12 segni che un uomo è innamorato di te (ma lo nasconde)

È capitato a tutti di non essere del tutto sicuri di piacere o meno a un ragazzo.

There are some signs but he’s not making a move and he ignores the topic completely.

Così, finiamo per chiederci se forse abbiamo letto male gli indizi e ce lo siamo immaginato.

We’re wondering why he’s not making a move, or if he is maybe scared of us or of rejection.

Or he’s just not ready for something more than being just friends.

Either way, it’s driving us crazy.

Ma ci sono segnali che indicano che un l'uomo è innamorato but he’s hiding it. And the best part? They are so easy to spot once you know what you’re looking for, that I’m wondering why he’s even trying to hide it.

Seriously guys, it’s better to give it a shot than to hide behind all those glares, coded sentences and half-compliments. There is more to gain than there is to lose.

Cerca di fare colpo su di te

Qualsiasi cosa vi serva, lui può farla per voi. Avete bisogno di qualcuno che vi protegga, lui lo farà. Avete bisogno di qualcuno che vi aiuti in casa, lui lo farà.

Vuole dimostrarvi che è abile e molto utile da avere intorno.

Also, he will talk himself up and share his successes and struggles with you, showing you that he’s hard-working and smart.

Don’t mistake this for a narcissist, because a narcissist will always talk about himself and how he is the best one out there.

But a man worth having will show you that he has struggled and that there may be better men out there but he’s the one for you.

Non rifiuta mai la tua offerta

Qualsiasi cosa abbiate in mente, lui è pronto a farlo. Cancella i suoi impegni e trova sempre un modo per trovare il tempo per voi.

And even if he’s busy, he offers you something else you can do together.

Sapete di poter contare su di lui ogni volta che lo chiamate.

Le piccole cose sono di solito i segni più evidenti che dimostrano he’s into you.

Non parla mai di altre donne con te

A volte può sembrare che non ci sia una sola donna nella sua vita.

He will talk about them if you ask him but otherwise, that’s just something he won’t bring up by himself.

E anche se parla di una donna in particolare, si riferirà a lei come a un'amica, facendovi capire che non c'è nessuna donna speciale nella sua vita.

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Si appoggia a

È una cosa di cui non può fare a meno. Il fatto che sia attratto da lei lo spinge a volerle stare vicino e ad avere un certo livello di intimità.

While you’re talking, he will lean in to hear you better and he will lower his voice so you have to lean in too.

It’s something he does unconsciously, because his body is totally in control when he’s around you.

He will also touch you accidentally, like touch your shoulder when he’s talking to you, move a hair from your face and touch your arm.

It’s also a great opportunity for him to see how you will react to his touches.

Se vi tirate indietro, lo farà anche lui. Ma se non fate nulla o lo toccate, potreste incoraggiarlo abbastanza da fare finalmente una mossa.

Prende in giro gli altri uomini della vostra vita

Questa è la cosa che preferisce fare, perché vuole farvi capire che è l'uomo giusto per voi, che sarà il migliore che possiate avere. Ma la cosa importante è vedere in che modo li prende in giro.

If he does it jokingly and it’s actually funny, it means he’s not an asshole who just wants to big himself up. He’s just a man in love who still hasn’t figured out how to approach you.

Ma se lo fa in modo meschino, tanto da mettervi a disagio nel sentirlo, potrebbe essere un uomo tossico.

He’s not doing it only to show you that the other guys are not for you, he’s doing it to boost his ego and that’s not the kind of man you need in your life.

It won’t be long before he starts using mind games on you to get that ego boost he so desperately needs.

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He makes sure you know he’s single

Spesso parlerà di come sia alla ricerca di una donna speciale e probabilmente vi lancerà uno "sguardo" mentre lo dice.

He will also joke about his single life in front of you and add to that the fact that he’s not bringing up any women around you, it’s pretty clear whom he wants to be that special woman in his life.

E se per caso una donna ci prova con lui, lui starà al gioco finché non vedrà che ha la vostra attenzione e poi la rifiuterà.

