7 razões pelas quais tantos homens tóxicos se sentem atraídos por ti

Há algumas mulheres que estão sempre atrair o tipo errado de homens.

Let’s get one thing straight—these toxic men are the damaged ones. However, there must be something that makes them run into your arms, right? It can’t be just a coincidence. So, let’s think about it.

Quais poderão ser as razões pelas quais tantos tipos tóxicos se sentem atraídos por si?

Eis algumas possibilidades:

Tem pouca auto-confiança.

They notice that you don’t love yourself properly, so they don’t feel like they should either. It’s easy to become someone’s victim and get yourself into this toxic circle if you don’t value and appreciate yourself the way you should.

Toxic men fear women with high self-esteem because they know they have really high standards when it comes to men, and that’s why they are drawn to insecure women.

É demasiado simpático.

Toxic guys will use this. They know you’re not the one who will complain or give them back what they deserve.

Ser demasiado simpático, demasiado educado e demasiado compreensivo é a sua maneira de dizer que pode continuar a comportar-se como um idiota. E acredita em mim, eles vão fazê-lo.

You’re too empathetic.

People say opposites attract. That sounds romantic to some extent, but in this case, it’s just twisted.

A toxic guy will find a perfect “victim” in his empathetic girl because she will patiently listen to all of his problems. If you have an empathetic soul, you will feel sorry for him and have an urge to help him.

A maior parte deles mente e finge ser um ator profissional, apenas para obter alguma compaixão e usar a situação como querem. Mas, no final, paga-se o preço.

You’re known to be a fixer.

Tem imagens românticas na sua cabeça de que o amor pode mover montanhas e mudar tudo. Acredita que o seu amor e a sua ajuda podem realmente ter um impacto positivo nele e que ele acabará por mudar.

But guess what—that will never happen! Damaged and toxic people have issues that need to be solved by professionals, not girlfriends.

Estás desiludido com o amor.

Maybe you were hurt one time too many. It’s not easy to curar-se de um coração partido.

Os homens tóxicos cheiram estas coisas e são atraídos por si porque sabem que têm mais probabilidades de se aproveitarem de alguém cuja visão do amor está atualmente distorcida.

You fall for them because they are cunning, and they know they can trick you since you’re so fragile.

Não estabelece limites.

You are not strong enough to set boundaries from the beginning. Maybe that’s because you don’t want to hurt his feelings and/or because you’re a person who avoids conflicts.

Again, it’s your insecurity that makes you vulnerable here. You need to be able to say enough is enough and stand up for yourself when dealing with toxic people.