10 maneiras de amar de forma diferente
Just take a moment and look a little bit deeper in her eyes—you will see how tortured and tired they look. All those past love relationships have left deep scars, but she is doing her best to hide them. She is a girl who once loved so deeply and wholeheartedly it destroyed her, but now she is coming back, stronger than ever—she is rising from her ashes like a Phoenix.
But there is one thing you don’t know about her—she loves a little bit differently from others… and this is how:
1. Ela conhece a sua própria força
If there is anything in her life that she learned, it is how to be strong. After all those bad things that damaged her, she learned (in a tougher way) to deal with life problems. For a girl like this, it won’t be a problem to pick herself up after a bad day.
Agora, ela sabe que é capaz de fazer muito melhor do que pensava. E quando a vida lhe servir alguns limões, ela vai fazer limonada!
2. She won’t open up to you right away
There is a saying: “A burnt child dreads the fire!” This is how a broken girl reacts when she meets someone new. Since she was beaten to her emotional death and that left scars, she doesn’t want to trust you overnight.
Vai demorar algum tempo até que ela se sinta suficientemente à vontade para se abrir consigo. Mas lembre-se de que, quando ela se libertar, vai perceber que valeu a pena esperar!
3. Mas quando o fizer, ela contar-vos-á a sua história
She has been through so many bad things lately, and it is normal if she doesn’t want to share them with you. But once she feels ready, she will tell you about the heavy emotional burden that she was carrying all this time. Even if she will cry or her voice will be shaky, she won’t give up until she shares the last thing from her past with you.
4. Ela mantém-se à distância
It is not easy for her to have her heart on her sleeve every time she meets someone new. She keeps her guard up because once upon a time, she was hurt, and she doesn’t want to feel that sort of pain anymore.
Se a tratares bem, talvez sejas a pessoa especial que vai derrubar todas as barreiras protectoras que ela criou.
5. Ela está a desafiar
There are a lot of battles behind her, so there will always be that constant feeling that the war might not be over. A life with her won’t be a smooth ride but a roller coaster of feelings.
Still, if you decide to hold her hand in the bad days to come, you won’t be disappointed because she is a keeper.
6. Ela sabe o seu valor
She has experienced so many bad things through her life, and that’s why she won’t settle for less than she deserves. All those things that damaged her emotionally just showed her how strong she really is.
That’s why she doesn’t let others screw her over anymore, and she has a damn good reason to feel that way—she is simply incredible!
7. Ela conhece a felicidade extrema
Uma rapariga como esta sabe o que é chorar toda a noite a pensar no seu ente querido. Ela ainda consegue sentir a mistura de cigarros e álcool na sua boca enquanto tentava esquecê-lo.
Foi ela que bateu no fundo do poço e, só por isso, sabe reconhecer a verdadeira felicidade. É capaz de acordar todas as manhãs com um sorriso no rosto, celebrando um novo dia que se aproxima!
8. Ela sabe como lutar por ti
Let’s face it, fighting was a part of her life. She did it on a daily basis to keep her emotions guarded. But this time, she will show you that she has no problems standing up for those she loves, including you.
Ela não é de desistir e fará até o impossível para o salvar das lágrimas. Só porque sabe como o amor pode magoar, faz tudo para não o magoar!
9. Ela precisa de tão pouco para se sentir bem
Há casais que declaram as suas relações nas redes sociais e se exibem dessa forma. Mas ela é totalmente diferente. É preciso tão pouco para a fazer feliz.
Uma flor, um sorriso ou um gesto simpático podem fazer o seu coração derreter. E quando se pensa nisso, faz sentido. A vida é feita de pequenas coisas, e ela é suficientemente inteligente para o perceber!
10. She isn’t afraid of love
Mesmo que tenha havido um homem na sua vida que a tenha partido em pedaços e lhe tenha feito sofrer o coração, ela continua a acreditar no amor. Ela não é uma pessoa que desiste à primeira colisão no caminho.
She only has one wish for the next man who will pop up into her life, and that wish is: “Please don’t fall in love with me, unless you are going to stay!”
