4. Têm pena das suas mulheres

This is a very wrong reason to stay married to someone. You can’t be with someone simply because you feel sorry for them. I mean, you can, but it’ll never be a relação saudável.
It’s always better to be honest with your partner. The wife will be hurt, and she’ll suffer… That’s inevitable. Mas, a verdade é que ela sofreria ainda mais se descobrisse que o marido só está ao seu lado porque tem pena dela.
