23 sinais de que ele te quer muito (e o que isso realmente significa)
How can you decode the mysterious signs he wants you bad? There is really no bulletproof sign to confirm it. Maybe he’s só para ser simpático and doesn’t want to hurt your feelings.
But, yet again, maybe he really wants you bad but doesn’t know how to tell you. Who knows?
If you don’t risk it, you’ll never know. Também pode facilmente acabar com o coração partido e ser um vítima de um manipuladormas, por outro lado, pode ter a relação da sua vida.
I know you want to find out the answer right now. Of course, you do. It’s so much easier to see things clearly and be safe.
It’s so much easier to fall in love with a guarantee that you’re not going to hurt.
But, sadly relationships don’t work that way. And when you think about it, you’re going to get a lot of mensagens contraditórias your whole life. You’re not going to know what he thinks and why he acts the way he does.
Por isso, tentar decifrar o código e sinais de que ele te quer mau não é assim tão grave.
But you have to be careful to read the signs for what they are. Don’t fool yourself into thinking something that is not true.
Sometimes people fall in love so hard that they don’t see what is really happening.
Sometimes love blinds us and prevents us from seeing clearly. Sometimes he’s just being nice and doesn’t want a relationship with you, but since you’re apaixonada por ele, you won’t admit it.
Como é que sabes se um homem te quer na vida dele?
First of all, you should try to be objective. Try to separate your feelings from your mind. That’s not an easy game to play because you can’t fight your heart.
Pode tentar ignorá-lo e talvez até o consiga, mas será muito difícil avaliar a situação utilizando apenas o seu lado realista e lógico.
But, try it, you’re only going to help yourself. Who knows? Maybe your logic saves you from future desgosto and a lot of tears. If that happens, wouldn’t you be grateful to yourself?
The best thing you could do is to pretend that the situation you’re in is not concerning you.
Try to look at things with someone else’s eyes, try to be a third party, completely unbiased.
Maybe then you’ll manage to bring a decision that will work in your favor.
Antes de qualquer outra coisa, tente a objetividade. Sei que é muito mais fácil falar do que fazer, e é preciso muita coragem para aceitar a verdade, seja ela qual for.
But, if it were so easy, women from all over the world wouldn’t be obsessed with trying to read the sinais de que ele te quer mal.
Even if you read all the signs and you’re positive that he wants you, there is no bulletproof guarantee that he’ll want you forever.
As pessoas mudam as the years go by and a lot of things you can’t influence can happen whether you like it or not.
So no one can say for sure that if he wants you bad now, he’ll want you bad forever.
23 Sinais claros de que ele te quer muito
But, let’s leave the future and stick to the present.
If you have these problems and you can’t figure out what the heck he wants from you, if you want to protect yourself from the potential heartbreak, read these signs to be sure he wants you bad.
A sua linguagem corporal expõe-no
The thing with guys is that they like to pretend they aren’t into you at the beginning. But, a well-known fact is that we can’t actually control our body language when we’re around a person we have strong feelings for.
A melhor maneira de saber se ele gosta mesmo de ti is to pay attention to non-verbal signs his body sends out when you two are together. So, let’s find out what are os sinais da linguagem corporal ele quer-te muito.
Mantém sempre um contacto visual profundo
If your guy doesn’t break the intense stare when you catch him looking at you, but on the contrary, he tries to maintain that contacto visual and smiles at you gently, it’s a surefire sign he’s attracted to you.
Ele entra na zona do seu espaço pessoal
Todos nós gostamos de ter o nosso espaço pessoal, sabe, aquela distância socialmente aceitável que todos gostamos de manter das outras pessoas. E todos nós ficamos um pouco zangados quando alguém tenta invadir esse espaço.
However, it’s not the same when the person we like enters our personal space. In that case, it’s totally acceptable and we even feel happy about it.
If you notice that your man is subtly invading your personal space, moves his seat to sit closer to you or touches your arm while you two are talking, it’s a very good sign he’s interested in you.
He’s actually mirroring your body language
If your guy starts to imitate your hand gestures, posture or maybe even your speech pattern, that’s it. He has fallen head over heels for you.
You should also know that he isn’t consciously aware of it. But, that’s a good thing because mirroring someone’s body language is a sign of strong atração física e tensão sexual entre eles.
Ele passa os dedos pelo cabelo
This can mean two things; either your man is nervous around you and doesn’t know what to do with his hand or he just wants to look good for you.
In both cases, it’s pretty obvious that your guy wants you bad, but he’s probably just afraid dar o primeiro passo ainda.
