Tu és quem tu és, por isso escolhe bem os teus amigos
Have you ever heard of the saying, “You are who you hang out with”? How do you feel about it? Do you consider it true?
Even though most of us won’t admit it, many people we’ve hung out with have a influência significativa nas nossas vidas. That’s why we should all be careful about who we let into our círculo interno.
O seu membros da família, amigos mais próximos, romantic partners… – they all affect the qualidade de vida and that’s a fact.
Ou, como orador motivacional Jim Rohn explica, “You become like the five people you spend the mais tempo com. Choose carefully.”
Se gastar muito período de tempo com alguém diariamente baseA aquisição dos seus hábitos é inevitável. Passado algum tempo, começamos a comportar-nos como essa pessoa.
Now, let’s back up to what Rohn’s said. Think about it. Who are the five people you spend the mais tempo com?
São todos eles pessoas positivas com um mentalidade positiva? Ficaria feliz e orgulhoso se se tornasse igual a todos eles? Eles encorajam-no a ser melhor?
If your answer to these questions is NO, then it’s necessary to change some things in your life. It’s necessary to change the circle of your amigos mais próximos.
Sooner or later, you’ll become the same as them; it’s the inevitable truth.
You’ll behave the same as they do, your vida quotidiana habits will be changed, and you’ll completely lose your identity – that most important part of you.
Soon enough, as strange as it may sound, you’ll start looking at them as your role models and be trying to copy them completely in everything they do.
Friendship is some kind of school for all of us. It’s a never-ending learning process. You’ll teach your friends some things, but you’ll also learn a whole lot of valuable lessons from them.
O qualidade de vida é grandemente influenciado pelo seu círculo interno. Por isso, tenham muito cuidado com quem deixam entrar.
You’re probably asking what tipo de pessoas then you should be surrounding yourself with. It’s actually quite easy.
Rodeie-se de pessoas que tenham uma influência positiva na sua vida. Conviva com aqueles que acreditam em si e o incentivam a seguir os seus sonhos.
Conviver com pessoas de sucesso que também o encorajam a levar a sua carreira até ao topo nível seguinte.
Aqueles que gostam da vida, aqueles que têm valores de vida semelhantes aos seus, aqueles que têm sonhos e objectivos para o seu futuro e trabalham arduamente para os alcançar.
Estes são os tipo de pessoas com que se deve rodear.
Todos sabemos que a opinião dos nossos amigos mais próximos é muito importante para nós.
If they don’t agree with something we plan to do, chances are we end up not doing it.
Pense no ano passado da sua vida. Mudou desde então? Se mudou, porquê?
Did you want to change because you weren’t pleased with your life or because people around you didn’t like you and you wanted to please them?
Sei que todos nós sentimos a necessidade de sermos aceites by those around us, but it’s never worth changing completely who you are and losing your true self.
You can never please everyone around you and that’s okay. You have to know who your amigos mais próximos are – those are the only people whose opinion should be important.
Eles são os únicos que podem ter um influência significativa na sua vida. Mas também deve haver limites.
Por muito que ames alguém, nunca deves permitir que essa pessoa te controle. O leme da sua vida está apenas nas suas mãos; só você tem o direito de controlar a sua vida.
Aqueles que te amam verdadeiramente aceitar-te-ão sempre como és na realidade. Nunca tentarão mudar-te.
Of course, there will always be some differences between you and your friends – that’s to be expected – but there is something beautiful in it that most people don’t realize.
We have to embrace and love each other despite those little differences because that’s precisely what makes us human beings.
A vibração is such a strange thing. It’s contagious. If you hang out with positive people, you’ll be positive and optimistic too.
And no matter how adamant you are that someone’s mood won’t affect yours, if you surround yourself with people who are sending off only bad vibrações, you’ll be affected by it and it’ll change your mood for sure.
Life is so beautiful, but unfortunately so short. That’s why you should enjoy every moment of it. There’s honestly no need to hang out with people who only drain your energy.
Lembre-se sempre que você é a pessoa com quem convive, por isso escolha o seu círculo íntimo de amigos com sabedoria e cuidado. Eles têm uma grande influência na forma como moldamos a nossa vida.
Tornamo-nos nas pessoas com quem convivemos
Aqui estão algumas citações que, esperamos, o ajudarão a compreender a importância de se rodear de pessoas que fazem sobressair o melhor de si. Confira!
