5 maneiras brilhantes de fazer com que ele a persiga sem se fazer de difícil
Tanto quanto jogar duro para conseguir might seem like the perfect option when you’re trying to win over your dream guy, in many situations, it’s actually quite ineffective.
E a razão simples para isso é o facto de os homens estarem cansados de jogar jogos.
They don’t want to go after a girl who keeps sending them all these sinais contraditóriose continuo a ter de decifrar o que é que ela realmente quer.
They are done with chasing somebody who clearly can’t be bothered to show the slightest interest in them for the purposes of appearing untouchable and therefore worthy of being chased and adored.
It doesn’t work that way anymore.
By no means am I saying that you should put all your cards on the table at once, but you definitely need to show him something worthy of being pursued, otherwise he’s out the door!
O que quer fazer é encontrar o equilíbrio perfeito entre fazer-se de difícil e oferecer-se a ele numa bandeja de prata.
You don’t want him to see that you’re playing him, so the ideal thing to do is faz com que ele te desejeMas mantenha um ar de mistério que o fará voltar para mais.
E é precisamente assim que o vai conseguir, passo a passo.
Let him in, but don’t reveal too much too soon
If you really dig this guy, you’re probably going to be tempted to be fully transparent with him and give him o vosso coração um pouco cedo demais.
That’s understandable, since you don’t want to lose him, so your first instinct is to just lay it all on the table at once.
But that’s exactly what you shouldn’t be doing.
As you’re getting to know him, what you want to do is let him in bit by bit so as to not overwhelm him, and to always have something new to share as your relationship progresses.
You don’t want to scare him away by sharing the gruesome details of your recent breakup (and appear needy or desperate) or by telling him about your painful period cramps on the third date.
Haverá muito tempo para partilhar tudo o que há de bom e de mau sobre si.
No início, mantenha a conversa leve e, à medida que a vossa relação se for aprofundando, o mesmo acontecerá com os temas da vossa conversa.
Don’t be a copy of other women, stand out by being 100% your authentic self
Isto é realmente triste. As mulheres tendem a distorcer a verdade sobre si próprias, dizendo coisas que acham que as vão tornar mais apelativas ou atraentes para os homens.
But the real truth is men don’t want just another woman who doesn’t know how to be herself and needs to play pretend in order to win him over.
As suas hipóteses de fazer com que um homem te persiga by posing as somebody you’re not are slim to none.
Mas o que VAI chamar a atenção dele é seres tu própria, verdadeira e sem desculpas!
Se achas que certos aspectos de ti podem fazer com que ele correr para as colinasÉ mesmo um tipo com quem queres estar?
Be yourself. Don’t change how you look, talk, or act in order to attract anybody.
The only person you’re doing harm to is yourself. If a guy likes you for YOU, that is who you want to be with.
Men like women who stand out and don’t cater to anyone’s needs. That is what will faz com que ele te persiga, so keep being you and don’t let anyone steal your shine.
Be fiercely independent but don’t shut him out
Nowadays, men are finally learning to appreciate women who can stand their own ground and don’t take anybody’s shit!
But don’t let your awesome independence make you closed off to him. It’s important to let him see that you’re a self-sufficient woman, but he still needs to feel wanted and welcome in your life.
Let him know how much you appreciate having him around. Just because you don’t run to him for help for every little thing does not mean you don’t need him.
All it means is that you’re perfectly capable of taking care of things by yourself, but he is still somebody whose thoughts and ideas you will always want to hear.
Mostre-se interessado, mas mantenha-o alerta de vez em quando
For sure let him know you’re into him. But don’t tell him tudo.
Let’s say you’re going for Friday night drinks with your girlfriends.
Simply let him know you won’t be able to make it to his on Friday, but you’ll make it up to him on Saturday.
That way, he doesn’t really know where you are and who you’re with, which will make him want to know even more.
And that’s where you’ve got him hooked.
Of course, you know that you’re not doing anything sketchy (you would never), but his mind can go to a billion different places.
And sure, on Saturday you’ll tell him everything, but keep him in the dark that one night, and I assure you he’ll be dying to see you the next day.
Faça-o ver que o quer, mas não a todo o custo
Okay, so you’ve probably really fallen for this guy. Every time you see him it gets harder and harder to leave him.
Podia ficar com ele o dia inteiro e não fazer absolutamente nada.
But don’t let him see just how much quer-lo. That’s when you lose the edge.
When he senses how deeply you really need his presence in your life, he’s going to know he’s under your skin, and you don’t want that. At least not this soon.
You want him to see that you love having him around, and enjoy spending time with him, but you’re still totally fine on your own.
Yeah, he makes your life so much brighter, but he’s not your sun. (At least make him think that.)
The only way he’ll chase you is by easing into this thing, and no matter how badly you want him, don’t overwhelm him prematurely.
Avance lentamente e mantenha-o colado a si, mantendo-se um namoradeiro misterioso.
You want him, but you don’t NEED him. And that is what will make you so irresistible and keep him on your tail.
Give him something worth chasing, and he’ll stick to you like white on rice.
