Se queres ser a pessoa que ele nunca esquecerá, não jogues o seu jogo

The dating scene today is messy, to say the least. It’s filled with players and their manipulative jogos quentes e frios.

Naturally, most women don’t see much choice in the matter other than playing along.

Ao fazerem isso, ficam presos nesta teia de amor de meia-tigela que os jogadores construído que nunca será suficiente para os fazer felizes.

Let’s see if some of these scenarios sound familiar: You receive a text message and then you wait a bit to text back; you do your best to make him jealous; you give him attention then you pull away and pretend like you don’t care.

In a nutshell, you are giving him a taste of his own medicine. And while that works for a bit, it doesn’t give you the result you need, it just keeps you in the game.

Correct me if I am wrong but inside of the game isn’t somewhere you want to live. It’s exhausting and tiring to always keep your guard up.

Quer uma relação normal e amorosa. Quer calor, respeito e honestidade que possa retribuir.

You don’t want to think ahead and strategize your every move. You want love that flows, not one that is full of dams.

That’s why you shouldn’t play his game. You should have your own rules and do your own thing.

Não há necessidade de se envolver em manipulações e jogos mentais e de se rebaixar ao nível dele.

Ele deve estar ao seu nível e tratá-la bem ou sair da sua vida para sempre.

Don’t change your essence, stay true to yourself but by all means estabelecer algumas normas.

A única forma de obter o amor e o respeito que merece é amar-se e respeitar-se a si próprio em primeiro lugar.

Having standards means demanding that at all times. It means not putting up with somebody’s poor treatment.

Significa amarmo-nos o suficiente para nos afastarmos de situações que nos fazem sentir infelizes ou miseráveis.

Be the one who isn’t afraid to close her eyes, fall in love and hope for the best.

Sim, a queda pode ser má e pode magoar-se. Mas também podes continuar a levitar se o amor for verdadeiro.

You shouldn’t pretend like you don’t care or act like a bitch to make somebody like you.

Seja aquele que graciosamente se recusa a participar em algo de meia-tigela.

If he wants something laidback, casual, or no strings attached, tell him that’s great for him but it doesn’t quite work for you.

Wish him luck and send him on his way. Someone who will give you everything will come along but you won’t be able to notice if you are playing games that will lead you nowhere.

Seja a pessoa que ama sem se conter. Aquela que lhe dará tudo para que as coisas funcionem.

The one who doesn’t give up easily but knows that sometimes enough is enough and it’s time for her to go.

Ser a pessoa que persegue apenas se for perseguida. Don’t go after somebody who doesn’t go after you.

Don’t be the girl waiting by the phone hoping to hear from him. Don’t be the one who drops everything when he calls.

It’s not playing games, it’s not prioritizing somebody who never puts you first.

Sê a pessoa que constrói a sua própria vida. Sê tu que te orgulhas de ser.

Be someone who conquers her fears and thrives in spite of everything that’s holding her back.

Be the one who doesn’t allow sadness to stay in her life for too long. Be the one who laughs from her soul and smiles with her heart.

Seja a pessoa que espera o mesmo respeito, amor, honestidade e investimento que ela está a trazer para a relação.

Don’t settle for lame excuses. Don’t buy into stories that players use to lure you in. Don’t participate in the game… leave.

Don’t let him treat you like a toy and you won’t be remembered as one.

Um dia, esse jogador em que estás agarrado agora vai-se cansar dos seus jogos. Ele vai mudar.

Ele vai procurar-te when you lose all interest in him. He will look for you when you find your home in somebody else’s arms. He will remember your warmth. He will miss your smile.

Ele pensará em todas as coisas que poderia ter feito de forma diferente para que talvez estivesses ao seu lado neste momento. Ficarás encriptada na sua mente como aquela que escapou.

O problema dos jogadores é que só sabem o que tinham quando já o perderam para sempre.