Ele fala com as mãos
If your man uses hand gestures every time he’s talking to you, as much as it may seem awkward and funny, it’s just a way he wants to be sure that you’ll understand him and that he’ll convey the right message. And he wouldn’t bother that much if he didn’t like you, right?
Also, it may mean another thing that may be more interesting for you… He’s doing it to show that he’s good with his hands (wink!).
Ele está nervoso ao pé de si
The fact he’s nervous means that he is hiding something. He’s nervous because ele gosta de si and doesn’t know how to show it to you.
He wants to impress you and prove himself worthy of your love. That’s when things go so cutely wrong.
You can see that he’s trying to prove himself but the fact he’s nervous messes it all up and everything goes wrong.
Also, he never acts like that when he is with his friends. It’s like he is a different person in their presence.
He’s loose and funny, but when you walk into the picture, it’s like he loses himself completely. That is a definite and undeniable sign he wants you bad and can’t hide it.
Ele quer saber tudo sobre si
He wants to know what your interests are, what you like and don’t like, and what’s happening in your love life. Simply put, he wants to know every little detail about you. That’s why he listens to you carefully.
Quero dizer, ele não é um cretino que a persegue nas redes sociais. Ele está genuinamente apaixonado por si e quer saber o que o faz feliz.
He’ll ask you a lot of questions to get the chance to get to know you better.
Um tipo que é não está interessado em si wouldn’t go through all that trouble just to know things about you.
Ele tentaria descobrir apenas o básico, para ter material suficiente com que trabalhar, porque provavelmente só quer entrar nas suas calças.
Ele ri-se de tudo o que dizes
Podemos ser engraçados, mas ninguém é tão engraçado que tenhamos de nos rir de tudo o que é dito.
Mas, este tipo está a mostrar-lhe subtilmente sinais de que ele te quer muito. And the thing is, he really genuinely thinks that everything you say is that funny. He thinks you’re hilarious.
Se um tipo se ri com todo o coração de tudo o que dizes, ele gosta mesmo de ti.
Quer dizer, podes ser engraçado, mas na melhor das hipóteses, as tuas piadas são boas.
You probably have moments when you shine, but it’s not all the time. It’s definitely a sinal de que ele gosta de ti.
Ele envia-lhe mensagens
Isto significa que ele quer a sua atenção. Ele quer entrar em contacto consigo.
Maybe he is feeling lonely and wants to be in your presence. Now, it’s so hard to see if he’s texting you because he just wants a one-time thing or he is texting you because ele sente muito a tua falta e quer muito estar contigo.
Don’t worry, there is a solution to this problem, too. You can easily figure out what his intentions are from the way he texts you.
Tente testar isto numa situação real. Tenta ignorá-lo para chamar a sua atenção and if there is really something going on, you’ll end this on a positive note. So, don’t text him back for a few hours and see how he behaves.
If he remains silent, he is probably not that interested in you and his intentions are the ones you want to avoid, but if he texts you again, worried that you’re not answering back, then you can be sure that he really cares for you and it’s an obvious sign he wants you bad.
Ele fica emocionado ao pé de si
Maybe just his friends and family have seen this emotional side of him. He feels safe enough around them to let them know how he really feels, but the thing is, he’s doing this in front of you, too.
Sim, os homens também têm sentimentos e, apesar do que os meios de comunicação social querem fazer crer, alguns deles até querem falar sobre esses sentimentos. Afinal de contas, são humanos como nós.
Mostrar-lhe como se sente significa que ele realmente sente algo por si.
Ele confia em ti o suficiente para te deixar entrar na sua zona vulnerável e delicada.
As I’ve said, only his friends and family have seen that side of him before and now you are honored to join the club.
Ele contacta-o nas redes sociais
Just another one out of a lot of clear signs he wants you bad. If he’s overly interested in what you’ve been up to and a bit too active on your social media accounts, then you should know that there is something more than ‘just interested’ hiding behind his intentions.
If he’s commenting and hitting ‘like’ on your every post, he’s sending you subtle signals that he is emocionalmente ligado para si.
Maybe he is too shy to admit it or he’s scared of rejection, so he is playing it cool and soooo slow it kind of drives you crazy.
Why won’t he say it already? I know, but he’s just touching base to see if there is something there—to see if there is any chance to be with you.
Ele quer muito ver-vos
Como é que se sabe quando um homem nos quer muito? Simplesmente, ele quer vê-la diariamente. Ele quer passar muito tempo consigo, na verdade, todo o seu tempo livre, porque você é atualmente a única coisa que dá um sentido à sua vida.
He worships the ground you walk on and he just can’t get enough of you.
