10 segni che non è più interessata a te

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When things are fine in a relationship, you simply don’t give a shit about what could go wrong (because there’s no point in invoking evil forces).

But when you feel like things are not like they used to be, in 90% of cases you’re right.

Ora la domanda è: perché è così? And the answer is that our mind becomes used to a certain pattern of behaviors by our partner and when that cycle breaks, our intuition becomes like a warning sign telling us that something’s not right.

So, if you’re feeling like she’s been behaving differently lately and she seems like a totally different person (she no longer gives a shit about certain things), chances are that she’s not into you anymore.

Also, that is the main reason why you’re here in the first place reading this article.

But before coming to any conclusions, you need to know that there are many factors that trigger a woman’s behavior.

Not every sign means that she’s not into you. Vedete, le donne sono di gran lunga le più esseri complessi sulla terra (e non è nemmeno un'esagerazione).

Quindi, quando una donna sceglie di fare o, piuttosto, di non fare qualcosa, ci sono centinaia di ragioni che la spingono a farlo e che vengono costantemente elaborate e aggiornate nella sua mente.

Ad esempio, se all'improvviso trova fastidiose le vostre abitudini, non ve lo dirà subito (purtroppo non c'è una spiegazione valida per questo).

Instead, she will secretly hold grudges against you and her actions will show you that something’s wrong.

Also, if she’s having some other issues unrelated to you or your relationship, this might also be a trigger to exhibit certain behavior, like ignoring your calls, not looking you in the eye or similar.

How can you differentiate between the two? How can you know that the signs she’s exhibiting mean that she’s not into you anymore or that she’s just pissed off for some other reason?

You see, if one or two signs coincide with the hypothesis that she’s not interested in you anymore, this doesn’t have to be the case.

But if the whole sequence of signs is indicating that she no longer gives a shit about you, then dude, I’m sorry to say but it’s probably the damn truth.

Pay attention to the signs below and I’m sure you’ll get an answer. But before doing that, remember that even if everything goes in favor of her losing affection for you, do not stress about it!

There’s a reason why this is so and I promise you that sooner or later you’ll find out that things are just as they’re supposed to be.

10 signs she’s not into you anymore

L'attività sessuale è cambiata

Radical changes in your sexual activity is a sure indicator that something’s wrong in a relationship and it is one of the first signs she’s not into you anymore.

Firstly, if she always all of a sudden has a headache just before the two of you are about to have sex, know that it’s a lie.

I mal di testa che le donne lamentano di solito non hanno nulla a che vedere con una reale condizione di salute.

They are invented as excuses for when they are not in the mood to have sex with you. It’s as simple as that.

In secondo luogo, if the two of you are still having sex but she’s just lying there like a sack of potatoes, something’s not right.

It means that she’s either bored as fuck or she’s not interested in having intercourse with you. Honestly, what’s the difference?

If a woman is not present during the action, it means she’s somewhere deep in her thoughts where having sex with you is just a small barrier that she needs to deal with in order to continue being absent.

Un altro indicatore che grida alla sua indifferenza è che non si preoccupa più di comprare lingerie sexy come faceva prima.

Obviously, she no longer gives a damn about whether you’re going to have a hard-on or not.

On the contrary, she is probably praying to God that you don’t, so that she doesn’t have to fake her headache or sleep with you only to tick you off of her daily agenda.

Non si preoccupa mai di richiamarti

Prima ti chiamava dieci volte al giorno solo per sentire la tua voce. Ora non si preoccupa mai di richiamarti, anche quando la chiami cento volte.

She either pretends that she somehow didn’t see you calling or that the battery hd somehow magically emptied, which prevented her from calling you back.

Also, she never thinks of calling you when she’s at a concert, with her friends or when something hilarious is going on.

She’s not doing this because she doesn’t feel like sharing anything with you.

She literally doesn’t care if her voice or something funny is going to make your day because that is not something she has time to bother with.

Summarized, she never bothers to call you back because she’s not into you anymore. Period.

Ha priorità diverse

Prima eri la sua priorità numero uno, ma ora fissare il soffitto è diventato in qualche modo più importante che passare del tempo con te.

Evidentemente le sue priorità sono cambiate e non le interessa più passare del tempo di qualità con voi.

Quando uno dei suoi amici la chiama, lei salta in piedi nello stesso istante, si veste a tempo di record, si trucca ed esce, lasciandovi a bocca aperta su come abbia fatto a vestirsi così in fretta e a lasciare il locale alla velocità della luce.

She no longer makes excuses to her boss that she’s sick or something to get a day off because that would mean she would have to spend it with you.

Il suo lavoro è diventato un santuario dove si reca per compiere il suo sacro dovere e se si dice una parola al riguardo, si viene immediatamente puniti per i propri peccati.

She doesn’t give a shit about how she looks in front of you

Bedsheet-sized T-shirts, baggy pants, grandma’s panties, messy hair, no make-up at all and the list goes on… If a woman doesn’t invest in her looks while being with you, it means that there’s something seriously wrong going on.

Prima si comportava come una modella in casa, con tutte quelle camicie di seta, le mutandine sexy, i capelli sistemati e le gambe perfettamente depilate, mentre ora si fa fatica a riconoscerla.

