There’s a lot of debate about whether marriage is ‘worth it’ in the modern world. Some argue that long-term commitment is outdated, while others swear that having a life partner makes everything better. One thing that keeps popping up in studies (and in real life) is that married people tend to live longer, healthier, and—depending…
No one walks into a marriage thinking, ‘I can’t wait to let minor annoyances slowly destroy this relationship.’ But the truth is, it’s rarely the big, dramatic fights that end things—it’s the small, seemingly harmless habits that pile up over time. What starts as a minor eye-roll over the way your partner loads the dishwasher…
You know that one phrase your partner says that always makes you pause for a second? Maybe it’s the way they say “I was just joking” after an insult, or how “You’re too sensitive” always seems to shut down your feelings. Some words sound perfectly fine—until you realize they’re actually little emotional landmines. The truth…
Let’s be real—marriage isn’t what it used to be, and for many Black women, that’s by design. Gone are the days of tying the knot just because “that’s what you’re supposed to do.” Instead, a growing number of Black women are reshaping the very definition of love, partnership, and lifelong commitment. Whether it’s choosing financial…
I’m not a grumpy person at all. In my past life (the one I had before marriage) I was known for a cheerful nature and always being in a good mood. My friends would say my superpowers were contagious optimism and loads of positive energy. My glass was always half full. Then I got married…
I know, breaking up is hard. Not just emotionally, but logistically. You’ve invested time, energy, and possibly a shared Netflix password that neither of you wants to give up. So why do so many of us stay in relationships that are more rollercoaster than rom-com? The reasons range from deeply emotional to ridiculously practical (who…
Ever forgiven someone just to keep the peace—even though you were still hurt, angry, or secretly plotting their downfall in your head? Yeah, same. We’re told that forgiveness is a virtue, that it sets us free, that “good people” let things go. But here’s the thing: Not all forgiveness is created equal. Enter toxic forgiveness—the…
My life radically changed when I got my son. I had no time for anything. Days revolved around satisfying the baby’s needs – I would be happy if I could find time to wash my hair. I recalled those days when it was only the two of us, my hubby and me, and I couldn’t…
I used to think long-distance relationships were reserved for college sweethearts separated by study abroad programs, military couples, and people who met on vacation and swore they’d “make it work.” I never thought I’d be part of that club. And yet, here I am—refreshing my messages like a teenager, scheduling FaceTime calls like a CEO,…
Marriage is a team sport, but that doesn’t mean every team plays by the same rules. In our house? My wife takes the lead in parenting and home life, and I focus on keeping our marriage strong. And before anyone comes for me with pitchforks, no, that doesn’t mean I’m sitting on the couch while…