Estes são 10 sinais de que você está preso em um relacionamento de texto
1. Vocês dois trocam mensagens de texto muitas vezes por dia
Fica super entusiasmada por receber as mensagens de texto dele ao longo do dia. Acha incrível o quanto vocês dois se comunicam.
You take this to be a sign of how many things you have to talk about and believe it to mean that you’ll have many topics to discuss once you actually get together.
O facto é que falar ao telefone é muito diferente de falar pessoalmente, por isso tenha isso em mente.
2. Mas nunca se fala ao telefone
You call him and he doesn’t answer. You believe it would be nice to hear his voice and actually get closer to the real thing by talking and not writing your thoughts but he seems to be unavailable for that.
Tenta telefonar-lhe para que a vossa relação dê, pelo menos, um pequeno passo, mas vai sempre para o voicemail.
Minutes later, he texts you and wants to chat so he’s not in the middle of something, he simply doesn’ want to speak on the phone.
3. Ele não promete um encontro efetivo
Sugere que o encontremos pessoalmente e ele parece estar disposto a fazê-lo.
MAS se olharmos com mais atenção, reparamos que ele nunca promete nada.
He uses undefined words such as ‘could’ or ‘maybe’. He never really makes any concrete plans about your future dates.
He stalls and always lets you believe he’ll be in touch with you IF he’s available for a date.
4. And if he does, he doesn’t keep his word
It seems like he’s very much into you. You actually get him to make plans for a date but he cancels. This cycle repeats over and over.
You believe that this texting period is just one small step toward the real relationship that you’re moving to but you should know that it will never happen.
A textelationship is all you’re getting with this guy, I’m sorry.
5. You’re not friends on social media
You know he has social media accounts but you’re not friends on them.
He doesn’t add you and you’re not really sure whether you should add him.
Não só te bloqueia do seu mundo real, como também te bloqueia do seu mundo das redes sociais. As mensagens de texto são tudo o que tens.
6. A vossa relação assemelha-se a uma relação à distância
Ele vive na mesma cidade, mas tudo na vossa relação é um grito de distância.
Nunca se vêem realmente e tudo o que partilham é através de mensagens de texto.
Aconteça o que acontecer, como um aniversário ou qualquer outro acontecimento importante, continuam a enviar mensagens de texto, como se ele vivesse muito, muito longe.
Até os seus amigos têm a impressão de que ele vive noutra cidade ou país e sente-se embaraçada por lhes dizer que ele vive aqui perto.
7. Conversam sobre os pormenores mais íntimos
It might make you feel good for a while because you’ll believe that his interest in your thoughts and attitudes about things means that he’s ready to develop a deeper, more intimate connection with you.
Sadly, this isn’t the case because if that were true, why do you still feel like you need so much more from him?
8. Tem ansiedade de enviar mensagens de texto
E se, de repente, ele deixar de te enviar mensagens? O que é que o impediria?
Não assumem qualquer compromisso um com o outro. Quase nunca se vêem um ao outro.
If he hasn’t tried to make this relationship something more than it is right now, he’s obviously fine with just texting you.
If he wanted to give you a more important role in his life, he’d have done so by now.
9. You’re constantly thinking about the dates you have had
Talvez tenhas tido alguns encontros fantásticos com ele antes de começares a tua relação por SMS.
In your mind, you’re holding on to those dates, thinking that if you bear with him for a while, there will be more of those.
The thing is, if a lot of time has passed and you two haven’t been on a date, it’s time to call it quits. Nothing more than texts is coming your way, believe me.
10. It seems like he’s a part of your life but he’s really not
Parece que sabes tudo sobre a vida dele, dos amigos e da família e ele sabe da tua.
No matter what you’re doing and no matter where you go, he’s always there with you, within arm’s reach. But is he really?
If it feels like you’re investing a lot into this relationship and getting nothing out of it, it’s time to break it off.
You can never really be sure what he is actually doing when he’s not texting you, and even if you could, isn’t it better to free your time and energy for someone willing to give you something real?
