign of nervousness. If a guy is nervous around you, then you know he’s one hundred percent focused on impressionar-vos.

Se não houver nervosismo, não há afeto ou interesse. Se um rapaz está demasiado confiante ao pé de si, não é isso bom sinal. Bem, por vezes é, mas tudo depende do tipo de homem que ele é.

Pela minha experiência pessoal, posso dizer que os rapazes demasiado confiantes têm normalmente grandes egos and they like to play mind games. They don’t act weird but they certainly know how to make you feel uncomfortable.

He’s drunk dialing you

“A drunk person’s words are a sober person’s thoughts.”

If you ask me, truer words haven’t been spoken. So, if he’s texting you or calling you when he’s obviously drunk, you can be sure ele tem sentimentos fortes por si.

This guy might be a pro at hiding his feelings when he’s sober but when he drinks and alcohol kicks in, he calls you and opens up to you.

Whenever he drinks, he starts thinking about you, and alcohol works as a ‘courage booster’ and forces him to take action.

This is closely connected with nervousness. If a guy is constantly nervous around you and then drunk dials you, you can be sure he’s hiding his feelings for you. He’s just waiting for the right time to tell you how he feels about you.

However, if a guy isn’t drunk dialing you, this doesn’t mean that he’s not interested in you. He’ll probably exprimir os seus sentimentos de uma forma diferente.

He can’t stop smiling when he’s around you

Alguém me disse um dia: If a guy can’t stop smiling when he’s with you, this means you’re putting him in a good mood.

Whatever you say to him (be it funny or not), he will laugh as if you’re a comedian. Here’s my hypothesis: If you feel the urge to constantly ask a guy What’s funny? quando se diz algo, então sabe-se he’s TOTALLY into you.

When you really like someone, you literally can’t control yourself. You either laugh too much or you’re overly nervous (or both).

If a guy laughs most of the time when he’s with you, consider it an obvious sign that he’s into you but is hiding it. His constant smiling indicates that he loves being around you.

If he’s serious most of the time and acts overly reserved, you can be sure that something is off and he might not be that into you.

Se ele nunca a provoca ou tenta fazê-la rir, isso é um grande bandeira vermelha. Quando um homem gosta realmente de si, dará o seu melhor para a conquistar (seja com gargalhadas ou atirando frases de engate engraçadas).

He can’t stop texting you

Todas as raparigas sabem que os rapazes não são grandes fãs de mensagens de texto. Bem, o jogo muda quando um rapaz gosta mesmo de si.

If he’s into you but is hiding it, he will struggle to get his words out and express himself but not when it comes to texting. However, don’t get me wrong.

He might not tell you openly how much he’s crazy about you, but he will show it through his texting styles. You know um rapaz tem sentimentos fortes por ti se ele lhe enviar mensagens longas, fizer perguntas ponderadas e for muito recetivo.

He literally responds the same second and never lets you wait longer than a few minutes (okay, sometimes it can also be an hour or so). He might also “like” all your photos on redes sociais incluindo os que publicou há muito tempo.

Se um rapaz gostar mesmo de si, não terá problemas em enviar-lhe mensagens de texto ou em gostar e comentar as suas publicações nas redes sociais. Isto tornar-se-á literalmente o seu novo passatempo.

E se um tipo te mandar textos de uma palavra, never initiates a meaningful conversation, doesn’t ask thoughtful questions, and similar, then you know he probably likes you only as a bom amigo.

If it weren’t so, he would use every opportunity to find out more about you and connect with you virtually. Texting would be something he enjoys doing.

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Ele envia-lhe sinais contraditórios

Se um homem lhe envia sinais contraditórios, há várias razões para o fazer. Uma delas é que ele gosta de si em segredo.

It could be that he doesn’t know how you feel about him and that’s why he envia-lhe sinais contraditórios. Ele também pode gostar muito de si, mas ao mesmo tempo ter medo de se comprometer.

Do doce ao frio, o seu comportamento varia e os seus sinais contraditórios vão provavelmente deixá-la louca (falo por experiência própria).

If there’s anything more annoying in the whole world, it is mixed signals from a guy who obviously likes you but, for some reason, is afraid to show it.

If a guy isn’t sending you sinais contraditórios, this could mean that he has nothing to hide (that he’s not that into you). If that is the case with him, his behavior toward you will be exclusively friendly.

He will not act nervous or weird around you. Literally, he will be an open book because he doesn’t feel the pressure to impress you and show himself in the best light. O esforço é a palavra-chave aqui.

Considerações finais

If some or all of the above signs he is hiding his feelings for you resonate with him, then there’s no need to overthink things. You can be sure that he’s thinking about you 24/7 and he can’t wait to tell you how he really feels about you.

Perhaps something is preventing him from expressing his feelings at the moment but if you give him enough time and space, I’m sure everything will fall into place.

If it doesn’t, then you know you weren’t meant to be. Whatever happens, live every day as if it were your last, DON’T overthink things, and believe that tudo acontece por uma razão.