12 sinais de que um homem está apaixonado por ti (mas está a escondê-lo)

Todos nós já passámos por situações em que não temos a certeza absoluta se um rapaz gosta de nós ou não.

There are some signs but he’s not making a move and he ignores the topic completely.

Por isso, acabamos por nos perguntar se não teremos lido mal as pistas e imaginado tudo.

We’re wondering why he’s not making a move, or if he is maybe scared of us or of rejection.

Or he’s just not ready for something more than being just friends.

Either way, it’s driving us crazy.

Mas há sinais de que um o homem está apaixonado but he’s hiding it. And the best part? They are so easy to spot once you know what you’re looking for, that I’m wondering why he’s even trying to hide it.

Seriously guys, it’s better to give it a shot than to hide behind all those glares, coded sentences and half-compliments. There is more to gain than there is to lose.

Ele tenta impressioná-la

O que quer que precises, ele pode fazer por ti. Precisas de alguém que te proteja, ele consegue. Precisas de alguém que te ajude em casa, ele fá-lo-á.

Ele quer mostrar-lhe que é hábil e muito útil.

Also, he will talk himself up and share his successes and struggles with you, showing you that he’s hard-working and smart.

Don’t mistake this for a narcissist, because a narcissist will always talk about himself and how he is the best one out there.

But a man worth having will show you that he has struggled and that there may be better men out there but he’s the one for you.

Ele nunca recusa a sua oferta

O que quer que tenhas em mente, ele está pronto para isso. Ele limpa a sua agenda e arranja sempre maneira de arranjar tempo para si.

And even if he’s busy, he offers you something else you can do together.

Sabemos que podemos contar com ele sempre que lhe telefonamos.

As pequenas coisas são normalmente os sinais mais óbvios que mostram he’s into you.

Ele nunca fala de outras mulheres ao pé de si

Por vezes, pode parecer que não há uma única mulher na vida dele.

He will talk about them if you ask him but otherwise, that’s just something he won’t bring up by himself.

E mesmo que ele fale de uma mulher em particular, vai referir-se a ela como uma amiga, deixando-a saber que não há ninguém especial na vida dele.

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Ele inclina-se

Isto é algo que ele não consegue evitar. O facto de se sentir atraído por si faz com que ele queira estar perto de si e ter um certo nível de intimidade.

While you’re talking, he will lean in to hear you better and he will lower his voice so you have to lean in too.

It’s something he does unconsciously, because his body is totally in control when he’s around you.

He will also touch you accidentally, like touch your shoulder when he’s talking to you, move a hair from your face and touch your arm.

It’s also a great opportunity for him to see how you will react to his touches.

Se se afastar, ele também o fará. Mas se não fizer nada ou se lhe tocar, isso pode encorajá-lo o suficiente para finalmente avançar.

Ele goza com os outros homens da sua vida

Esta é a sua coisa favorita, porque quer que vejas que ele é o homem certo para ti, que será o melhor que podes ter. Mas o importante aqui é ver de que forma ele goza com elas.

If he does it jokingly and it’s actually funny, it means he’s not an asshole who just wants to big himself up. He’s just a man in love who still hasn’t figured out how to approach you.

Mas se ele o fizer de uma forma maldosa, que a deixe desconfortável ao ouvi-lo, ele pode ser um homem tóxico.

He’s not doing it only to show you that the other guys are not for you, he’s doing it to boost his ego and that’s not the kind of man you need in your life.

It won’t be long before he starts using mind games on you to get that ego boost he so desperately needs.

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He makes sure you know he’s single

Muitas vezes, ele fala sobre o facto de estar à procura de uma mulher especial e, provavelmente, lança-lhe "o olhar" enquanto o diz.

He will also joke about his single life in front of you and add to that the fact that he’s not bringing up any women around you, it’s pretty clear whom he wants to be that special woman in his life.

E se por acaso alguma mulher se aproximar para se atirar a ele, ele alinhará até ver que tem a sua atenção e depois recusará.