She no longer gives a damn about shaving and not shaving is the second biggest indicator that she doesn’t care if you’ll notice it, aka not giving a fuck about what you’ll think of her.

But when she’s going to some fancy dinner with her colleagues or friends, she makes sure to transform herself into a model again.

But not for your eyes evidently and that’s the biggest difference when it comes to this.

Manca il contatto fisico

Il contatto fisico era una parte inevitabile della vostra relazione (caratteristica di ogni relazione sana), ma ora sembra che vi evitiate spesso.

I mean, she seems to avoid physical touch because it doesn’t feel the same.

You no longer hold hands, kiss each other when you go to work, have cuddle sessions in front of the TV, etc. and when you think of doing it, it just seems wrong because you’re afraid of her reaction or that she’ll even get offended by it.

You’ve literally become strangers whose only physical touch occurs when you unintentionally touch each other, instantly saying sorry as you do it.

You don’t even look like a couple anymore, instead like some flatmates.

Vedi anche:17 segni evidenti di attrazione fisica tra due persone

Evita il contatto visivo

Contatto visivo is the soul and foundation of every healthy relationship, so if your woman is avoiding it at all costs, know that it’s no good.

Le persone che evitano il contatto visivo nascondono qualcosa che le preoccupa.

If she’s constantly avoiding eye contact, it means she’s probably no longer interested in you romantically or physically but she just can’t admit it yet.

E questo è il più grande segno di mancanza di passione in una relazione.

Quando la passione si spegne, è estremamente difficile riaccendere il fuoco.

The only way to fix things is to make enormous efforts and sometimes do things that you don’t feel comfortable doing at the moment (such as looking your partner in the eye).

Ci sono molte coppie che sembrano non avere passione in una relazione ma sopravvivono perché in fondo sono ancora interessati l'uno all'altro.

And if she doesn’t bother looking you in the eye at all, it definitely means she’s not interested in saving your relationship from breaking.

Significa che si sente più a suo agio nell'ignorarvi (i vostri occhi) piuttosto che affrontare il problema, guardarvi negli occhi e dire esattamente ciò che intende.

She claims that she’s not ready for something serious

Quando avete iniziato a frequentarvi, ogni cosa sembrava andare nella direzione di una relazione seria.

Vi siete comportati come tutte le altre coppie, innamorati follemente l'uno dell'altra e con la sensazione che nulla vi avrebbe mai separato.

But now she claims that she’s all of a sudden not ready for something serious.

Now she claims that she’s not satisfied with how things are going and she wants to abort the relationship and put another label on it.

Vuole fare amicizia con te even though you’re simply unable to be friends with someone with whom you’ve gone through a lot and built a whole empire. She wants to lure you into the spell of being friendzoned.

But, of course, you won’t let her do that. You will either cut the crap and leave her or demand that she express herself and be honest with you. But there will be no friendzone for sure.

Non condivide più i suoi problemi con voi

Conoscevate tutti i suoi colleghi di lavoro e le loro abitudini, così come le abitudini del suo capo, della sua famiglia e persino dei loro animali domestici.

Prima conoscevi tutti i suoi problemi in ordine alfabetico, ma ora non ne senti più parlare.

Non vi bombarda più con i suoi pensieri su tutto, lamentandosi di come questo la faccia sentire di merda.

I mean, it’s not like you miss any of it but still, it is a huge change after all.

It makes you wonder if she’s telling all of her problems to someone else now, to her friends or family.

Whomever it may be, it’s a fact that you’re no longer eligible to be the listener to her problems, which is really concerning.

She no longer shares her fears and thoughts with you because she doesn’t feel a connection or because she doesn’t give a shit about your opinion on things happening in her life. I’m sorry to tell you this but it’s the only truth.

Non è più interessata alla vostra vita

Not only is she not interested in you being a participant in her life, she’s also no longer interested in your life either.

Prima giocava con voi ai videogiochi, vi chiedeva del vostro lavoro, delle vostre preferenze, dei pasti che volevate che preparasse e così via, ma ora non sembra più interessata a nulla di tutto ciò.

She no longer complains about your constant going out with your friends or neglecting her needs, she no longer complains about your socks left under the bed, she no longer worries if you’ll miss the sale of your favorite game.

And if a woman doesn’t complain, you can be sure that something’s wrong.

You can be sure that she’s not interested in any single thing going on in your life because she no longer wants to be a part of it.

You could moonwalk in your pajamas in the middle of night, she wouldn’t give a damn.

That’s how women work. If they decide they won’t give a damn about something, they’ll make sure to do it right.

Evita di parlare di progetti futuri

What future plans? Future plans have become like a taboo in your relationship and you simply no longer mention anything because you’re afraid of her reaction.

Evita di parlare di progetti futuri con te perché ovviamente non si vede con te in futuro.

Quando una donna è davvero interessata a voi, si assicurerà di organizzare i piani con tre anni di anticipo in modo che tutto vada liscio.

So, if you see that she’s feeling uneasy at the mention of a Christmas party with your parents or similar, you can be sure that she doesn’t want to spend time with YOU. Period.

E perché dovresti perdere tempo a cercare di capirla?

Instead of killing yourself trying to find the signs that she’s no longer into you, enjoy your life and focus on yourself because the only truth is that si vive una volta sola and there’s no point in trying to fix something that is obviously not meant to last.