10 sinais de que ela já não está interessada em ti

As relações são totalmente imprevisíveis. Podem trazer-nos uma enorme felicidade ou podem obrigar-nos a passar pelos sentimentos mais confusos do mundo. A última hipótese é de longe a pior, claro.

When things are fine in a relationship, you simply don’t give a shit about what could go wrong (because there’s no point in invoking evil forces).

But when you feel like things are not like they used to be, in 90% of cases you’re right.

A questão que se coloca é: porque é que isto acontece? And the answer is that our mind becomes used to a certain pattern of behaviors by our partner and when that cycle breaks, our intuition becomes like a warning sign telling us that something’s not right.

So, if you’re feeling like she’s been behaving differently lately and she seems like a totally different person (she no longer gives a shit about certain things), chances are that she’s not into you anymore.

Also, that is the main reason why you’re here in the first place reading this article.

But before coming to any conclusions, you need to know that there are many factors that trigger a woman’s behavior.

Not every sign means that she’s not into you. É que as mulheres são de longe as mais seres complexos na terra (e isto nem sequer é um exagero).

Assim, quando uma mulher escolhe fazer algo ou, melhor, não fazer, há centenas de razões para isso e essas razões estão constantemente a ser processadas e actualizadas na sua mente.

Por exemplo, se, de repente, ela achar os seus hábitos irritantes, não lho dirá imediatamente (infelizmente, não existe uma explicação válida para este facto).

Instead, she will secretly hold grudges against you and her actions will show you that something’s wrong.

Also, if she’s having some other issues unrelated to you or your relationship, this might also be a trigger to exhibit certain behavior, like ignoring your calls, not looking you in the eye or similar.

How can you differentiate between the two? How can you know that the signs she’s exhibiting mean that she’s not into you anymore or that she’s just pissed off for some other reason?

You see, if one or two signs coincide with the hypothesis that she’s not interested in you anymore, this doesn’t have to be the case.

But if the whole sequence of signs is indicating that she no longer gives a shit about you, then dude, I’m sorry to say but it’s probably the damn truth.

Pay attention to the signs below and I’m sure you’ll get an answer. But before doing that, remember that even if everything goes in favor of her losing affection for you, do not stress about it!

There’s a reason why this is so and I promise you that sooner or later you’ll find out that things are just as they’re supposed to be.

10 signs she’s not into you anymore

A sua atividade sexual mudou

Radical changes in your sexual activity is a sure indicator that something’s wrong in a relationship and it is one of the first signs she’s not into you anymore.

Firstly, if she always all of a sudden has a headache just before the two of you are about to have sex, know that it’s a lie.

As dores de cabeça de que as mulheres normalmente se queixam não têm nada a ver com um verdadeiro problema de saúde.

They are invented as excuses for when they are not in the mood to have sex with you. It’s as simple as that.

Em segundo lugar, if the two of you are still having sex but she’s just lying there like a sack of potatoes, something’s not right.

It means that she’s either bored as fuck or she’s not interested in having intercourse with you. Honestly, what’s the difference?

If a woman is not present during the action, it means she’s somewhere deep in her thoughts where having sex with you is just a small barrier that she needs to deal with in order to continue being absent.

Outro indicador da sua indiferença é o facto de já não se preocupar em comprar lingerie sexy como fazia antes.

Obviously, she no longer gives a damn about whether you’re going to have a hard-on or not.

On the contrary, she is probably praying to God that you don’t, so that she doesn’t have to fake her headache or sleep with you only to tick you off of her daily agenda.

Ela nunca se dá ao trabalho de lhe ligar de volta

Antes, ela ligava-te dez vezes por dia só para ouvir a tua voz. E agora nunca, mas nunca se preocupa em ligar-te de volta, mesmo quando lhe ligas umas cem vezes.

She either pretends that she somehow didn’t see you calling or that the battery hd somehow magically emptied, which prevented her from calling you back.

Also, she never thinks of calling you when she’s at a concert, with her friends or when something hilarious is going on.

She’s not doing this because she doesn’t feel like sharing anything with you.

She literally doesn’t care if her voice or something funny is going to make your day because that is not something she has time to bother with.

Summarized, she never bothers to call you back because she’s not into you anymore. Period.

Ela tem prioridades diferentes

Costumavas ser a sua prioridade número um, mas agora olhar para o teto tornou-se mais importante do que passar tempo contigo.

É óbvio que as prioridades dela mudaram e que já não se preocupa em passar tempo de qualidade consigo.

Quando uma das suas amigas a chama, ela levanta-se no mesmo instante, veste-se em tempo recorde, maquilha-se e sai, deixando-nos a pensar como é que ela conseguiu vestir-se tão depressa e sair do local à velocidade da luz.

She no longer makes excuses to her boss that she’s sick or something to get a day off because that would mean she would have to spend it with you.

O seu trabalho tornou-se um santuário onde ela vai para cumprir o seu dever sagrado e se disser uma palavra sobre isso, será imediatamente punida pelos seus pecados.

She doesn’t give a shit about how she looks in front of you

Bedsheet-sized T-shirts, baggy pants, grandma’s panties, messy hair, no make-up at all and the list goes on… If a woman doesn’t invest in her looks while being with you, it means that there’s something seriously wrong going on.

