9 Sinais ocultos de que o seu ex ainda gosta de si
It’s perfectly normal to think about your ex after a breakup. You still have feelings for him and you’re wondering whether he still cares for you.
Por vezes, parece impossível dizer. A guy’s behavior after a breakup pode ser estranho.
They’ll never show that sentem a tua falta ou querem voltar a estar consigo, mesmo que pensem que a separação foi um erro.
Even if they regret it, they’ll never let you know how they feel. They have that “man’s pride“, and it doesn’t let them show that they’re suffering.
So, if you’re wondering whether your ex still has some feelings for you and cares for you, pay attention to these hidden signs.
1. Ele está a enviar-te mensagens de texto bêbado
Let’s admit it, we all do some stupid things when we’re drunk and texting your ex is probably the most stupid of the lot.
No entanto, as pessoas dizer que o verdade comes out when you’re bêbadoPor isso, deve acreditar sempre no que o seu ex diz quando está bêbedo.
When he is sober, he knows that you’ve broken up and that it’s a bad idea to text you and tell you how he feels about you.
On the other hand, when he is drunk, he doesn’t think rationally. It’s like alcohol gives him the strength to text you and that’s when his true feelings come out.
2. He didn’t give you your stuff back
If you two broke up some time ago and your ex is still not ready to give you your stuff back, it can only mean one thing ― he still isn’t ready to find closure and move on.
He doesn’t feel ready to move on and he still has some feelings for you. Instead, he is hoping that things between you two will change and that you’ll get together again.
3. Ele está a tentar manter-se em contacto consigo
Há muitas razões para que o seu ex queira manter-se em contacto consigo, mas uma coisa é certa: ele ainda gosta de si.
Maybe he wants to keep you close because he isn’t sure if the breakup was a good idea, or maybe he just wants to stay friends with you because of the time you shared together.
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4. Ele pode até pedir perdão
O orgulho dele sempre foi mais importante para ele do que a vossa relação. Agora, ele está pronto para assumir a responsabilidade pelos seus actos e quer o vosso perdão por todas as coisas más que ele te fez.
It’s a good sign. It also means that he still cares for you. He knows that if ele quer voltar para si, ele deve pedir desculpa por todos os seus erros.
5. Ele fala de si com os seus amigos em comum
He’ll use your mutual friends to find out how you’ve been coping with the breakup but also to tell them how he feels because he knows they’ll tell you.
Ele ainda sente algo por ti. A maneira mais fácil de ele descobrir o que andas a fazer é falar com os vossos amigos comuns.
6. Ele torna-se super curioso sobre a sua vida amorosa
He still isn’t sure if he has feelings for you and that’s why he’ll try to find out everything about your love life.
Se o seu ex quiser saber se já seguiu em frente e se já anda a sair com outra pessoa, isso é um sinal claro de que ele a quer de volta.
7. Ele está a mentir sobre ter um novo parceiro só para lhe fazer ciúmes
Se o fizer algumas coisas que ele knows you’ve always hated, just to make you jealous, it means that he still has some feelings for you and that he wants you back in his life.
He thinks that lying about having a new partner will make you jealous and that it’ll make you take the first step to reconciliation. Don’t fall for that.
8. Ele age de forma estranha sempre que te vê
Every time he sees you, he is confused and he doesn’t know what to say.
Ele começa a agir de forma estranha e evita sempre o contacto visualPorque ele sabe que os seus olhos trairiam os seus pensamentos e sentimentos.
It’s because he still has some hidden feelings for you, which is why he doesn’t know how to behave around you. Maybe he isn’t sure whether the breakup was the best option for both of you.
Provavelmente, ele precisa de algum espaço para pensar em si e na vossa relação. É certo que tem sentimentos contraditórios em relação a si e isso deixa-o nervoso quando está perto de si.
9. Ele está sempre a esbarrar em si
Somehow, he always ends up in the same place as you. Hmm, do you really think it’s a coincidence?
I don’t think so. Chances are he is stalking you – but not in a creepy, strange way.
He just wants to find out who you’re hanging out with, or maybe he just wants to see you but he wants to make it look like a coincidence.
He doesn’t know how to approach you after the breakup but he most definitely wants to be close to you. He is maybe even hoping that bumping into you will give him a chance to talk to you.