It’s simply because he wants to see your reaction. If he sees a little bit of jealousy on your face, you officially made his day.

Plus him being rude will only turn you off, so there’s no way he will rudely reject any woman who hits on him.

Il suo linguaggio del corpo è aperto

Avete tutta la sua attenzione quando parlate e lui mantiene il contatto visivo, cosa che nessun uomo farebbe se non fosse veramente interessato a voi.

Men are visual beings, they love to look around to see if there’s something interesting to see.

But if you’re the only one he’s looking at, then he has already found it.

He will also always turn his body toward you when you’re together and will never pull back when you’re accidentally touching.

Other signs to look for are if he’s gesticulating a lot with his hands and if he tilts his head.

When men are comfortable around you and want to openly communicate with you, they will move their hands a lot when they’re talking.

And tilting his head while locking eyes with you is an invitation for you to talk to him, or if you’re already talking, it means he wants to know more.

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Si zittisce quando si inizia a parlare di un altro uomo

Se c'è qualcuno che ha la vostra attenzione e di cui iniziate a parlare, molto probabilmente si chiuderà immediatamente.

He will never ask you to not talk about him or let you know that he has a problem with you having someone in your life but you can see in his behavior that he’s not okay with it.

While you’re talking about another man, he is thinking about his lost chance and the ways he can make it better.

He’s hurting at that moment but still tries to act like nothing is wrong, because it’s his, and only his, fault that you don’t know about his feelings.

You can do this as a sort of test, if he’s a hard one to read. Start talking about a guy who approached you at a club and how he had all the right manners and moves and how you can’t wait to get to know him better.

Se il suo umore cambia immediatamente e cerca di cambiare argomento balbettando quanto è felice per voi, l'avete beccato.

But don’t do this unless you’re ready to make a move on him. It’ll only mess with his feelings and confidence and that’s not the right thing to do.

Gioca a fare il gioco caldo e freddo

Un giorno vorrà stare sempre con voi e amerà passare del tempo con voi, farvi i complimenti più incredibili e tutti quei tocchi accidentali che vi faranno salire il desiderio nel sangue.

E il giorno dopo è così impegnato che il ragazzo è praticamente inesistente.

The explanation is quite simple—he’s in love with you but he’s not ready to come forward.

Maybe he’s not sure how you feel, maybe he’s afraid of rejection or getting his heart broken.

Ma per un momento si perde e lascia andare tutti i confini e i muri.

He is as close to you as it gets without letting you know he’s into you.

And he’s afraid that you have figured it out, so he turns cold the next day.

But still, if he has fuckboy tendencies, let the boy loose. You don’t need those kinds of games in your life.

Sembra nervoso con voi

If he’s fidgeting all the time and is constantly fixing his appearance, such as combing his fingers through his hair and fixing his shirt while talking to you, ask yourself if there is a reason for him to be nervous.

Probably the reason he’s like that is that he wants to tell you how he feels but something is stopping him from doing so.

He also wants to look his best for you, which kind of makes him nervous, because he’s afraid he could mess something up and lose the chance with you for good.

It’s a lot of pressure and we’ve all been there, so you can’t really blame the guy for stuttering and spilling his drinks from time to time.

Rispecchia i vostri movimenti

When we like someone, we mirror their movements unconsciously, because we want them and want to be like them. If you’re wondering if he’s into you, you can do a little test.

Next time you’re out together, cross your arms and watch if he does the same.

If he’s into you, he most likely will do it right after you do, without even realizing it.

Ti prende in giro e scherza sul fatto che voi due state insieme.

Men love to tease and they love to be teased. It’s the perfect way to create that special and intimate bond without all the seriousness.

In questo modo, avete qualcosa che condividete solo voi due, quella piccola battuta interna che nessuno conosce.

If he gives you a cute nickname and uses it when you’re together, that’s also him creating a stronger bond between you.

And joking about you two being a couple is the perfect way for him to check your reaction and see if you’re interested in him.

Se reagite male, non vi farà mai sapere cosa prova davvero.

But no man will ever joke about dating someone if they’re not interested in doing so.