5 sinais de que estás a perder tempo com ele
No mundo em que vivemos hoje, toda a gente está demasiado ocupada e competitiva para ter tempo para assentar e encontrar uma parceira digna. Os homens são particularmente afectados por esta situação, não porque estejam mais ocupados ou mais activos do que as mulheres, mas porque fingem não se importar ou estão-se mesmo nas tintas para encontrar um amor profundo e devocional.
A meaningful relationship seems like everyone’s dream, but for a guy these days, a hookup is the easier and more convenient option. Even if it becomes more than a hookup, it’s still a question of how serious he’s gonna take it, and the sad truth is that he is probably just wasting your time para as suas necessidades egoístas.
These are the 5 most obvious signs you’re just wasting your time with him.
He won’t consider real commitment anytime soon
So you’ve met, you like each other, maybe had a few hookups—what now? You talk a lot, and you really start feeling some kind of connection with him but every time you talk you want to ask him: “What are we?”. You hesitate with it because you’re too afraid of the answer.
If this is the case, and if he is not going to be the one asking it, then finally do it. If he doesn’t give you a normal answer, avoids the question or states his opinion and expectations of the relationship in a way that doesn’t suit you—end it.
End it before it consumes even more of your life because you don’t have time for that kind of game.
As conversas giram apenas em torno dos seus interesses
He never asks anything about you except the “How’s it going” question. After only a few dates, you literally know everything about him—his interests, hobbies, his exes, etc.
Yet, if you said that you like something, he will forget it in the next 5 seconds. I mean, come on, you’re better than that. Don’t waste your time on self-centered, homens narcisistas.
You can’t be yourself around him
Por muito divertido e bonito que ele seja, sentimos sempre que temos de fingir que somos outra pessoa quando ele está por perto.
Toda a gente quer apresentar-se da melhor forma, mas isso não é possível em todos os momentos.
When you two hang out, you don’t talk like you usually do, you don’t dress like you usually would and if you’re not around him, you stalk him trying to find out what he likes.
Don’t ever change for a guy! Don’t pretend you’re someone else. Don’t be uncomfortable around someone just to make that person like you.
You can feel that it’s not going to last for long, so stop wasting your time and keep searching for o homem que se sentirá em casa. Ele anda por aí!
He’s immature
Rapariga, de certeza que não queres perder o teu tempo com este tipo. Se ele ainda joga jogos ou tem figuras de ação que ainda estão na embalagem original, isso não significa que seja imaturo.
É certo que os seus interesses são bastante infantis, mas se o fazem feliz, quem somos nós para julgar, certo?
Mas se ele não for capaz de cuidar de si próprio ou de si, não vale a pena dedicar-lhe o seu tempo.
His immaturity can be seen in so many ways and his behavior will probably even embarrass you in public. When something like this happens—it’s time to bounce.
Não parece ter quaisquer planos para o futuro
Is there anything worse than people who have no ambitions and no plans in their lives? Why would you waste your time with a guy who can’t motivate you in any sense?
It doesn’t mean you should dump a guy who hasn’t achieved anything in his life so far, but if he is not planning to change that in the future—do yourself a favor, end it.