And even when you meet, he is asking when you are going to meet and hang out again. It’s obvious that he enjoys spending time with you.
É claro que isto pode acontecer nos dois sentidos. Ele pode apenas querer conhecê-la porque tem outros planos para além do facto de a querer muito.
A única coisa que pode fazer para provar que ele a deseja verdadeiramente é obrigá-lo a lutar por si e a fazer um esforço para a conhecer.
Don’t say yes right away. Let him work hard to get you. But, be aware, if you string him along, he’ll be under the impression you don’t like him and will perder o interesse e deixar de tentar.
He’s there for you… Always
He knows that it’s not enough just to say this, and that he has to show it through his actions.
Ele nunca ignora-o, not even when you get in a fight over something. He’s always the first one to come when something bad happens to you. He prioritizes you and your well-being over anything.
If your man has proved to you that you can count on him no matter what and that he’ll always stick by your side, you can rest assured knowing that he doesn’t want to jogar jogos mas que o seu homem gosta genuinamente de si.
Ele liga-te bêbado
Ok, há dois lados neste cenário, como sempre há.
Talvez ele liga-te bêbado because he thinks he might get lucky, but on the other hand, maybe he drunk dials you because his real emotions come to light and he is too drunk to give a fuck what everybody will think—including you about why he’s calling you.
It’s probably that he never had the courage to confront you and say he wants you to your face.
So, now, after a few drinks, he got incredibly brave and decided to go through with it already and see what happens. It’s kind of cute, isn’t it?
Unfortunately, we don’t act the same, so there is no proven way to read through why he called or sent you a text message in the middle of the night drunk as hell.
Mas, se receber uma mensagem de texto com um pedido de desculpas de manhã, os sentimentos dele são genuínos e verdadeiros.
Se não conseguir nada, então provavelmente ele só queria fazer sexo consigo.
He’s never late
Although this would be more surprising if we were talking about a girl, it’s equally important. It’s a sign that he doesn’t want to keep you waiting. What a gentleman, right?
Mas, acima de tudo, mostra que ele gosta de si and respects your time. He really gives a shit and he doesn’t want you to think less of him.
I can see you imagining someone you’re supposed to meet and they are always late, lying on a couch watching a TV show and then suddenly he looks at the clock and realizes he is late meeting you. It gives a wrong vibe like he doesn’t want to meet you.
Se fosses importante para ele, ele chegaria 10 minutos mais cedo e não se lembraria de ti à última da hora, como se fosses uma coisa que ele tem de fazer.
Ele faz planos para o futuro consigo e cumpre-os sempre
Ele já a menciona quando fala dos seus planos para o futuro? Bem, isto merece ser festejado porque é uma sinal óbvio de que este homem a quer na sua vida para sempre.
You’ll probably notice how excited he is every time you two are talking about the future and making some plans to hang out or to go somewhere together.
And the most important thing is that he’ll never flake on you. If he promises something, he’ll follow it through no matter what. That’s how he wants to prove to you that he’s playing for keeps.
Of course, there might be a situation when his work gets in the middle and makes him cancel on you but he’ll always give you proper notice, reschedule it for another time and apologize sincerely for the inconvenience.
It’s not just a sign that he wants you, it also means that ele respeita o seu tempo e aprecia-o como pessoa.
Ele é honesto consigo
Um homem que mostra sinais de que a quer muito será honesto consigo.
Ele não é um daqueles tipos que jogam jogos mentais para conseguir o que querem de uma forma desonesta.
Não, ele preocupa-se demasiado para pôr em risco a sua potencial relação consigo tentando manipulá-la. Ele será honesto consigo desde o primeiro encontro.
Ele abre-se para si
Another one of the signs he wants you bad is if he isn’t ashamed to open up to you about his past.
We all have one and we all have skeletons in our closets. The one who says he’s an open book and has nothing to hide—lies.
But, if you see that there is something he is not telling you, something significant, then you should be careful. Who knows what he’s hiding and what his intentions are?
He’s protective
If he’s protective of you, it means that he wants you to be and feel safe. That brings us to a conclusion that you aren’t just um engate regular para ele mas que ele gosta mesmo de ti.
And I’m not talking about those overly-protective and possessive kinds of guys. No, that’s not a sinal de amor verdadeiro. It’s actually a deeply unhealthy behavior that is destructive for a relationship.
I’m talking about the kind of guys who want you to know that you can count on them under any circumstances.
The one that doesn’t think you’re weak or incapable of protecting yourself. The one who just wants you to know that you have someone to help you deal with things that are bigger and stronger than you are.
