7 coisas com as quais quase todas as mulheres com o coração partido se identificam
Já alguma vez teve o coração partido? Se já, sabe que um desgosto de amor é um dos sentimentos mais devastadores que pode experimentar.
E quando isso acontece, toda a gente nos diz que a tristeza e a dor iniciais desaparecem com o tempo. E têm razão.
Mas o que ninguém te diz é que o facto de o teu coração ser despedaçado deixa sempre cicatrizes emocionais inarredáveis em todo o teu ser. Ninguém te diz que cada um dos teus desgostos te muda para sempre.
Even though every emotionally wounded woman deals with her pain differently, there are some things you’ll definitely relate to if you’ve ever had your heart broken and here are 7 of them.
1. You’ve lost faith in love
If you’ve been hurt too many times in the past, it is natural for you to stop believing in true love and for you to think it is nothing but a fairy tale.
You’ve simply lost all hope that someday you’ll meet a guy who will show you that nem todos os homens são iguais.
After all those heartbreaks, you’ve started thinking about love as something with an expiration date. You’ve lost hope that someday, you’ll find a man with whom you’ll want to spend the rest of your life and that you’ll find a man who will love you, no matter what.
2. Recusa-se a chegar a um acordo
Some might think that all of the emotional pain you’ve been through has made you become too picky when it comes to men but the truth is that you just refuse to settle.
You don’t plan on wasting any more years of your life on guys who clearly don’t deserve you or on someone whom you don’t see yourself with.
Agora, sabe o que quer e nunca se contentará com menos do que isso.
3. Abraçaste a tua vida de solteiro
Another thing that your heartbreaks havebrought you is the ability to completely embrace your single life. It’s not that you’ve become selfish—you’ve just learned to put yourself first and to enjoy every moment of your one-on-one time.
You learned that you are the only one who can make yourself happy and that you don’t need a man to do so. So, you’ve decided to permanecer solteira até que o homem certo apareça.
4. You don’t let people in
When you’ve had your heart broken in the past, it is natural that you lose trust in people.
É natural que sinta a necessidade de proteger o seu coração e a única forma de o fazer é tornar-se cauteloso e construir muros emocionais grossos e altos à sua volta.
After everything you’ve been through, you assume that everyone who enters your life only has the intention of hurting you. So, you’ve become emotionally unavailable and you refuse to give people the chance to break your heart all over again.
5. Confia apenas em si próprio
One of the things that hurts the most about every heartbreak is the fact that the person you loved the most betrayed you. And this is something you don’t want to go through ever again.
É por isso que, inconscientemente, decidiu não esperar que ninguém o apoie. You’ve become self-sufficient and you’ve realized you are the only person you can rely on because this is the only way to save yourself from other disappointments.
6. As pessoas chamaram-lhe cínico
Have you ever heard comments about yourself saying that you’ve become too cynical, especially when it comes to love?
Well, if you have, this happened due to your heartbreaks and because you can’t force yourself to believe that others are in love.
It is simple—you’ve experienced a lot of emotional pain and one of the ways to deal with it was through cynical and sarcastic behavior and comments about your own and other people’s life and love situations.
O cinismo tornou-se o seu mecanismo de defesa.
7. You’ve become numb
Quando passamos por um inferno emocional, aprendemos a viver com a tristeza e ela torna-se parte de nós. Carregamos essa dor para todo o lado e, com o tempo, habituamo-nos a ela.
Com o tempo, deixamos de ter consciência do que sentimos e ficamos entorpecidos. Quando se está destroçado, já quase nada o afecta.
Aprende a ignorar todos os seus sentimentos, incluindo a tristeza e a felicidade, porque essa se tornou a única forma de lidar com toda a dor que, de outra forma, o consumiria.
