É assim que se sabe que ele está loucamente apaixonado por ti
“He loves me. He loves me not…” If you’ve ever found yourself pulling the petals of the imaginary flower while wondering about whether he’s really in love with you or not, I totally understand.
Deciphering what is going on in a man’s head has become more like deciphering quantum physics (and I’m not even exaggerating). It took me some time to realize that the famous saying “Men are from Mars, women are from Venus” é de facto verdade.
After a few failed romances, I’ve realized this: As mulheres são óptimas a pensar demais, os homens são óptimos a não saberem como expressar os seus sentimentos. (Penso que esta é uma óptima alternativa à hipótese Marte-Vénus).
Assim, a principal razão pela qual as mulheres pensam demais e agem de forma confusa quando se trata de romances é que os homens não são muito bons a expressar os seus sentimentos ou a saber exatamente o que querem no momento.
But, when a man falls in love (assuming he’s not a commitment-phobe), you will SURELY know it because everything feels different then. There are some not-so-obvious things a man does if he’s madly in love with you and that’s what you need to pay attention to!
(To eliminate any suspicion, we’ll also check if the fear of falling in love with you is preventing him from ‘entering romance’ and expressing his feelings for you.)
Ele está loucamente apaixonado por si (mas tem medo dos seus sentimentos profundos por si)?
You probably already know the drill. You’re sitting next to your cell phone, waiting for him to text you back, but still, nothing happens.
Passaram-se dias e até semanas e, nesse preciso momento, quando diz a si própria que não vai esperar mais, ele volta com uma desculpa convincente (ou outra qualquer), deixando-a ainda mais confusa.
Dá-lhe uma segunda oportunidade pensando que as coisas vão ser diferentes a partir de agora, mas passado algum tempo, ele repete o mesmo procedimento (ou devo dizer erro).
It’s evident that he’s giving you mixed signals because he himself has no idea what he’s doing. One day, he showers you with the ultimate affection worthy of poetic love, and the next day, his affection shuts down and vanishes into thin air.
One of the main reasons why a man would do such a thing is because he’s afraid of his feelings for you. Besides just being men, there are many other underlying causes and factors that influence this, and it’s not that simple.
Da próxima vez que se encontrar na mesma situação ou numa situação semelhante, preste atenção a alguns dos aspectos mais importantes signs he’s afraid to fall for you :
• Sending you a wide array of mixed signals
• Wanting to keep things light for as long as he can
• Yet, still, he’s always there when you need him
• Having difficulties opening up to you
• Thinking he doesn’t deserve you
• His past romances scarred him
• If some or all of the above things resonate with your situation, then you know he’s totally in love with you, but (for some reason) he’s afraid of showing it to you.
This is how you know for sure that he’s MADLY in love with you:
Let’s say that your guy doesn’t have a problem expressing his feelings, and he’s not afraid of falling in love with you. It sounds like a dreamland, right?
O que acontece é que nós, mulheres, habituámo-nos a lidar com situações complicadas em que, mesmo quando tudo está bem, continuamos a pensar que deve haver algo de errado.
We still keep looking for flaws in our romance because we’re convinced that things can’t be that good and that simple.
Mas, e se eu lhe disser que metade dos seus romances estão a ser mortos pelo seu excesso de pensamento? Às vezes (e eu quero mesmo dizer às vezes), as coisas são de facto muito simples.
When a man falls in love with you (assuming he doesn’t have problems committing), his MAIN GOAL is to show it to you with his words and actions!
When a man is in love with you, he doesn’t play games, he doesn’t lie to you, and he doesn’t let you wait. Instead, he uses every opportunity to show you how much he cares about you.
Faz um esforço, mima-a com todos aqueles gestos românticos e nunca a faz questionar o seu afeto por si.
When a man is in love with you, he doesn’t make excuses. Instead, he steps up his game and decides to become the best version of himself.
Quando um homem se apaixona, faz tudo o que está ao seu alcance para a conquistar e para a fazer permanecer na sua vida.
That’s the only truth. When you wake up in the morning, read his romantic text message and think to yourself: “ This couldn’t be real.” But, know that it is real and it’s happening. It’s happening because he loves you!
When he goes out of his way to do something nice for you, know that he’s doing it because he loves you and he wants to make you feel special. He’s doing it because your happiness has suddenly become more important than his own.
That’s how you know that he’s MADLY in love with you.
Se precisas de mais provas de que o seu amor por ti é real, então here’s how a man acts when he’s falling in love with you:
• Subtle touches have become more frequent
• He can’t help but smile at you whenever he sees you
• Deep eye contact has become more intense
• He gives you a forehead kiss – the most powerful kiss of all
• He keeps his arm around you (to show the world that you belong to him)
• His kisses tell you more about his affection than his words
• He texts you MORE often
Quando um homem se apaixona, acontecem todas estas coisas espantosas . When a man falls in love, he doesn’t waste time, but acts.
If he does these things, then you know he’s totally SMITTEN with you!
I used to think that by only observing his texting habits, I could tell whether he was into me or not. I’ll just say that this is partially true.
Há muitas coisas que os homens fazem quando querem dar-te carinho e, em vez de descodificar cada uma delas, é preciso ver o panorama geral!
A verdade é que os homens não são tão bons a expressar os seus sentimentos como as mulheres, mas se reparar as alterações significativas no montante do seu esforço, then you know he’s totally smitten with you.
You’ll notice this ‘effort improvement’ in every single aspect of his behavior.
Não só lhe enviará mais mensagens de texto e tornará as suas mensagens mais interessantes, enriquecendo-as com emojis, como fará questão de a apresentar aos amigos (e talvez à família), de fazer planos para o futuro consigo e de alegrar o seu dia com todas aquelas pequenas coisas que mostram que ele gosta mesmo de si.
It’s really difficult to draw conclusions from only one pattern of his behavior (like frequent texting). That’s why you need to expand your views and pay attention to other aspects as well.
I’ve learned the hard way that the worst thing a woman could do is make excuses for a man. For example, when he lets you wait for him to show up on a date, then informs you that he won’t even come, you think to yourself: Yes, he’s probably busy at the moment and that’s why he forgot about me.
Guess what? This shouldn’t happen. It’s not normal for a man to forget about a date with a woman whom he’s supposed to court, make her feel special, and show her that he’s worthy of being with her!
Don’t get me wrong. It’s okay if such a thing happens once, but if it happens on a regular basis, then making excuses for his behavior will only make things worse.
What I’m trying to say is that if a man is TOTALLY ready to win you and he’s FALLING IN LOVE with you, he will do everything in his power to show it and prove it to you.
That’s how you know that he’s madly in love with you.