It’s simply because he wants to see your reaction. If he sees a little bit of jealousy on your face, you officially made his day.

Plus him being rude will only turn you off, so there’s no way he will rudely reject any woman who hits on him.

A sua linguagem corporal é aberta

Tem toda a atenção dele quando estão a falar e ele mantém o contacto visual, algo que nenhum homem fará se não estiver realmente interessado em si.

Men are visual beings, they love to look around to see if there’s something interesting to see.

But if you’re the only one he’s looking at, then he has already found it.

He will also always turn his body toward you when you’re together and will never pull back when you’re accidentally touching.

Other signs to look for are if he’s gesticulating a lot with his hands and if he tilts his head.

When men are comfortable around you and want to openly communicate with you, they will move their hands a lot when they’re talking.

And tilting his head while locking eyes with you is an invitation for you to talk to him, or if you’re already talking, it means he wants to know more.

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Ele fica calado quando se começa a falar de outro homem

Se há alguém que tem a sua atenção e sobre quem começa a falar, o mais provável é que ele se feche imediatamente.

He will never ask you to not talk about him or let you know that he has a problem with you having someone in your life but you can see in his behavior that he’s not okay with it.

While you’re talking about another man, he is thinking about his lost chance and the ways he can make it better.

He’s hurting at that moment but still tries to act like nothing is wrong, because it’s his, and only his, fault that you don’t know about his feelings.

You can do this as a sort of test, if he’s a hard one to read. Start talking about a guy who approached you at a club and how he had all the right manners and moves and how you can’t wait to get to know him better.

Se o humor dele mudar instantaneamente e ele tentar mudar de assunto enquanto gagueja sobre como está feliz por si, apanhou-o.

But don’t do this unless you’re ready to make a move on him. It’ll only mess with his feelings and confidence and that’s not the right thing to do.

Ele toca o jogo quente e frio

Um dia, ele quer estar sempre consigo e adora passar tempo consigo, fazendo-lhe os elogios mais espantosos e todos aqueles toques acidentais que fazem o seu sangue disparar de desejo.

E, no dia seguinte, está tão ocupado que o homem praticamente não existe.

The explanation is quite simple—he’s in love with you but he’s not ready to come forward.

Maybe he’s not sure how you feel, maybe he’s afraid of rejection or getting his heart broken.

Mas, por um momento, perde-se a si próprio e deixa de lado todos os limites e muros.

He is as close to you as it gets without letting you know he’s into you.

And he’s afraid that you have figured it out, so he turns cold the next day.

But still, if he has fuckboy tendencies, let the boy loose. You don’t need those kinds of games in your life.

Ele parece nervoso ao pé de si

If he’s fidgeting all the time and is constantly fixing his appearance, such as combing his fingers through his hair and fixing his shirt while talking to you, ask yourself if there is a reason for him to be nervous.

Probably the reason he’s like that is that he wants to tell you how he feels but something is stopping him from doing so.

He also wants to look his best for you, which kind of makes him nervous, because he’s afraid he could mess something up and lose the chance with you for good.

It’s a lot of pressure and we’ve all been there, so you can’t really blame the guy for stuttering and spilling his drinks from time to time.

Ele reflecte os seus movimentos

When we like someone, we mirror their movements unconsciously, because we want them and want to be like them. If you’re wondering if he’s into you, you can do a little test.

Next time you’re out together, cross your arms and watch if he does the same.

If he’s into you, he most likely will do it right after you do, without even realizing it.

Ele provoca-a e brinca com o facto de vocês serem um casal

Men love to tease and they love to be teased. It’s the perfect way to create that special and intimate bond without all the seriousness.

Dessa forma, têm algo que só vocês partilham, aquela pequena piada interna que ninguém conhece.

If he gives you a cute nickname and uses it when you’re together, that’s also him creating a stronger bond between you.

And joking about you two being a couple is the perfect way for him to check your reaction and see if you’re interested in him.

Se reagir muito mal, ele nunca lhe dirá o que realmente sente.

But no man will ever joke about dating someone if they’re not interested in doing so.