Se a amas, pára de a quebrar

Talvez não o esteja a fazer de propósito. Talvez não te apercebas das coisas que lhe fazes.

Perhaps nobody ever cared to teach you how you treat a girl properly. Perhaps that’s not what you want to do, but you are… breaking her.

With your actions, with all the things you do and choose not to do, you’re breaking her heart piece by piece.

A cada vez que escolhe os outros em vez dela, quebra-a pouco a pouco.

When you show her that others come before her all the time, when you put other people’s feelings in front of hers, when you rush to save others but leave her heart unattended, that’s what hurts like the sharpest dagger stabbed right in her heart.

Quebra-a pouco a pouco cada vez que ignorar ela.

Each time you leave her on read, each time her messages get no answer, each time you’re with your friends or out and you don’t pick up the phone when she calls you, be it on purpose or accidentally, you make her feel like she’s not that important to you.

Quebram-na pouco a pouco cada vez que a negligenciam.

See, when you don’t take care of her, when you ignore her feelings, when her love and her caring for you goes unnoticed, when you don’t reciprocate what she gives you, when you don’t listen when she’s talking to you, her soul wilts slowly.

Quebra-a pouco a pouco, cada vez que a faz questionar o seu valor.

When you don’t notice how pretty she’s dressed up just for you, when you tell her she doesn’t know what she’s talking about, when you yawn at something she’s trying to tell you with fire in her eyes, when you make her feel like she’s only flaws and mistakes, you tear her confidence completely down.

Quebra-a pouco a pouco cada vez que recusar-se a comprometer-se para ela.

Still texting other girls and sliding in their DM’s isn’t commitment. Seeing other people while you’re ‘with’ her isn’t commitment.

Going away and coming back is not commitment. Having active profile on various dating sites isn’t commitment.

Holding her hand in front of everyone and telling her that she’s the only one for you and then acting accordingly é compromisso.

Não ter um plano de reserva é compromisso. Prometendo-lhe um futuro é compromisso. Tudo o resto são apenas desculpas.

Quebra-a pouco a pouco quando diz que a ama mas não faz nada para o provar.

When all she gets are words followed by zero actions, when you only talk about your feelings towards her but show her none of them, when you say how you love her and how you couldn’t imagine your life without her and then you constantly leave her alone and prove to her everything the opposite of what you said, you just make a mess in her head that’s really hard to fix.

Se a amas, pára de lhe partir o coração.

Don’t make her leave when all she wants to do is stay.

Ela quer estar ao vosso lado. Ela quer que vocês sejam felizes juntos. Não há nada na sua vida que ela deseje mais do que amar-te e ser amada por ti.

God, this girl isn’t asking for much. She isn’t asking for stars. She’s just asking you to treat her like a girl in love deserves to be treated.

Don’t push her away with your actions. She wants to stay. But she won’t stay unless you stop breaking her heart.

Don’t break her because she will never be able to love again.

She’s had enough. She’s been through hell already. She’s been broken so many times before and despite it all, she decided to trust you.

She decided to try with you, to give you a shot. She refused to cage her heart or build walls up. Please, don’t show her she made a mistake.

Se a amas, ama-a como deve ser. Pára de lhe partir o coração.