1. “Always work with / surround yourself with people who help make you a better version of you. Kindly avoid those who don’t.” – Don Roff
2. “Show me os seus amigos and I’ll show you your future.” – Mark Ambrose
3. “Surround yourself with those conducive to you being your highest self.” – A.D. Posey
4. “Energy is contagious, positive, and negative alike. I will forever be mindful of what and who I am allowing into my space.” – Alex Elle
5. “Make a conscious effort to surround yourself with positive, nourishing, and uplifting people. People who believe in you, encourage you to go after your dreams, and applaud your victories.” – Jack Canfield
6. “Surround yourself com pessoas que inspiram and encourage positive change in your life. Build a team in which you can work together to support each other and build better lives.” – Avina Celeste
7. “Always surround yourself with people who are better than you. If you’re hanging around bad people, they’re going to start bringing you down. But if you surround yourself with good people, they’re going to be pulling you up.” – Donny Osmand
8. “You need to associate with people that inspire you, people that challenge you to rise higher, people that make you better. Don’t waste your valuable time with people that are not adding to your growth. Your destiny is too important.” – Joel Osteen
9. “There are some people who may be good yet toxic for you, so be careful of who you surround yourself with.” – Gift Gugu Mona
10. “Surround yourself with the dreamers, and the doers, the believers, and thinkers, but most of all, surround yourself with those who see the greatness within you, even when you don’t see it yourself.” – Edmund Lee
11. “It’s most important that you surround yourself with positivity always, and have it in your mind at all times.” – Tyler Perry
12. “Show me your friends and I would tell you who you are.” – Vanilla Ice
13. “To remain far-sighted, you need to surround yourself with far-sighted visionaries. You need to surround yourself with people who think like you. You need to surround yourself with people who speak the same language as you. You need to surround yourself with people who fight and refuse to give up on their destiny. You need to surround yourself with people whose testimonies give you reasons to press on.” – D.S. Mashego
14. “As much as people refuse to believe it, the company you keep does have an impact and influence on your choices.” – Unknown
15. “Never surround yourself with people who are envious of your ambitions. Decide to be at the right place at the right time and save yourself for greater opportunities.” – Israelmore Ayivor
16. “Do not expect positive changes in your life if you surround yourself with pessoas negativas.” – Unknown
17. “Surround yourself with people that reflect who you want to be and how you want to feel. Energies are contagious.” – Unknown
18. “Having the strength to pull yourself away from the toxicity and surrounding yourself with all the nourishing things you need to grow is a huge accomplishment. Although, not everybody has supporting family and friends in this new world of ours, but that doesn’t mean you should give up, there is a whole world out there full of great people willing to help you succeed you just have to learn how to surround yourself with them and appreciate them, not use them for your own selfishness. And then my friend you have learned a life lesson.” – Bonnie Zackson Koury
19. “Funny how your quality of life improves dramatically when you surround yourself with good intelligent kind-hearted positive loving people.” – Unknown
20. “You can not change the people around you. But you can change the people that you choose to be around.” – Unknown
21. “As your life changes, so will your circle.” – Unknown
22. “Surround yourself with pessoas positivas who believe in your dreams, encourage your ideas, support your ambitions, and bring out the best in you.” – Roy Bennett
O resultado final
One and only conclusion is that we truly do become like people we hang out with. The saying “You are who you hang out with” is 100% true.
Teenagers are naive. At that young age, we only want to hang out with those “cool” groups of people and don’t pay attention to how it influences our lives.
We make mistakes. We do some things that we don’t feel proud of when we grow up and become wiser.
We do it all only because we want to please our friends and become “part of the group.” You’ll see… You’ll learn from your own mistakes.
O primeira vez a bom amigo or someone close to you betrays you, you’ll see that you should think hard the next time you want to let someone come near to you.
You’ll understand that sometimes the best you can do to save yourself is to deixar ir de algumas pessoas próximas que só estavam a espalhar as suas más vibrações e mudar-te para pior.
Over time, you’ll learn that people aren’t always how they seem because there are so many who pretend they are good but actually just want to use you.
Not all people who say they love you and want the best for you are sincere. You shouldn’t believe everyone.
That’s why we should all pay more attention and choose our amigos íntimos cuidadosamente e agora, no tempo da Internet e da redes sociaisainda mais.
Os seus amigos são também a sua família. E se passares uma grande período de tempo com alguém diariamente base, you just can’t help but start behaving like that person, despite knowing it’s not good for you.
Agora, pensem em tudo isto e depois deixar ir. Deixar ir de pessoas que se sente inseguro e desconfortável ao seu lado.
Deixar ir daqueles que o fazem duvidar de si próprio e sentir-se indigno. Deixar ir of those whose pessimistic views on life don’t allow you to enjoy life and be positive about what the future will bring.
Stop hanging out with people who are jealous of all others because jealousy is contagious, too. Do not hang out with those who only drag you down; you’ll never progress in life that way.
Rodeie-se de pessoas de sucesso – those with a mentalidade positiva e bom vibrações. Pessoas que terão um bom impacto sobre si e que o ajudarão na sua crescimento pessoal.
Now, you have to ask yourself whether those people around you are actually “role model” material.
If they aren’t – if you aren’t so proud of who you hang out with – it’s time to deixar ir e dê a si próprio a oportunidade de conhecer novas pessoas, a partir de hoje.
Espero sinceramente que este artigo o ajude a compreender a importância de escolher os amigos que o rodeiam. Se escolheres com cuidado, o teu futuro estará seguro.
