20 belos sinais de que encontraste uma verdadeira amizade de alma gémea

Amizade com a alma gémea. Talvez já tenha ouvido falar, talvez não, mas se teve a sorte de encontrar o seu amigo alma gémea, sabe que exatamente what I’m talking about.

Sabes aquele amigo com quem te identificaste logo na primeira vez que o viste? Aquele com quem tens um zilião de piadas internas?

Aquele que diz Eu amo-te ao desligar o telefone? Essa é a vossa alma gémea na amizade.

Guess what? Romantic soulmates aren’t the only kind. You can find a pessoa para sempre numa amizade também (graças a Deus pelas BFFs).

Your romantic partner is your companion through life but who’s going to hold you up if they break your heart?

Here’s the ugly truth. Life partners come and go and your family members can disappoint you but o teu melhor amigo estará ao seu lado, para que nunca se sinta sozinho nem por um segundo.

To me, that’s love. If you’re lucky enough to have encountered such a person and forged a bond that you genuinely believe can survive anything, you’re going to enjoy reading this.

Not that you need confirmation that your friendship is real but as you’re gleefully screaming to yourself, “OMG, that’s totally me and a minha melhor amiga!” you’ll realize that you’ll always have someone in your corner.

Passa mais tempo com eles do que com os seus familiares

Existem apenas amigos e depois existem amigos que são como família. And ever since you can remember, that’s what it’s felt like with your friend.

You love your family of course but they can get on your last nerve sometimes. And with your best friend, it’s a whole other story.

Podem estar juntos todo o dia and still, miss them when they’re gone.

O que é uma amizade de alma gémea? Isso mesmo.

Tens imensas piadas internas que te fazem rir todos os dias

You share so many memes and GIFs with each other that you’ve managed to make a private joke out of so many of them.

You can just look at your friend and burst out laughing because you know that they’re thinking the exact same thing.

Pode comunicar apenas através do olhar

Have I mentioned that you barely need words to communicate? When it comes to a soulmate friendship, words are very unnecessary. You look at each other and instantly know what’s up.

You’ve seen each other at your worst and both stayed

You’ve shared many mental saúde crises e nunca imaginou sair do lado deles. Quando eles choram, você chora. Quando eles estão de coração partido, o seu coração dói por eles.

That’s what BFFs are for. Being there to hold you up when you’re too ashamed to ask for help. They’re sempre lá.

When you’re sad, your bestie makes it their job to cheer you up

Whenever I’m feeling down or if I’m simply being too hard on myself, my girl never lets me stay that way for too long.

She knows what to do and what to say that it’s virtually impossible to stay sad. Soulmate friendships are so special, man.

You’d rather stay in with your BFF and do nothing than go out and party

Ver Netflix, recitar referências da cultura pop, tirar selfies e ouvir música parece ser um plano melhor do que basicamente qualquer outra coisa que os seus outros amigos possam ter planeado.

If you’re together, you can have fun anywhere, doing qualquer coisa. This might sound like a cliché but it’s God’s honest truth.

You’ve unintentionally coordinated outfits on many occasions

Don’t even get me started on this. You have shown up in the same cute outfit to a night out or to brunch more times than you can count! And you weren’t even that surprised.

That’s what best friend telepathy is all about. You read each other like an open book and basically think almost exactly alike.

Os seus pais tratam-no como se fosse um filho deles (e vice-versa)

Se pensarmos bem, todos os seus entes queridos treat you like one of their own. And you truly feel like you’re home around them.

It’s so comforting knowing that you’re always more than welcome to go by, knowing you’d be treated like part of the fam.

You’re comfortable discussing things you’d NEVER utter to someone else

You’ve discussed the dirtiest details of your long-term relationship and never felt an ounce of shame.

Falamos-lhes de coisas nojentas que assustariam os outros, mas o que se passa é que, com eles, parece tão normal.

Nesta altura, a única coisa estranha seria se didn’t discutir o assunto.

When you two join forces, there’s not a problem you can’t solve

If one of you has an issue, the other one’s there to join forces and help you work it out.

Might I add, you’re quite the dream team. So far, there’s not an issue you haven’t solved with your BFF by your side.

You keep all of each other’s secrets

Sabes que a tua melhor amiga está a levá-los para a cova e vice-versa. Ela é a tua guardiã secreta número um para toda a vida.

Deseja verdadeiramente o melhor para eles em todas as áreas da vida

There’s no one you want to succeed in life more than them. You root for them in every way and encourage them to make their dreams come true no matter what.

Then once they finally accomplish their lifelong goals, there’s not a happier camper out there than you.

You’ve never felt the need to lie to each other about anything

Ever since high-school or college, from being school friends or sorority sisters to partners in crime through life’s adventures, you’ve always kept it real with each other.

You can’t imagine telling them even a white lie. You love them way too much and you know they feel the same way.

