Uma mulher forte nunca implorará pelo seu amor e atenção

Sei que está habituado a este cenário semelhante: Conhecemos uma rapariga de quem gostamos e o jogo começa. De repente, transforma-se no homem dos sonhos dela, dizendo-lhe tudo o que ela quer ouvir.

Está constantemente a telefonar-lhe e a enviar-lhe mensagens, inicia a maior parte do contacto e age como se estivesse disposto a fazer tudo o que for preciso para estar perto dela.

No entanto, após algum tempo de bombardeando-a com o seu amor e tu desistes. Vê que está a um passo do compromisso e acobarda-se ou simplesmente aborrece-se com ela e está pronto para a sua próxima vítima.

Nevertheless, you don’t want to be frank with this girl and tell her that you want to go back to your life of a bachelor.

Instead, you prefer having her as a backup plan and to string her along just in case nothing else works out or in case you become eager for the love and attention she’s been giving you.

Na maior parte das vezes, isto funciona como um encanto. Antes de se aperceber do que está a acontecer, a pobre rapariga apaixonou-se por si como uma louca e começa a fazer tudo para que o homem do início da história volte.

She starts chasing you, without even being aware that she’s fallen directly into your trap.

Ela começa a alinhar, sem saber que está a arrastar-se cada vez mais para este círculo interminável da sua manipulação.

So, obviously, you thought you could pull this stunt off with this girl, as well. You are convinced that she is just like everyone else and that she won’t be able to resist your magic.

And that is where you are wrong. What you failed to see is that this one is different from every other girl you’ve encountered so far. That she is one of a kind.

What you failed to see is that she is a strong woman who won’t allow herself to be a subject of your manipulation. Who won’t let you treat her however you want and who will beat you at your own games.

No, she won’t fall head over heels for you the moment she sees that you are trying to run away. She won’t be amazed by this tough, emotionless guy you keep pretending you are and she definitely won’t chase you.

Instead, this girl will see right through your intentions from the start. She won’t get her hopes up about you being her Mr. Perfect until you really prove your worth and your love for her.

This strong woman won’t cry over you when you decide to walk away and she won’t waste her life waiting for you to come back.

She won’t spend sleepless nights wondering what she did wrong and when the exact moment was when everything went downhill.

She won’t make excuses for your shitty behavior, nor will she try to justify the fact that you are just another selfish asshole. She won’t put all of her efforts into trying to decrypt your mixed signals and she definitely won’t question her own worth, simply because you tried to diminish it.

She won’t wait for you to come to your senses and to finally be ser claro sobre os seus sentimentos .

You see, a strong woman like her doesn’t beg for anyone’s love and attention. She doesn’t go around asking people to put her first or begging them to choose her for real; she needs them to do it by themselves.

She doesn’t get her hopes up that her love will change a man until he decides to do it on his own. She doesn’t put any effort into trying to fix or save the ones who don’t want to be saved and she doesn’t waste her energy on the ones who don’t deserve it.  

And you know why that is so? Because she doesn’t need you or any other man to give her life meaning or to make her feel complete.

A strong woman doesn’t need you to tell her that she is enough or to hold her hand through life’s obstacles and challenges. She doesn’t need you to push her forward or to be her strength when she is at her lowest.

Uma rapariga como ela nunca tem medo de enfrentar a vida sozinha, porque sabe muito bem que pode conseguir tudo o que quiser.

She isn’t scared of being alone and she will always choose to permanecer solteiro até aparecer o homem certo em vez de se contentar com menos do que merece.

Por isso, da próxima vez que pensares em conquistar alguém como ela só para curar o teu ego partido e as tuas inseguranças, pensa melhor.