Ele está a namoriscar comigo? Aqui estão os 15 principais sinais de que ele está!

"Ele está a namoriscar comigo ou não?" "Ele está genuinamente atraído ou está apenas a ser simpático?"

Now, raise your hand if you’ve ever asked yourself these two questions above (and I thought so).

Lucky you, you’re definitely not alone on this one!

Flirting is, without a doubt, a real art in itself and when someone flirts with you, you can’t help yourself but feel amazing and really special.

Flirting makes you instantly feel ten times more attractive; it can also be a lot of fun! (And it would be really suspicious if there weren’t any negative sides to it as well.)

O maior problema é que é muito difícil saber se ele está a namoriscar consigo ou se está apenas a ser simpático consigo.

To some guys, flirting comes naturally, so it’s really hard to decipher when they are doing it because they are really atraído por si ou para outros fins.

There are also guys who are really bad at it, yet still don’t give up on trying to acknowledge their “flirting attempts.”

Em suma, o mais importante é manter a calma e não pensar demasiado no assunto.

If you do, you might just ruin all the fun and their chances of winning you (and you definitely don’t want that.)

And that’s why I’m here today to help you understand it better and guide you through the biggest flirting signs that men exhibit when they are genuinely attracted to you!

So, the next time you find yourself wondering, “Is he flirting with me or not?” consider the following top 15 signs that he definitely is!

ELE ESTÁ A NAMORISCAR COMIGO? AQUI ESTÃO OS 15 PRINCIPAIS SINAIS DE QUE ELE ESTÁ!

He’s always happy to see you

   

One of the biggest signs that he’s definitely flirting with you is if he seems always happy when he’s around you.

Ninguém é feliz 24 horas por dia, 7 dias por semana, e ninguém pode fingir um espanto constante quando vê alguém se não se sentir realmente atraído por essa pessoa.

So, if you notice that his facial expression is blank when talking to others, but when he’s with you, he instantly turns into the embodiment of happiness, know that he’s doing it subconsciously and because he can’t help himself going crazy in your presence.

Ele toca-te de forma divertida

     

When he’s sitting next to you, he subtly touches your knees or legs. When he’s getting up, he ‘accidentally’ brushes his body across yours.

He playfully taps your feet with his, or when he’s laughing, he play-punches you to let you know how much he enjoys passar tempo consigo.

É que, quando um o gajo está mesmo interessado em ti, he simply can’t help but to constantly try to be close to you.

E é por isso que ele tenta sempre arranjar desculpas para te tocar de forma divertida quando menos esperas.

(So, next time you’re next to him, make sure to pay attention whether he does any of the things above.)

Ele olha profundamente nos teus olhos

When he’s talking to you or when you’re talking, he always looks deeply into your eyes to the extent of almost making you feel uncomfortable.

But, believe me, there’s no need for that because if a guy looks deeply into your eyes, it means he’s appreciating you inside out.

He’s imagining how it would feel to kiss you, to embrace you and to make love to you.

Ele perde-se nos seus olhos porque você é o seu porto seguro; você é o único lugar onde ele quer estar naquele momento. E ele quer ficar lá para sempre.

Ele elogia-a de uma forma atenciosa

Quando se trata de elogios, estes são sempre um pouco confusos.

By complimenting someone, we are letting them know that we like what we see and that is why sometimes it’s hard to differentiate whether this is linked with being attracted to you or just being nice.

Now, the biggest difference between the two is the way he compliments you. Let’s say that he compliments your T-shirt.

Se ele disser, “I love your T-shirt,” it probably means that he’s just being nice.

Mas, se ele diz, “I love the way your T-shirt accentuates your (green) eyes,” he’s paying you a thoughtful compliment because he’s crazy about you.

Ele esforça-se por te fazer rir

Does he turn into a comedian when in your company? If yes, you can be sure that he’s flirting with you!

Quando os rapazes se sentem atraídos por uma rapariga, têm tendência para usar o humor como ferramenta para a atrair.

Pensam que, se estão constantemente a fazer-nos rir, isso significa que estão a fazer algo de bom e que, se nos rirmos, isso significa que são capazes de nos fazer felizes, o que, afinal, é o seu objetivo final.

So, if he tries hard to make you laugh every time you’re with him, it means he’s trying hard to seduce you.

Ele anda à tua volta

Não consegue manter-se calmo e descontraído quando fala consigo.

He fidgets like he’s on a Ferris wheel and sometimes you ask yourself whether something’s wrong with him or if you’ve said something wrong.

Don’t worry, everything’s perfectly fine with him, except for the fact that he’s unable to be relaxed because he’s too overwhelmed by your presence and the pressure to win you.

E isto não tem nada a ver com confiança, porque até os tipos mais confiantes fazem isso quando estão profundamente atraído por alguém.

He texts you things like “hey there” or “what’s up”

 

When he texts you, he texts you things like “hey there” or “what’s up,” which are meant to expand your conversation.

