5 sinais de que está a namorar um homem adulto
O homem-criança é um tipo de homem that is currently plaguing society, making the term “adult men” questionable for so many reasons.
Even though grown-ass men are almost an extinct species, they still exist, and you don’t have to settle for whatever boy comes your way. In fact, you shouldn’t settle.
You shouldn’t do that injustice to yourself and if you’re going to be with a man, be with a grown-ass one.
Por vezes, pode ser difícil diferenciar um homem adulto de uma criança, mas, com o tempo, torna-se muito claro quem é quem, e hoje estamos aqui para o ajudar com isso.
1. Ele é ambicioso, capaz de se motivar a si próprio e a si ao mesmo tempo
A man with no ambition is no man at all. If he’s lying on the sofa the whole day playing GTA V on his Xbox and has no intention of changing that, then he’s just a baby boy needing a babysitter.
There is nothing wrong in playing games from time to time, but that can’t be your only daily occupation. An ambitious man will always strive for his and his loved ones’ success. He will fight and work his way to the top. This doesn’t mean that a guy working at McDonald’s is immature—unless he doesn’t have a plan to change that.
His ambition and his plan to get from point A to point B will also motivate you to do better, and to succeed in whatever you’re doing. He encourages you to grow and try new activities.
He isn’t afraid he will be left in the dust and he genuinely wants the best for you.
2. Ele cuida de si próprio
Se um homem não está a tratar bem o seu corpo e a sua mente, como é que espera que ele tratar-te como mereces?
He keeps his body and mind clean, he works out, he dresses well, cleans up after himself, does his own laundry, knows how to cook, reads books, educates himself constantly, and avoids drama—this is how a real man maintains his well-oiled machine, inside and out.
3. Ele conhece o teu valor e aprecia-te por ti
He is not only saying that he loves you—he is showing that.
To him, you are a part of his life, a part of him. When you’re not around, he feels like a part of him is missing. He accepts everything that you are, not focusing on your differences and flaws, and knows that comparing you and your unique experiences to his own isn’t very fair.
He cares about you and knows that words fall short of the emotions he feels for you. He’s not shy to show you he loves you because you are one of the most important aspects of his life.
4. Ouve e aceita críticas
No one is good at everything, and everyone makes mistakes. It’s part of human nature, and if he takes reasonability for the mistakes he’s made, listens to you talking about things bothering you, and not taking constructive criticism personally, than he is a grown-ass man.
This kind of man is hard to find today. Most of the times, guys will try to point fingers or try to maneuver out of the situation, but you know that you don’t need a man like that.
Be patient, and wait for a man who understands that being wrong is part of human nature, that there is no shame in making mistakes, and that you can’t learn from your mistakes if you can’t admit you’re wrong.
5. Ele consegue manter-se calmo
If you get mad at a guy, you get angry and start yelling at him for whatever reason, and he stays calm, you’ve probably got yourself a grown-ass man. But if you get loud and he gets loud, you get a little louder and he gets a little louder—he keeps matching your emotions every time you get emotional—you know he’s too young for you.
One more example can be in a bar with him or with your friends: chances are that you’re gonna get hit on every once in awhile.
Em vez de se zangar e começar a bater no peito como um gorila zangado para assustar a concorrência, um homem adulto assumirá calmamente o controlo da situação e dará a conhecer a sua posição.
