5 coisas incríveis que acontecem quando paramos de perseguir o amor

Being single can feel difficult or tiring but that’s not how it should be. It should be a blessing (especially if you’re still young) because it is a great opportunity to enjoy life at its fullest, to discover yourself, to visit the most beautiful places with your friends and so on.

Deveria estar a aproveitar cada segundo em vez de se concentrar apenas no que está a perder.

If you’re constantly thinking about your ex or someone with whom you would want to be (but for some reason, you aren’t), if you’re constantly anticipating meeting the right one, you’re not doing it right.

Breathe in – breathe out – press the pause button – stop chasing love.

There’s no point in tiring yourself over something that happened, something that should have happened, or something that should happen.

Enjoy. Now. Let go of your past. Don’t think about the future. Live in the present.

There’s no point in perseguir o amor. O amor encontrar-te-á quando deixares de o perseguir.

Ponto final. Por isso, sempre que der por si a preocupar-se com a sua vida amorosa ou a pensar no seu passado, substitua toda a negatividade por positividade.

Pensem apenas no presente, porque é o único caminho para a vossa felicidade final. É a única coisa que podes influenciar.

Quando decidires deixar de perseguir o amor e escolheres a felicidade, estas 5 coisas vão acontecer

You’ll become free

When you’re constantly expecting and waiting for something to happen, you are draining yourself of positive energy because you are investing your thoughts in the wrong things.

When you stop chasing love, you’ll ultimately become free.

Deixará de se sentir prisioneiro da sua própria mente porque estará ocupado a apreciar o presente.

You will be busy occupying yourself with the most exciting things you’ve always wanted to try.

Your spirit will be rejuvenated and you’ll ooze with happiness.

You’ll enjoy going out again

You’ll find another meaning to going out. You will no longer dress yourself to impress some homem atraente ou a sua possível alma gémea.

Sair de casa deixará de parecer algo que se deve fazer ou não porque se quer.

When you stop chasing love, you’ll discover the charms of going out again.

Absorverás a música bonita, o ambiente e a energia dos teus amigos fantásticos, que te farão sentir INCRÍVEL.

When you stop focusing on meeting the one, you’ll discover that there is so much you’ve been missing all this time.

Os seus laços de amizade ficarão mais fortes

Sometimes, girl friendships turn into babbling about men, dissatisfaction about your love life and similar because when you’re constantly focused on one thing like chasing the love of your life, you become blind when it comes to your people.

Quando só pensam numa coisa, os vossos temas reduzem-se e deixam de aproveitar o tempo que passam juntos.

Quando libertar a sua mente de tudo o que tem a ver com o amor, os seus laços de amizade tornar-se-ão mais fortes.

Descobrirá novas formas de se divertir e de desfrutar de momentos como nunca antes.

Your future adventures will get you closer to each other and you’ll have the time of your life.

You’ll discover your full potential

When you stop chasing love, you’ll discover your full potential. You’ll discover new hobbies, activities, new sides of your personalities, new quirks and flaws. You’ll discover yourself.

And there’s nothing more satisfying than being in touch with your true self. You’ll discover that you’re not as weak as you might have thought.

You’ll discover that you’re talented in something you’d never thought of doing. You’ll discover your independence and you will enjoy spending time with yourself.

You’ll ultimately become more attractive

When you start practicing all of these things above, you’ll ultimately become more attractive.

You’ll become the woman that every guy dreams of having in his life.

E o melhor de tudo é que, quando começar a viver a sua melhor vida, começará a atrair a grandeza.

So, breathe in – breathe out – press the pause button and stop chasing love. Enjoy the moment, enjoy the time spent with your friends, enjoy discovering yourself.

Aprende a amar a vida e a vida amar-te-á em troca. Aprenda a deixar de perseguir o amor e o amor encontrá-lo-á.