5 sinais de que ele não é complicado - ele é apenas um idiota manipulador
Temos tendência a romantizar homens que são simplesmente ERRADOS para nós. Está na altura de as mulheres deixarem de tolerar os homens que as tratam como merda, de os justificar dizendo que são demasiado "complicados". Já chega.
Não devemos aceitar quem nos faz coisas horríveis e depois usar a nossa compaixão e compreensão.
If you’re with a guy who makes excuses by telling you he’s complicated, then you should read these 5 signs carefully, because it could easily turn out he’s just a manipulative asshole or even just um simples jogador.
Tudo parece estar bem, mas, de repente, ele afasta-se de si sem qualquer explicação
Começaram a namorar e tudo correu bem. Depois, ele afasta-se de repente e começa a ignorar-te. He later justifies it by telling you he’s scared and confused by his love for you.
Actually, he doesn’t know what he really wants, so he plays mind games with you. You don’t need
Actually, he doesn’t know what he really wants, so he plays mind games with you. You don’t need this, because real men don’t play games.
He justifies his abusive behavior towards you by saying he’s having a very difficult time in his life
He treats you really badly; abuses you verbally, emotionally and/or physically; and then he explains that the reason behind all of the shit he does is just because he’s having a very difficult time in his life.
But the thing is—nobody has the right to treat you like crap just because they’re having
But the thing is—nobody has the right to treat you like crap just because they’re having hard time. You shouldn’t tolerate someone who doesn’t respect you at all, no matter what his excuse is!
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He is extremely romantic, BUT only when he needs something in return, OR when he wants to crawl back to you after you decided to ditch him because of all the bad stuff he’s done
This is the oldest trick in the book. They become so romantic and gentle when they need something in return. You will thank God that he finally started showing his “suppressed” love.
Detesto rebentar a sua bolha, mas ele só o faz porque quer alguma coisa de si. Na maior parte das vezes, trata-se de tácticas de manipulação para te comer as calças. Vá lá, consegues fazer melhor do que isto!
Another disgusting reason for faking affection is when he sees you’re done with him after all the mess he made. Then, he will try to trick you by pretending to be so loving, just so you will forgive his manipulative ass.
Perhaps, it will make you think that he’s changed, but these people NEVER change.
Ele não tem amigos verdadeiros
If you date a guy long enough, normally you meet the people around him. So, if you notice that there is literally not a single person who is his real friend—that is a huge red flag.
Por mais complicados que sejamos, há sempre pessoas que vêem o que há de bom em nós.
However, if this guy doesn’t have any close friends, you should think about it a little. Why is it so?
It’s probably because all the people around him recognized him as a manipulator, and kicked him out of their lives.
He makes you do things you don’t like in order to prove your love
He’s sensitive. He’s fragile. He needs much more love and affection than anyone else. So, you decided to prove your love in every possible way.
O resultado? Ele está a usar isto para a manipular e conseguir coisas de que precisa, como a sua presença constante, sexo, dinheiro, etc.
Eventualmente, sentir-se-á encurralada e infeliz. Sempre que mudar a sua atenção para outra coisa ou outra pessoa, ele acusá-la-á de ser egoísta.
He can make you feel as if you’re neglecting him because he has power to manipulate you.
Queridas senhoras, tenham cuidado e sejam inteligentes. A maior parte das vezes, as coisas não são o que parecem ser.
Don’t let toxic manipulators trick you. And remember—it’s not your fault, he’s just an ass!
