7 coisas que fazem os homens sentirem-se inseguros e as mulheres nem se apercebem
Sim, nós temos o poder de fazer com que um homem se sinta inseguro (por mais estranho que possa parecer).
Not every man is an alpha who believes in himself no matter what a woman says or does, that’s why we need to be careful. Men have feelings, too.
They will, of course, never tell us how they’re feeling or that what we have said has hurt them but that doesn’t change the fact that they start to doubt themselves or even the relationship.
There are many things that make a man feel insecure but most of the time we don’t even realize what we have done.
O seu ex
No matter what a guy says about your ex, no matter how many times he says that he doesn’t mind you being friends with him, he would like it much better if you would never see him again in your life.
When you mention your ex, he probably thinks about the way he kissed you, on those lips he’s kissing right now.
He thinks about how you two made love and he’s subconsciously comparing himself to your ex.
All your exes. It’s not that easy for him to forget that you loved someone else before you found him.
Os teus amigos homens
Se for demasiado afectuosa com os seus amigos homens, isso fará com que o seu namorado se sinta muito inseguro.
If you hug your guy friends and talk about them often, it’s like putting worms inside his head that won’t ever leave.
He’ll remember those men for the rest of his life and he’ll try to tag along every time you go out with those friends just so he can keep an eye on them.
Comparando-o com outros homens
Se compará-lo a qualquer homem ever, he won’t let that go for a long time, because that means that you have paid attention to something another man is doing or how another man looks.
Ficaria insegura se ele a comparasse com outra mulher, por isso, porque é que o faz?
Queixa-se sempre
I get it, men make mistakes, just like women do. But that doesn’t mean that we have permission to complain about everything our partner does, right?
Por isso, da próxima vez que o vir, que tal dizer-lhe que o aprecia e o esforço que ele coloca na relação, porque as suas palavras podem trazer as maiores inseguranças.
Fez batota
Not exactly in your relationship, but if you cheated on one of your exes and he knows about it, it’ll make him constantly fear that it might happen again.
He will analyze every conversation you have with another man and he won’t want to let you go out without him.
It’ll make him seem clingy and needy but he’s actually just insecure that you will leave him for another man.
Desrespeita os seus sentimentos
Telling him to, “Be a man,” when he’s crying or showing you his emotional side isn’t really doing him a favor.
Os homens têm sentimentos tão fortes como os nossos, por isso temos de os apreciar.
By disrespecting his feelings and telling him, “Be a man,” or, “Men don’t cry,” you’re actually telling him that he’s not masculine enough to be with you and he will start to think that he’s not good enough for you.
You don’t compliment him
What happens when you don’t get a compliment from him that reassures you he’s acknowledged your hard work or efforts?
Ficamos inseguras, talvez até zangadas, certo? Bem, a mesma coisa acontece quando fazes isso ao teu homem.
Da próxima vez que ele aparecer à sua porta, antes mesmo de dizer alguma coisa, pare-o e diga-lhe como ele está fantástico.
He’ll appreciate it and he won’t be insecure about it.
