11 Sinais reveladores que mostram que o homem de quem gostas já está comprometido
O facto lamentável é que existem some men who really enjoy leading a double life. It’s just like all that secrecy and mystery get their adrenaline pumping.
Sometimes, they try to justify themselves and say how they love both women equally and don’t have the courage to leave either of them.
Não, you can’t love two women igualmente; pelo menos, não da mesma forma. Se amas verdadeiramente alguém, essa pessoa deve ser a única para ti.
If you’re worried that your man or the man you just started seeing is playing both sides, here are some easy ways you can find out and immediately dump him.
Ele esconde sempre o telemóvel de ti
I’m not saying that you should check his phone and go through his texts immediately but you should definitely pay attention to how he uses it when he’s with you.
If he’s chatting to someone all the time when he is with you and he always puts his phone face down when he’s with you, he’s definitely hiding something.
Maybe you should ask him what the problem is, why you can’t see his phone, or simply ask him to show you to whom he is chatting.
Cancela encontros à última hora com demasiada frequência
When the person we like cancels our date at the last moment even once, it’s definitely something that drives us all crazy.
If your boyfriend does it more often and without proper excuses, you should definitely try to find out what’s so urgent that he has to cancel your dates so frequently.
Nunca estiveste em casa dele
Já o convidou para ir a sua casa algumas vezes, mas ele nunca falou uma única vez sobre o sítio onde vive ou sobre como seria bom ter um encontro no apartamento dele.
Of course, you’re worried that he’s hiding something and you have every right to be.
Se o apartamento dele está fora dos limites para si, então provavelmente há uma razão para isso.
If you know where he lives and especially if he lives alone, you could surprise him by showing up unannounced and see what’s happening there.
He doesn’t want to talk about his previous relationships
Já lhe contaste tudo sobre os teus ex, mas quando tentas falar sobre as relações passadas dele, ele muda imediatamente de assunto?
It’s fine if you’ve just started seeing each other but if he doesn’t want to talk about it even after some time, you should confront him about it.
If he says that he had a rough break-up and isn’t quite ready to talk about it, of course, you should respect it.
Mas devias tentar descobrir algo mais sobre o seu passado, porque maybe the reason why he doesn’t want to talk about his last relationship is that it hasn’t quite ended yet.
Nunca conheceste nenhum dos seus amigos
Ele mencionou várias vezes os seus amigos, mas nunca falou em conhecê-los.
Is he afraid that they might tell you something or is it only because he just thinks it’s not the time for that still?
This is a tough one. You can’t demand that you meet his pals but you should let him meet with your girlfriends and maybe ask him if you can all hang out together one night.
Sometimes, you can’t reach him the whole night
I’m not saying that you should be in contact 24/7 but if you’re dating, you should exchange a goodnight message when you go to bed.
Trust me, no matter what he does, he is never that busy that he can’t send or reply to a message.
If you can’t reach him for a few hours and it’s happening way too often, then your man is definitely doing something that he doesn’t want you to find out.
He uses fake social media accounts or doesn’t have any
When you asked him to add you on social media, he answered that he didn’t have any or he added you to his fake profiles, saying how he doesn’t want to use his real name because he doesn’t like it or doesn’t want too many people to know that he has them.
Isso são tudo desculpas, acredita em mim. Come on, who doesn’t have at least one real social media account nowadays?
Okay, there are people who don’t like it but even they have an account for business purposes or to get in touch with their family and friends.
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Ele nunca quer dar-te a mão em público
If you have just started seeing each other, it’s normal if he doesn’t feel comfortable holding hands in public yet and you should definitely be the one who’s going to take that step first.
However, if he still doesn’t want to do it after some time, it’s probably because he can’t be seen in public with you, especially walking together and holding hands.
If you try to grab his hand and he immediately lets go of it, he’s probably worried that someone could see you like that.
He’s always so mysterious
Se ele começar a cancelar os seus encontros ou a não responder às suas mensagens durante algum tempo, deve definitivamente confrontá-lo sobre isso.
If he always says that he had some urgent things to take care of and doesn’t want to talk about it any further, those are just algumas desculpas esfarrapadas.
The reason why he’s behaving so mysteriously is only because he’s hiding something or playing both sides and he’s one step away from getting caught.
He’s always super busy
When a man wants to see you, he’ll find some time to do so even when he has the busiest schedule. Nothing can stop him from that.
If your man wants to see you only when it’s suitable for him and uses some lame excuses every time you ask him to go out, then there is definitely something suspicious about him.
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Your gut just tells you that there’s something wrong
My dear, don’t let him fool you.
If your inner voice is telling you that something is very off with that man, you should follow your intuition and break up with him before it’s too late for that, before you fall in love with him.
Nunca se deve permitir ser someone’s second choice quando há tantos homens que ficariam mais do que felizes em tê-la como a sua única escolha.
If you’ve recognized any of these signs, you should dump that man who doesn’t deserve you in any way and wait for the right one to come.