It means he’s really interested in what you are doing at the moment and perhaps he’s thinking of proposing to go for a drink or something.

Another sign is that he never texts you these things in a “booty call” time because he’s not that type of a guy (if you know what I mean).

Instead, he’s attracted to you on a deeper level than just physical and his actions are definitely showing it.

Ele tem uma maneira especial de nos abraçar

Há vários tipos de abraços, mas para um rapaz que está a namoriscar consigo, só há um.

Ele tem uma forma especial de nos abraçar e é mais ou menos assim.

Quando o abraça, segura-o durante dois ou três segundos a mais (do que é considerado adequado) e, num só momento, pressiona-o fortemente contra o seu corpo e depois larga-o.

He’s doing it because he wants to feel all of you; he wants to feel your soul and your body as well.

He is dying to be one with you and deep down in his heart he is hoping that you’ll notice it all by the way he hugs you.

Ele memoriza tudo o que dizes

He recalls every single thing you ever said to him and when you’re talking about something, he mentions it and you immediately think to yourself how in the hell did he remember it.

Bem, ele fê-lo porque é obviamente louco por ti e provavelmente tem toneladas de mapas no cérebro que estão todos ligados a ti.

If he memorizes everything you say, it means he’s actually listening to your every word and connecting dots about your personality (while you’re probably none the wiser).

O seu sorriso muda

Quando ele sorri para os outros, o seu sorriso é meramente educado, mas quando se vira para si, o seu sorriso muda instantaneamente.

It’s because his affection for you is giving him power to light up every room with just one smile of his.

It’s like he’s giving you reassurance that you’re the one for him, that he’s waited so long for you to come, and that whenever he sees you, you make his day without even trying.

O seu sorriso é a sua forma de dizer que és especial e está feliz por estar perto de si.

Apanhaste-o a olhar para ti

When guys are smitten by someone, they can’t help but stare at them.

So, if you frequently catch him staring at you and when you look at him, he doesn’t even try to pretend that he was looking somewhere else, it means he is letting you know that he is flirting with you and that he hopes you will reciprocate.

No entanto, os tímidos fazem-no de forma diferente.

If a shy guy is staring at you and you catch him doing it, he will try to fool you that he was not looking at you by looking somewhere else because he’s not that comfortable or not yet ready to let you know that he likes you and is trying to flirt with you.

He’s way too excited about things you have in common

Quando dizemos que gostamos de um determinado livro, ele fica imediatamente espantado por também gostar dele.

He’s evidently way too excited about all the things you have in common because this is guys’ way to show you that they are interested in you and they want to keep the conversation going.

If he does this, it means he’s excited about you and all the things you like and do.

By exaggerating his excitement about having things in common, he’s trying to let you know that you two are compatible and he’s interested in hearing more of what you have to share with him.

Ele tenta sempre proteger-te e antecipar as tuas necessidades

Sempre que precisas de ajuda com alguma coisa, ele aparece como o Super-Homem em segundos. Protege-te do frio, dando-te todas as suas roupas.

He always makes sure that you’re comfortable and happy wherever you are with him and that nothing bad happens to you.

He treats you like a lady because he feels that it’s his job to do so.

He can’t help but be at your service 24/7 because it’s his way of telling you that you’ve successfully captured his body and heart, that he wants to take care of you and make you happy.

Sinais de linguagem corporal

Sempre que se pergunta, “Is he flirting with me or not?” Lembre-se também de prestar atenção à sua linguagem corporal.

Saberá que ele está a namoriscar consigo se se inclinar para si enquanto fala consigo, se dirigir os pés e o corpo na sua direção, se estabelecer contacto visual, se levantar as sobrancelhas e se sorrir para si.

Existem também muitos outros sinais, mas estes são os mais importantes e os mais frequentes.

Also, another major sign that he’s flirting with you is if he starts fussing with his clothes.

He will do that because he’s trying to look nice for you and he wants to impress you.

Ele esforça-se por a impressionar

Outra forma de namoriscar (quando se trata de rapazes) é esforçar-se por o impressionar.

Ao fazê-lo, ele tentará utilizar todos os aspectos da sua vida e tudo o que lhe vier à cabeça que valha a pena mencionar-lhe.

Por exemplo, gabar-se-á do seu novo emprego, do seu novo carro, das suas conquistas. Ele esforçar-se-á por fazer rir.

Ele vai falar-vos do seu novo e impressionante passatempo.

Ele esforçar-se-á por impressioná-la para captar a sua atenção e redirecionar os seus pensamentos para as suas qualidades.

Também é importante mencionar que nem todos os homens expressam todos os sinais acima quando estão a namoriscar consigo. Personalidades diferentes têm estilos diferentes no que toca a este assunto.

So, if you notice that he’s exhibiting some of the above signs on the list (or all of them), you can be sure that he is flirting with you and that he is genuinely attracted to you!