A tua BFF é a tua pessoa de referência para tudo e mais alguma coisa

Precisa de uma data para um casamento? Verificar. Precisa desesperadamente de conselhos românticos? Verificar. Precisa de um álibi para uma noite em particular? Verificar.

It’s not even in question. They’re your constant, your go-to and your life guru. Talk about a soulmate friendship!

Even when you’re physically separated, there’s never anyone closer to you

Even if you’re traveling from as far as New York to Los Angeles, or further, that has never made you feel like they’re not always there.

You’re basically on the phone constantly and thanks to FaceTime, you see them all the time. Distance has nothing on you.

Sabes que a tua melhor amiga está sempre à distância de um telefonema

Whatever you’re going through, you can just call them up and know they’ll always answer.

When it comes to you, they never screen, even if it’s the middle of the night. That’s what besties are for.

You tell each other, “I love you,” on a regular basis

Incentivam o amor-próprio e nunca deixam de dizer "amo-te".

Your every phone call ends on that note and even if they never said it again, you’d always know that the love is very much real.

You finish each other’s sentences

Again, this might sound like such a clichéd thing to say but you know each other so well that you finish each other’s sentences half the time.

It’s like two people sharing one brain!

Your bestie can ALWAYS tell when there’s something wrong

That’s some telepatia de chama gémea right there. When it comes to you, they’re a total empath.

Nothing gets by them. You can try your hardest pretending you’re okay but they always see through you. And God knows you’re grateful for that.

Por vezes, precisamos de alguém que esteja presente sem termos de o dizer claramente.

Quando algo (bom ou mau) acontece, eles são a sua primeira chamada

Quando é promovida, adopta um novo cão, é pedida em casamento, encontra a saia mais gira ou fica com o coração despedaçado, eles são o seu primeiro contacto.

You need to talk it out with them because they’ll make you feel better or they’ll be happy for you in an instant.

If it’s good news, they’ll arrive with champagne and if it’s bad, it’s Ben & Jerry’s all the way.

Citações de amizade da alma gémea para partilhar com a sua melhor amiga

Não há amor como o amor de um melhor amigo. E quando encontras a tua alma gémea (também conhecida como alma gémea platónica), estimamo-los como se fossem membros da família.

Aqui estão alguns frases inspiradoras que celebram a ligação inquebrável entre os melhores amigos.

1. “Maybe our girlfriends are our soulmates and guys are just people to have fun with.”― Candace Bushnell

2. “Because with true friends, no one is keeping score. But it still feels good to repay them – even in the tiniest increments.”― Emery Lord

3. “It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them.”― Ralph Waldo Emerson

4. “When you’re in jail, a good friend will be trying to bail you out. A best friend will be in the cell next to you saying, ‘Damn, that was fun’.”― Groucho Marx

5. “If you have two friends in your lifetime, you’re lucky. If you have one good friend, you’re more than lucky.”― S.E. Hinton

6. “Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.”― Eleanor Roosevelt

7. “True friends are always together in spirit.”― L.M. Montgomery

8. “Everyone wants to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.”― Oprah Winfrey

9. “You must remember, family is often born of blood, but it doesn’t depend on blood. Nor is it exclusive of friendship. Family members can be your best friends, you know. And best friends, whether or not they are related to you, can be your family.”― Trenton Lee Stewart

10. “I don’t care about whose DNA has recombined with whose. When everything goes to hell, the people who stand by you without flinching–they are your family.”―Jim Butcher

11. “Close friends are truly life’s treasures. Sometimes they know us better than we know ourselves. With gentle honesty, they are there to guide and support us, to share our laughter and our tears. Their presence reminds us that we are never really alone.”― Vincent van Gogh

12. “True friends are like diamonds – bright, beautiful, valuable, and always in style.”― Nicole Richie

13. “Friends are God’s way of apologizing for your family.”― Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

14. “Two things you will never have to chase: True friends and true love.”― Mandy Hale

15. “For a friend with an understanding heart is worth no less than a brother.”― Homer

16. “Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends we choose.”― Tennessee Williams

17. “You know a real friend? Someone you know will look after your cat after you are gone.”― William S. Burroughs

18. “The most valuable gift you can receive is an honest friend.”― Stephen Richards

A sweet friendship refreshes the soul…

… and enriches your life. And the beautiful thing is that all they have to do is just exist.

A amizade da sua alma gémea é como o combustível que o impulsiona a alcançar as estrelas.

Fazem-nos sentir como a melhor versão de si próprio e encorajam-no quando todos os outros tentam limitar as suas ambições.

And honestly, that’s all you need sometimes. Someone standing in your corner, cheering you on, even when it’s likely that you’ll fail.

For as long as you have your BFF, it’s going to be okay.

That’s what this article is all about. Helping you realize that you don’t need a million people around you. All you need is that one person who never gives up on you.

Sabes o que se diz: “A good friend will be there for you when you cry. But a best friend will have a wet shoulder because of your tears.”

E isso, meus amigos, descreve muito bem uma alma gémea na amizade.