5 razões pelas quais não te apercebes de que és um verdadeiro desastre
1. You assume you’re a 1 when you’re actually a 10
A confiança é a chave que o leva ao sucesso, tanto no amor como na vida. És muito mais do que pensas; só te falta mais amor-próprio.
Don’t sell yourself short. Establish higher standards when it comes to choosing your partner. If you keep settling for men who don’t value themselves, there is no way they will value you.
À medida que a sua autoestima aumenta, aumentam também as suas hipóteses de encontrar o amor.
2. You pretend like committed relationships don’t mean that much to you
Atualmente, a maioria dos homens gosta de encontros casuais, quase relações and any other form of a relationship that doesn’t assume them getting too attached.
So you say you are OK with that too, that you don’t care much about relationships and that you are good on your own. You are lying to them and to yourself.
Don’t settle for something fleeting when you want someone who stays. Don’t say you don’t want a relationship if you do. Men will take that seriously and they will take you for granted. You are only sabotaging your prospects of finding love.
3. Está a ir para os tipos errados
Opta por ver o lado bom de toda a gente, especialmente de alguém por quem já desenvolveu sentimentos. É por isso que tem tendência para escolher pessoas iguais ou semelhantes tipos de homens.
It’s time you change that. Learn from your past. You are able to notice all the red flags, all you need to do is look with your eyes, not your heart.
Change the pattern, put yourself first for a change, don’t tolerate mistreatment from anybody and whatever you do, never settle for less.
4. You are trying too hard because you don’t see how great you are
Pensa que tem de dar sempre mais e trabalhar mais para manter um parceiro ao seu lado. É por isso que, embora as suas intenções sejam boas, excede-se. Traz sempre mais para a mesa do que recebe.
You get attached too much too soon, you do your best to accommodate another person and make them happy and you disregard your needs in the process. That’s the quickest way for them to take you for granted.
You are doing all of this because you are unable to see how amazing you are. You don’t see how lucky someone would be to have you in their life and it’s time you change that.
5. You don’t believe you are worthy of love
Maybe it’s your past that made you believe that you are not good enough. That you don’t deserve to be loved.
It’s time to shake all those feelings away because they have nothing to do with reality. Of course you are digno de amor. Just because you haven’t found someone who knows how to give love, this is a totally different thing.
Remember what I said at the beginning: don’t sell yourself short, you are a 10, not 1, and it’s time you see that for yourself. Work on your insecurities and emotional baggage from the past.
No momento em que começares a amar-te verdadeiramente, tudo correrá pelo melhor.
