5 benefícios surpreendentes de ser rejeitada pelo homem de quem gosta

Se eu lhe disser para se expor e se expor à rejeição porque tem inúmeras vantagens que desconhece, provavelmente vai chamar-me louco.

However, I assure you that you’ll change your mind after reading the following benefits of getting rejected by the man you like.

You’ll see it’s not the worst thing that can happen

Let’s face it–none of us enjoys being rejected because nobody can be indifferent to the fact that the person they like simply doesn’t like them back.

Besides this realization being painful, it also hurts your ego and makes you wonder why you can’t be enough.

Bem, a verdade é que todos os nossos medos parecem muito maiores até se tornarem realidade.

So, once you get rejected and once the initial shock passes, you’ll see that this is actually not the worst case scenario.

You’ll understand that everyone has the right to tell you “no” and see that this happening to you is not a disaster.

You’ll realize that this is all a part of life and that you’ll survive this heartbreak, the same way you’ll survive everything else.

Poupar-lhe-á muitas análises

A melhor coisa de ser rejeitado é o facto de isso o ajudar a saber qual é a sua posição.

Não há necessidade de pensar demasiado e de abrir a sua mente sobre se este rapaz gosta de si ou não.

You won’t waste endless sleepless nights, trying to get to the bottom of his intentions, doing your best to figure out his behavior, and decrypting his words and texts in vain.

Não há sinais contraditórios, nem jogos mentais, nem enganar ninguém.

To put things honestly, a man who tells you “no” right away is much more fair than a douchebag who is stringing you along and giving you false hope.

Será uma nova experiência

Cada pequena coisa que acontece na sua vida é uma nova lição para si, mesmo que seja doloroso e duro.

Esta rejeição é também uma experiência valiosa que deve ser apreciada.

It will help you get to know yourself in an entirely new situation, and it will help you see that you can successfully handle some things you thought you couldn’t take.

I won’t lie to you–this probably won’t be the last time someone you like rejects you, so it will also prepare you for the potential future.

You see, the next time something like this happens, you won’t see it as the end of the world and as something to knock you down.

Instead, you’ll accept it as a perfectly normal event and move on with your life the way you should.

Ficará orgulhoso de si próprio

Trust me–it is always worse to deal with all the “what ifs” then to face a defeat.

Instead of being sorry for the fact that you gave it a shot with someone and something that clearly didn’t have a chance of working out, you should be proud of your courage and of having had enough bravery to try.

Pelo menos, sabe que seguiu os seus desejos e fez exatamente o que o seu coração lhe disse para fazer.

You didn’t chicken out and maybe miss an opportunity out of fear–your conscience is clear because you know you gave your best.

Abre espaço para o Sr. Certo

One thing is more than obvious: this man we’re talking about was wrong for you.

He clearly wasn’t your destiny, and that is something you have to accept.

Lembre-se: tudo acontece por uma razão.

Even if he agreed to be with you, it is a fact that he doesn’t care for you enough and maybe Deus salvou-te mesmo from a life of misery when He didn’t allow you to be with this guy.

So instead of seeing it as a loss, see it as a gain because maybe the reason this Mr. Wrong didn’t become a part of your life is to clear the path for your future Mr. Right.

O facto de ele te ter rejeitado abriu espaço e deu uma oportunidade à tua alma gémea de se cruzar contigo.

É nisso que se deve concentrar em vez de olhar para trás.