He can’t stop looking at you
It’s possible that you catch him staring or you see him glancing at you, trying to catch your attention.
And if you catch him looking at you, he’ll lock his eyes on yours and won’t look away for a while. It’s a telltale sign he wants you bad, sexually.
Mas é preciso ter cuidado porque há sempre o outro lado da história.
Ele pode olhar para si de vez em quando, mas se desviar o olhar quando você retribui, não está interessado em si e provavelmente vê-a apenas como uma amiga.
Sente-se simplesmente a energia entre vós
Quando as faíscas estão a voar entre duas pessoas, isso tensão sexual entre eles é visível para todos os que os rodeiam.
That’s why it shouldn’t be too difficult to figure out if he really wants you badly, because if it’s the case, you’ll be able to feel that química entre vós.
I can’t really help you out with this one because it’s not something that can be explained in simple words. You must experience or feel it yourself in order to understand what I am talking about.
Ele fica com ciúmes
Especially if he didn’t let you know he wants you. He will be medo de te perder although he hasn’t yet made a move.
He doesn’t know if you like him back and when he sees you talking to other guys, he’ll feel neglected and scared that you might like the other one instead of him.
Mas, por outro lado, há uma linha ténue entre o ciúme fofo e o possessivo.
Nunca deixe que alguém tente controlar a sua vida e se preocupe com coisas que não lhe dizem respeito.
If you’re meeting o teu amigo para uma bebida, ele não tem nada que se meter ou fazer perguntas sobre ele.
Ele apaga todas as suas velhas chamas
A primeira coisa que um homem que te quer muito bem vai fazer é apagar todas as aplicações de encontros que usou para conhecer raparigas antes de te conhecer.
Por isso, se o seu homem apagar os perfis dele no Tinder, Hinge, Bumble e outras aplicações semelhantes, pode ter a certeza de que he’s really into you.
If he’s still in touch with his ex, or even worse, if he still chats with different girls online, it’s a pretty clear red flag that he’s a player who doesn’t care for you. And it’s definitely not the guy you deserve in the first place.
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Conheceste os seus amigos e familiares
Um homem nunca o fará a não ser que tenha cem por cento de certeza de que é a rapariga certa para ele.
You’ve probably even met his mom already. You know, guys won’t put up with questions from their family and friends about you for nothing.
Gosta de quem tu és? Ele gosta de si? Estão numa relação? Então, se ele deu este passo, isso significa que ele gosta mesmo de ti.
Ele deixou uma boa impressão nos seus entes queridos
If a guy tries really hard to leave a good impression on your family and friends, it’s a good sign that he wants you.
He knows how important they are to you and whatever is important to you, it’s equally important to him. Besides, he knows that you’ll like him more if he manages to win them over.
He’s okay with taking things slow
When a guy doesn’t want to respect your wish to take things slowly, it’s a red flag that he only wants to hook up with you and nothing else.
On the contrary, if he shows understanding and respect for your wish, it’s a clear sign that this guy wants to build uma relação séria convosco.
Even though he wants you badly, he’ll know how to battle those temptations in order to show how much he cares for you. He knows how important it is to build a deeper emotional and intimate bond before you take that step in your relationship.
Ele comporta-se como um verdadeiro cavalheiro
Por vezes, parece mesmo que as boas maneiras e a etiqueta estão a começar a desaparecer na nossa sociedade moderna. Chivalry is evolving like everything else, but it just seems that guys don’t even try to keep up with it.
No entanto, o amor transforma-os sempre em verdadeiros cavalheiros. Quando um homem começa a apaixonar-se por uma mulher, tudo o que ele quer é tratar a sua senhora da forma que ela merece (e call her ‘babe’). Para se tornar o rei que a sua rainha merece.
So, if your guy is behaving like a true cavalier in every sense of that word, then it’s a pretty good sign ele gosta de si mais do que se pensa.
Em poucas palavras
You don’t have to google your zodiac signs compatibility in order to see if your man is really into you. This list of the signs he wants you bad will surely help you solve that dilemma.
And remember, if he isn’t that much into you, then he’s simply not the one. On the other hand, if the answer is yes, if he truly likes you, don’t be afraid to make the first move.
Dê-lhe uma pequena pista de que sente o mesmo por ele e deixe que seja o início de uma bela história de amor. A que tem um final feliz, of course. Or, even better, the one without an ending…
Mas, o que importa é que quando alguém está caidinho por si e está verdadeiramente, loucamente, profundamente apaixonado por ti, you’ll be able to see it and feel it. You’ll just know.
These signs can help you in making a definite decision, but at the bottom of your heart, you’ll know for sure if he is the real man for you.
