9 estereótipos sobre mulheres solteiras que precisam de parar imediatamente
Even though most women hate the fact and don’t want to talk about it, stereotypes about single women still exist and they’re just awful.
First of all, like all stereotypes, they aren’t true at all. Secondly, they lower the chances of single women finding the right partner and happiness because most men, unfortunately, believe them to be true.
Whether you’re único because of circumstances you had no influence over or through choice, it’s nobody’s business but yours.
It’s time to stop the annoying stereotyping of single women, but first, let’s see what the most common stereotypes out there are.
They’re single because they’re too picky
Muitas pessoas confundem ter alguns padrões com ser demasiado exigente. Todas as decisões que toma afectam a sua vida de alguma forma e é claro que deve pensar bem antes de tomar uma decisão.
Every person that enters your life will leave a mark, so it’s obvious that you need to be careful about who you let in.
Don’t let comments about being picky hold you back and never lower your standards just because someone else thinks you should. It’s your life and only you have the right to control it.
They’re lonely and desperate
Acredita em mim, as mulheres solteiras nunca se sentem sozinhas. Ser sozinho e solitário are very different but unfortunately, it seems that many people don’t understand this.
Single women have their dreams and things they want to achieve in life and they work on them every day. They also have their families and besties who don’t allow them to feel lonely.
Têm expectativas irrealistas que nenhum homem pode satisfazer
What’s wrong with having some expectations? All girls should know their worth and what they deserve, especially from their romantic partners.
Single ladies have expectations like all other women – and no, their expectations aren’t too high or unrealistic.
The problem is that guys are afraid that they aren’t able to fulfill them and they give up without even trying.
Single women are single because they don’t know what they actually want
Este é provavelmente o pior estereótipo sobre mulheres solteiras because it’s actually vice versa. Most women know what they want and they don’t want to settle for anything less.
Maybe that’s one of the reasons why it’s harder for them to find the right person but even so, it isn’t a reason for them to lower their standards.
Têm medo da intimidade
Yes, many women have a fear of intimacy because of some issues from their past but it’s never a reason for them not to start a relationship.
They believe that if they find the right person they’ll be able to explain it and that they’ll be given time to overcome it..
They’re feminists which makes it difficult for them to find a partner
O que é que ser um meio feminista? A person who fights for women’s rights? So, why is that wrong and why would it be difficult for a woman who is feminist to find a boyfriend?
A maioria dos homens sente-se intimidada pelas mulheres feministas, mas não há razão para isso. They don’t have anything against guys, they’re just fighting for women and everything they deserve.
Their career doesn’t allow them to focus on their love life
No matter how successful a woman is, she’ll never put her career at the top of her priority list. She’ll never let it affect the important relationships in her life.
Yes, many women want to become independent and they work hard and focus on their career but it doesn’t mean that they don’t have other things in their lives.
They can be dedicated to several things at the same time because that’s their greatest personality trait.
They don’t believe in love because of past heartbreak
Women are strong and no matter how many times they have been hurt, they’ll always find a way to heal and to start from the beginning again.
They’ll never lose faith in love because love is their greatest motivation in life. O amor é simplesmente algo que os mantém em movimento.
They’re aware that love has never hurt them, people have – and that’s why they’ll always believe in true love and hope that one day they’ll find it.
They don’t want to marry or to have kids
It’s true that some women decide that they don’t want to get married or to have kids ever, but that’s very rare. Para a maioria das mulheres, o seu maior sonho é ter um dia a sua própria família.
Even worse, some people think that single women are totally against marriage as an institution. Even if they decide that it’s not for them, they’ll always respect other people’s opinions.
As mulheres fortes e destemidas acreditam no ditado "mais vale sozinho do que mal acompanhado” and they’ll never settle for being in a relationship with someone just to have a partner.
If they are in a relationship, it’s only because they love and respect their partner and their feelings are reciprocated. Tudo o que seja menos do que isso não é bom para eles.
