Não se meta com os sentimentos dela só porque não tem a certeza dos seus

"Don’t let the mixed signals fool you, indecision is a decision.” – Unknown

We’ve all been there. We’ve all had that one person who was always on the fence about everything. And you know what?

Tens de os empurrar para fora da tua vida!

I spent way too much time giving my attention to someone who clearly didn’t deserve it.

I wasted the precious time of my life on someone who didn’t care.

Why should I bend over backward for someone who isn’t even sure if he loves me and wants to spend time with me?

Quem é que precisa de uma pessoa indecisa na sua vida como parceiro?

If you’re indecisive about your food order, that’s fine, but if you’re indecisive about love, why the hell should I be sure about you?

Love isn’t something to play with and then leave when you get bored. Love isn’t a toy, despite how the epidemic of actores fez parecer.

Players aren’t what you need; don’t let them mess with your head.

Os seus sentimentos mudam como o tempo e deixam-nos confusos, sem saber o que esperar a seguir. Num momento, estão em cima de si.

The next second, they go cold. One moment, they’re saying I love you, and then they don’t call you back for days.

You shouldn’t let anyone treat you like that.

Brincar com os sentimentos é uma forma de manipulação emocional and you can be sure that when they do that, they don’t care about you, no matter what they said before.

O pior de tudo é a sensação de indecisão constante; nunca conseguem decidir nada ou até mesmo dizer a coisa mais simples que poderia salvá-lo de pensar demais.

There’s always something left in the air, regardless of how hard you try to communicate.

They obviously have problems, but that doesn’t mean you should let theirs become yours.

If they’ve been hurt before or even if they don’t really like you, that doesn’t give them the right to play with your feelings.

The honest truth is always better than a lie. Because even if it’s going to hurt you, at least you know where you stand.

You’re not a certified psychologist to resolve someone’s problemas de ligaçãoPor isso, desde que a pessoa aja de forma indecisa, pode dizer-lhe para se descobrir antes de tentar ter uma relação.

E mesmo que fosse um terapeuta, isso exigiria um certo esforço da parte deles, que eles claramente nunca fazem.

So, instead of scratching your head over someone’s questionable decisions and statements, you could move on with your life.

Leaving all this mess behind will feel so good, trust me. Once you’re over it, you won’t let it happen again.

Standing up for yourself is something you won’t regret.

If anything, you will know what you don’t want and get a better idea of what you do want. You want someone who’s determined to love you.

Alguém que é verdadeiro e mantém as suas palavras. Alguém que seja honesto e que queira o mesmo que tu.

Queres alguém que te faça sentir bem e que tenha orgulho em ti.

Life’s too short to waste it on a person who isn’t interested in fully loving you, isn’t ready to commit, and can’t make time for you.

Instead, you should decide to direct your attention to yourself. Don’t wait for someone else to do it for you.

Trate-se como o seu melhor amigo. Faça-se feliz. Saiba exatamente o que quer e vá em frente.

When you’re sure of your worth, you won’t be tempted to try another game with an immature man; you will know right away if he’s the one for you.

This whole problem highlights the importance of knowing what you want – in love and in life.

Saber o que se quer significa aceitar-se tal como é e ser suficientemente sábio para reconhecer as suas necessidades e a importância de as satisfazer.

Everyone deserves to feel they are cared for and important in the life of their loved one. That’s what love’s about.

Otherwise, it’s just a waste of time. Decide to do what’s best for you and let him go.