Antes, ela agia como uma modelo em casa, com todas aquelas camisas de seda, cuecas sensuais, o cabelo arranjado e as pernas perfeitamente depiladas, e agora é difícil reconhecer esta mulher.

She no longer gives a damn about shaving and not shaving is the second biggest indicator that she doesn’t care if you’ll notice it, aka not giving a fuck about what you’ll think of her.

But when she’s going to some fancy dinner with her colleagues or friends, she makes sure to transform herself into a model again.

But not for your eyes evidently and that’s the biggest difference when it comes to this.

Falta-lhe o contacto físico

O contacto físico era uma parte inevitável da vossa relação (o que é caraterístico de qualquer relação saudável), mas agora parecem evitar-se muito.

I mean, she seems to avoid physical touch because it doesn’t feel the same.

You no longer hold hands, kiss each other when you go to work, have cuddle sessions in front of the TV, etc. and when you think of doing it, it just seems wrong because you’re afraid of her reaction or that she’ll even get offended by it.

You’ve literally become strangers whose only physical touch occurs when you unintentionally touch each other, instantly saying sorry as you do it.

You don’t even look like a couple anymore, instead like some flatmates.

Ver também:17 Sinais óbvios de atração física entre duas pessoas

Evita o contacto visual

Contacto visual is the soul and foundation of every healthy relationship, so if your woman is avoiding it at all costs, know that it’s no good.

As pessoas que evitam o contacto visual estão a esconder algo que as está a incomodar.

If she’s constantly avoiding eye contact, it means she’s probably no longer interested in you romantically or physically but she just can’t admit it yet.

E este é o maior sinal de falta de paixão numa relação.

Quando a paixão se desvanece, é extremamente difícil reacender o fogo.

The only way to fix things is to make enormous efforts and sometimes do things that you don’t feel comfortable doing at the moment (such as looking your partner in the eye).

Há muitos casais que parecem não ter paixão numa relação mas sobrevivem porque, em última análise, continuam a interessar-se um pelo outro.

And if she doesn’t bother looking you in the eye at all, it definitely means she’s not interested in saving your relationship from breaking.

Significa que ela se sente mais confortável a ignorá-lo (os seus olhos) do que a enfrentar o problema, a olhá-lo nos olhos e a dizer exatamente o que quer dizer.

She claims that she’s not ready for something serious

Quando começaram a namorar, tudo parecia ir na direção de uma relação séria.

Comportavam-se como qualquer outro casal, loucamente apaixonados um pelo outro e sentindo que nada vos separaria.

But now she claims that she’s all of a sudden not ready for something serious.

Now she claims that she’s not satisfied with how things are going and she wants to abort the relationship and put another label on it.

Ela quer fazer de ti friendzone even though you’re simply unable to be friends with someone with whom you’ve gone through a lot and built a whole empire. She wants to lure you into the spell of being friendzoned.

But, of course, you won’t let her do that. You will either cut the crap and leave her or demand that she express herself and be honest with you. But there will be no friendzone for sure.

Ela já não partilha os seus problemas consigo

Costumava conhecer todos os seus colegas de trabalho e os seus hábitos, bem como os hábitos do seu chefe, da sua família e até dos seus animais de estimação.

Conhecias todos os problemas dela por ordem alfabética, mas agora não ouves nada.

Ela já não o bombardeia com todos os seus pensamentos sobre tudo, queixando-se de que isso a faz sentir-se mal.

I mean, it’s not like you miss any of it but still, it is a huge change after all.

It makes you wonder if she’s telling all of her problems to someone else now, to her friends or family.

Whomever it may be, it’s a fact that you’re no longer eligible to be the listener to her problems, which is really concerning.

She no longer shares her fears and thoughts with you because she doesn’t feel a connection or because she doesn’t give a shit about your opinion on things happening in her life. I’m sorry to tell you this but it’s the only truth.

Ela já não está interessada na sua vida

Not only is she not interested in you being a participant in her life, she’s also no longer interested in your life either.

Costumava jogar jogos de vídeo consigo, perguntar-lhe sobre o seu trabalho, as suas preferências, as refeições que gostaria que ela preparasse, etc., mas agora parece já não estar interessada em nada disso.

She no longer complains about your constant going out with your friends or neglecting her needs, she no longer complains about your socks left under the bed, she no longer worries if you’ll miss the sale of your favorite game.

And if a woman doesn’t complain, you can be sure that something’s wrong.

You can be sure that she’s not interested in any single thing going on in your life because she no longer wants to be a part of it.

You could moonwalk in your pajamas in the middle of night, she wouldn’t give a damn.

That’s how women work. If they decide they won’t give a damn about something, they’ll make sure to do it right.

Evita falar de planos para o futuro

What future plans? Future plans have become like a taboo in your relationship and you simply no longer mention anything because you’re afraid of her reaction.

Ela evita falar de planos futuros consigo porque, obviamente, não se vê consigo no futuro.

Quando uma mulher está realmente interessada em si, ela certifica-se de que organiza os planos com três anos de antecedência para que tudo corra bem.

So, if you see that she’s feeling uneasy at the mention of a Christmas party with your parents or similar, you can be sure that she doesn’t want to spend time with YOU. Period.

E por que razão perderia o seu tempo a tentar compreendê-la?

Instead of killing yourself trying to find the signs that she’s no longer into you, enjoy your life and focus on yourself because the only truth is that só se vive uma vez and there’s no point in trying to fix something that is obviously not meant to last.